Speedos at a nude beach

[FJD1]

I love the my thong tan lines, even going to the nude beach, the don't disappear unless you go all the time.

[Torchwatch]

The people that manage naturist clubs tend to have a drawbridge mentality. They have their place in the sun and want to stop anyone not in their own image from getting in. Families and married couples are ok to join but single men are not. Straight single men are a threat to their wives and daughters, while they don't want gay single men anywhere near their club. Straight sex in a naturist club is banned except in caravans and bungalows and the idea of gay sex taking place in their grounds is terrifying.

Since families rarely attend naturist clubs these days the clubs are left with increasingly old couples, slowly dying out while younger men are knocking on the gates and being asked to leave.

After giving up on naturist clubs the single man is limited to trying to get into naked swinging clubs or gay venues and saunas. Although you can get in and get naked in these places straight or gay sex may be taking place openly around you and it is up to you to walk away if you don't like it.

Naturist or a free beaches are really the only places where you can as a single man get naked in front of others all day without the expectation of sexual pursuits. A free beach is an unofficial nude beach, tolerated by the local authority usually because it is so far from the nearest road that no one would go there unless they wanted to get naked.

[NJHunkguy]

Speedos at nude beach, here are my thoughts:

Saw men nude on the sand, but put on speedos going into water, came out taking off again. Protection, as family jewels were out of sight in mystery, underwater.

Some people want to try nude, but not mentally ready. So remain wearing speedos.

Nude beaches are tour sites especially in the US. Small groups 2-4 people remain in swimsuits as they were sightseeing as tourists, taking in the experiences.

Some people just came in to watch naked people

I have seen ladies with top bra swimsuit on but nude bottom But their freedom, I am not judging.

[Byron]

Must be something in the DNA of some cultures that the sight of the human body of all or particular genders carries such mixed feelings of shame/freedom/exhibitionism/enjoyment/admiration/condemnation/curiosity /et al - which result in some very strange behaviours.
As for the family jewels NJH I think it's the piranahs in rivers one has to worry about (though I guess that if you are about to be eaten alive by a bloody great white shark, being dressed or undressed matters little).

[Byron]

Good summary - btw, have you heard the word pansexual Torchwatch ? (just come across it)

[NJHunkguy]

Wearing speedo going into the sea for protection, I was referring to protect against being pushed by the waves and slamming to rocks or sand base.

[Torchwatch]

No I have not heard the word pansexual before, my spellchecker does not reject it so it does exist.
I personally don't like labels for people's sexuality; the Nazis labelled some races as good and other's as bad and the rest is history. They also made homosexuals wear pink triangles then rounded them up for extermination.
As a single person I wish to create my own lifestyle without being labelled, judged and denigrated by others.
I also dislike those who are hetero-normative when speaking, without being openly homophobic they leave no room for positive bi or gay experience in a conversation.

[Red^^Speedo]

Originally Posted by NJHunkguy

Wearing speedo going into the sea for protection, I was referring to protect against being pushed by the waves and slamming to rocks or sand base.

When the surf fishermen are catching blue runners on cut mullet strips just 50 yards away, I've gotten nervous about skinny dipping and put my Speedo on to swim or body surf.

[swim suit eddie]

I've been a member of a men's private health club for several years. It is a great place, the the age of members varies from college age guy to guys in their 60's and all in good shape. I'm in my late 40's and also in good shape. Our club has a welcoming and initiation day for our new young college age members. Some of us are their mentors,myself included. Most of these guys are well built and love swimming and wearing Speedo swimsuits. The club has a large olympic size swimming pool with other facilities like the sauna rooms, steam baths, including a roomy gym area. The locker rooms have plenty of room for changing and showering. Late last spring our club had its new member's initiation for three young guys just accepted into our club. I was a mentor for one of them Some of the club's requirements included nude swimming and wearing only togas in the gym during group exercises. . I knew two of these new guy from our college alumni. They didn't know about the being nude club rule. These guys love wearing speedo swim suits, spandex shorts or men's leotards. On the initiation day they were sent to the locker room to put on their favorite and snuggest swim briefs. They really liked being in speedos and all three guys felt very relaxed having erections in their swim suits. The start of the initiation, was announced and the guys were sent back in the locker room,not knowing what was going to happen. A group of us senior member sat in the bleachers by the tiled pool area to watch the initiation. The three guys were told by the club sports manager, they will be called out, one at a time from the locker room, blind folded. Two young club swimmers will be their guides and to do what they were told by the guides. They will be judged by our club manager and directors, sitting with us in the bleachers. We will all cheer them on. After our club manager announced the start of the initiation process, the initiation began for these shy guys, still not knowing what was going to happen, the first new guy is blind folded and guided out of the locker to middle of the tiled pool area, directly across from us in the bleachers, wearing togas, as the manager directed the club swimmers guiding the new members select. The first guy looked great, his speedo was a bright yellow, outlining his full hard on. It seemed, the guys were told they will be escorted sexy women in bikinis. Little did they know. He was still blind folded as the manager had his guides turned him around a few times, then bend him over, snapping the snug leg bands of his tight yellow suit.He let a let out a yelp. This was okay with the judges, they wanted the new guys to start loosing their inhibitions and bare it all. He was turned around facing us again, he was shyly covering his hard on,well outlined in yellow. Now he was told to put his hands over his head, he nervously did it. The manager told the guides "loosen up his speedo". They slowly untied his draw string then pulling on the waist band. He still wasn't sure his swim suit was going to be stripped off him. "lower it" the manager said, it was some sight, watching the poor guy going through this unusual initiation. His dick was still very hard as he began enjoying his plight. Having his hands over his head, speedo pulled down just below his waist, with the dangling draw string, he was turned around twice for all of us to see how good his body looked. He passed with flying colors, now hearing the manager, telling his guides "Unsnug him". They began uncovering his full hard on now, as he squirmed and squealed, with his hands still over his head and blindfolded. What a sight, he was beautiful, as his dick slid free of the yellow speedo, being worked off his squirming body by his guides. They were gentle, yet firm, handling him. The guides were then told to strip it off him. when all of his firm ass was uncovered, they gave some more firm pulls and the clinging speedo, was unsnugged and off. He was finally naked, showing his full hard on. We all cheered for him when the manager had his guides take the blind fold off, congradulating him, that he was a full member now. He had to swim a lap in the nude, then given his toga and sat with me in the bleachers. He really liked it, having his tight speedo stripped off him,then swimming in the nude. The next new blind folded candidate was called and escorted out to the pool deck. He wasn't being cooperative with his guides as the were stripping off his tight purple speedo.He yelped and squirmed, trying to keep his suit from coming off, but to no avail. He was finally naked showing his bouncing erect dick. He also got a cheers from us once his was nude, then swimming naked in the pool. Later after the new member's initiation was over, the three guys went back into the locker room for a shower and change of clothes. They said it was shocker for them, being stripped out of tight speedo swimsuits by other guys and swimming naked in the pool.but they did like it. Everybody was good to them through their plights, they were good sports about it too. all three guys admitted that they jacked off together in the shower too. They rather wear speedo swim suits before swimming in the nude.

[area51tazz]

I just like speedos more than I like being nude. If I go to a nude beach, as Torchwatch said, it's to be with the more accepting croud.

I've gone to an Asian spa, so I have some idea what it's like to be nude in "public"...very liberating