The Japanese Speedo video Story

[sebbie]

At this point, the urge do ejaculate must be becoming nearly unbearable, but we are only 6 or 7 minutes into what is a 20-minute video. Now, the cameraman guy pulls out a squeeze bottle of a clear gel-like lube, and starts squeezing globs on his blue suit, near to and also on what is clearly the bulge of his long, horizontal penis right under the suit. The poor guy is still blindfolded. He picks up the sensations of what his happening to him but he can't see. The other guy is still fingering and fondling him on various parts of his chest and groin. The cameraman guy applies some more of the gel lube to the business end of the rotating, pulsating vibrator, and proceeds to hit his body at various random places. The guy, being blindfolded, doesn't know where he is going to feel the sensation of the vibrator next...his groin, the inner part of his thighs, his man-tits. Or somewhere else. The vibrator gets closer and closer to his penis-bulge, and hits his penis with an occasional glancing blow. Mostly the cameraman kinda circles his penis, touching all the areas on his leg and thigh all around is thigh, but only occasionally giving him a glancing blow directly on his penis-bulge through the blue suit. So at this point two guys are working him over and hitting him up with a variety of sensations. The loud-and-low growl of the vibrator motor adds to the mystery. He can feel the finglers of the first guy quickly moving over his chest and groin area. He can surely sens the vibrator head circling around his penis and touching his leg and thigh. He certainly felt something in his penis when that lube was applied from the squeeze bottle. After all, he has quite an erection going on under that skimpy-tight blue suit. And there is that occasional glancing blow.

For me, this is all really fun to watch, in part because his groans of pleasure from our Japanese Speedo guy tell me both that he is really enjoying himself, but also that it is becoming more and more difficult for him to struggle with not ending it all and ejaculating at once...a delicious combination of pleasure and agong...the poor guy is fighting the urge to ejaculate while enjoying himself immensely. Heck, this must be great fun for the two guys working him over as well. What new challenges can they think up to make his situation even more difficult? How much of this can he take? Where do we push him from here. The psychological and physical pressure on all three guys must be intense, and by now the two guys working him over must be feeling an intense urge to ejaculate as well. But, the video is by no means over

[a speedo minded guy]

Sebbie,

You have the makings of a good author. Please comtinue your work. Can't wait fo the next episode

[shaulis]

I believe I just watched this video. So far your narrative of the video is spot on. Please continue, I hope at the end I find that I watched the correct one.

[sebbie]

I desperately need to ejaculate! I desperately need to ejaculate! I would do ANYTHING if I could ejaculate! As you are watching this video, it naturally occurs to you that you would like to determine for yourself exactly how difficult it is to do what our Japanese Speedo guy is doing. In other words, faced with a bunch of different psychological and purely physical pressures to ejaculate, and a full-blown erection, can a normal guy somehow maintain his composure, his erection and still not ejaculate. Fortunately, you can run your own experiment relatively easily on your own. Now this will not be exactly the same as the situation faced by the guy in the video, as you will not have two other people working you over. I told you I was going to add my own notes to this, and that involves running my own experiments.

I have a plug-in vibrator that runs on AC current. These are usually a good deal more powerful than the battery-operated units.. The head on it is somewhat different from the head on the vibrator shown in the video. I have a blue suit, too. Watching the opening parts of the video is a good way to get a nice erection going. Meanwhile, I am taking notes on exactly the places the vibrator is going to in the video. All around on the chest, particularly the inner part of the thighs, then just touching the balls, circling around the penis, occasionally hitting a glancing blow along the shaft, and the even more occasional grazing of the tip of the penis under the suit.

So I try a series of these, attempting to duplicate the moves myself. Several observations:

1. The guy's ejaculatory control is even more amazing to watch in the video after having tried these experiments.

2. If you spend too much time hitting the shaft of your penis with the vibrator, you will get to the point whereby you will be in real danger of going off without even being fully erect. In short, unless you are careful you will go into an involuntary ejaculatory-spasm mode with only a semi-erect penis. These semi-hard ejaculations are interesting, if you have never done one before, but ultimately not very satisfying.

3. So, the trick in doing this is that you really need to be able to “read” your brain and body so that you don't push yourself using the vibrator past the point-of-no-return, in which you completely lose it. But this is basic for any guy trying to learn the more subtle points of ejaculatory control.

4. The trickiest part for our Japanese Speedo guy is that with the two other guys “doing” him, he has no control whatsoever over where the vibrator head goes next. Doing this myself, I can simply move the vibrator to another position on my body if I start feeling that ejaculation is on the edge of being imminent.

5. The science and chemistry on this is very interesting, and I've done some more detailed writing on that in the new understanding male sexuality book on Amazon. The short version is that as ejaculation becomes imminent, the brain sends signals to flood the muscles that spasm in ejaculation with nitric oxide. It is the flood of nitric oxide that causes the muscles that result in ejaculation to go into an involuntary ejaculatory spasm. Once the nitric oxide flood occurs, ejaculation cannot be stopped and is only moments away. A guy can learn to slow this process, but some point, the guy can no longer stave off the impending flood of nitric oxide any more, and ejaculation happens.

6. Some guys do not realize that the process that leads to an erection and engorgement of the penis biologically is very different from the process that results in the involuntary muscle spasms of ejaculation. The two processes are ultimately interrelated but quite separate.

7. I first learned about all of this playing around with the jets of a hot tub. Get the underside of the shaft of your penis close enough to the pulsating jet, and you will ejaculate almost immediately, erection or not. The sensation is something like the sensation of having semen vacuumed out of your penis.

8. It is possible to do much the same thing with a hand-held vibrator, even if your penis is contained within a swimsuit. And as your erection builds, you need to be more and more careful so as to not go into immediate and uncontrollable ejaculatory mode. The trick, of course, is moving the vibrator back and forth close to and momentarily on the penis and then quickly to other parts of the body, while you “cool down” a bit. Also, as you get erect, the underside of the head of the penis will be especially sensitive, and at some point just one touch of the vibrator head on the underside of the penis head could send you into an immediate and uncontrollable ejaculation.

9. So, somehow our Japanese Speedo guy has learned how to stave off the flood of nitric oxide, despite the enormous physical and psychological pressures of the moment. You can see that he is literally writhing and groaning in a delicious agony during his efforts to stave off ejaculation, and that is really what makes the video so much fun to watch. His brain is being flooded with naturally-occurring endomorphisms, and psychologically he is having great fun dealing with it all. A lot of the fun of gay sex is getting to see the partner struggle with this up close, and no guy, straight or gay, is going to be able to watch this without himself getting aroused to a cerain degree.

10. There are drugs that have the side effects of delaying ejaculation, generally those of the class of the so-called Seratonin Re-uptake Inhibitors, examples being the drugs commonly used to treat anxiety, depression, panic-attacks and in smoking cessation treatments (trade names such as Prozac and Paxil). As I understand the chemistry here, the Seratonin Re-uptake inhibitors is that they slow or perhaps stop the series of events that have to occur of the nitric oxide that triggers ejaculation to occur.

11. Straight guys taking these drugs sometimes complain that they can engage in penis-vagina sex with their female partners literally for an hour or more without ejaculating, and delayed ejaculation can become a medical problem. (If your erection lasts for more than 4 hours you need to get to the emergency room!)

12. So, given the difficulty I personally have staving off ejaculation with a vibrator I control circulating around and then on my penis, I am not saying this at all for certain, but the Japanese Speedo guy could be taking a Seratonin Re-uptake inhibitor which is to a degree partially shutting down the body chemistry that leads to an uncontrolled ejaculatory spasm, he may be getting a bit of “help” from one of the drugs.

13. YOU can run your own experiments if you want, and post your results here.

[sebbie]

Part 6
OK, the blue ARENA suit our guy is wearing has stretched out elastic around the left leg opening. The camera-man is abe to pull his penis and balls completely out from the suit through the leg opening, while leaving the suit completely in place, and his now fully-erect, fully engorged penis (it looks to be at least 7 inches long (who says Asian guys are undersized!). The guy's penis and balls are completely lubed up with the clear gell lubricant. The cameraman guy starts to stroke the Japanese Speedo guy's penis from tip to shaft. He must realize that the guy is close to coming apart because he doesn't do this for an extended length of time, but in short bursts of activity. The Japanese Speedo guy is really on the edge of ejaculation, but the breaks from the stroking give him an opportunity to regain his composure and cool things down just a bit.

Then that nasty low-pitched buzzing vibrator comes out again. The camera guy first hits him up on the nase of his balls. That must feel really really good. Balls get really sensitive when I guy is in a full-blown erection. Were I the one doing this, I would have hit him up with the vibrator in the perineum area just behind the balls too, an area that also gets extraordinarily sensitive and pleasurable as a guy reaches a full erection.
Meanwhile the other guy is still working him over with his fingers on his chest and abdomen. Now the cameraman starts massaging the tip of the poor guy's penis. Most guys would ejaculate in about 10 seconds if they start getting hit up on the underside of the tip of their penises, if they have not already. The cameraman has a stroking move I had not seen before that involves a fast flicker with the thumb right over the slit of the penis, at the very tip. That's a new move on me in that my focus in terms of sensitive penis areas has always been on the underside of the tip, the so-called frenulum.

The guy is now moaning and groaning with increasingly frantic pleasure. I'm not quite sure what communication is going on with the cameraman, but something must be happening, as the cameraman seems to know just when o stop stroking. Then the vibrator goes up right along the shaft, and takes glancing blows on the frenulum.

There are a lot of important lessons here for maximizing pleasure in solo sex. The vibrator technique in terms of sequencing is useful. The next time you have a full erection try massaging your balls and shaft with a vibrator. What you will probably discover is that the sensation is very pleasant. But then as you near the underside of the tip, the frenulum, you will probably quickly learn that the vibrations there are simply unbearable and you will be spurting semen almost before you realize it. I do not think that even with a good deal of practice, most guys will be able to hold back ejaculation when the vibrator touches the frenulum. Chemistry-wise, the vibrations on the tip must result in a near-immediate production on nitric oxide which floods and trigger the muscles that are the ejaculation pump. If you develop a method for staving off ejaculation when your frenulum on an erect penis is being touched with a vibrator, let me know, because I think it is all but impossible to do.

At his point, this video has been highly instructional for gay guys interested in safe sex while maximizing their partner's pleasure. In some ways, all of this must be almost as much fun for the two guys working him over as it is for the recipient. Keep in mind also that aside from some French kissing, there has been no exchange in bodily fluids. This could easile be absolutely safe. Really it is all about mutual masturbation at its most erotic level. There are important lessons here that would be useful for almost any pair (or trio) of gay guys. At least to this point, there is proof that great gay sex doesnt always mean risky anal or oral sex. That is just super-cool to know.
For that matter, for straight guys, there is also useful information. The techniques used on the guy could be applied by a female partner as well, and drive the guy goofy with pleasure. This is all really about sexual foreplay. This is another one of my book topics. Straight guys are often so fixated on getting penis in vagina that they miss out on all this other deliciously-arousing stuff that could be part of a terrific sexual relationship for both. Gay guys who are fixated on having butt-sex or even oral sex have the same issue, in my mind.

For me, we have now seen the important stuff in this video. The video continues for several more minutes with an anal intercourse sequence, which in my view is boring compared with what we have already observed and also adds some risky elements to the encounter. In a subsequent section I will have some comments on the anal sex sequence, however. For better or worse, my biases on that subject come out...to be continued.

[sebbie]

Part 7

So, I went to bed last might, my mind still fresh with the scenes of the Japanese Speedo guy straining and nearly convulsing to control his urge to ejaculate, even under immense psychological and physical pressures. For me, it was a quiet night. I dug out a pair of bigger (34 inch waist( solid black Speedos with only the little white logo on them, and pulled over my fuzzy plaid sleep pants, adjusted my penis to a comfortable position (even though the suit is pretty big, least as as my suits go, it had been worn only a few times and the fabric fit snuggly all around. I quickly fell asleep.
I did not awaken again till my alarm clock said 3:30 am, and the first thing I did was check to see if I was still positioned the way I had fallen asleep. Indeed, I was still horizontal, pointing right, just like the guy in the video. Not only that, I had a really nice semi going on.

I really like a nice semi. A nice semi is so pleasant to the touch. A couple of ideas I quickly noted. First, although some of you may think Speedo has been eclipsed by some skimpier and sexier designs, they still have something really really good going on with the fabric they use. In my condition, just slight taps with the very tips of my first two fingers is extraordinarily pleasant. It's almost like getting on a lane of something of a sexual pathway superhighway for a wildly pleasant ride. I touch various parts of my shaft with the tips of my fingers, savoring each new moment.

The Speedo fabric acts almost like a gel lubricant, allowing me to move around and enjoy each moment.

I think about everything I have been writing here and in my new books. In particular how the brain and sexual organs are linked almost as if they were a single entity. I tap my penis through the Speedo, then kinda hold it, even caress it. Each new move brings on a new, even-more-pleasant sensation. The images of the Japanese Speedo guy writhing under the stress of containing himself keep running through my mind, over and over.
Interestingly, I discover that other places on my body are sexually-sensitive too. I note particularly the contrast between the coarse-but soft texture of the fuzzy sleep pants, and the super slippery feel of the Speedo. Oddly, its fun to cup my But on either side with the palm of my hand and feel it under the slick fabric of the Speedo. And my balls just feel wonderful under the slick favric.

I fall back into a light sleep while caressing myself.

It's now 5:30 am, and time to get up and do a little writing. I never went into a full-blown ejaculation, but my night was immense fun anyhow. I think about how fortunate I am to be 65 years old and still have a body that can sustain such pleasant sensations. I could have pushed myself over the edge any time I wanted, easily. But I so much enjoy the extended pleasures that accompany maintaining an erection that does not go over the edge. That is an art that a lot of guys seem unwilling to learn or begin to master. You just simply can't be so fixated on ejaculating that you miss out on all the extended fun getting there.

I would have the same advice for couples—same-sex or different-sex. Don't be so fixated on getting off that the sex act that it's all over in a bout a minute-and-a-half. Slow sexual play is good, but languidly- slow sexual play is even better. This is the lesson for guys without a sexual partner as well. There are still plenty of things you can do to make yourself happy, sexually. I have a whole data base of these ideas.

So I get up and pull off my black Speedo. No ejaculate, but I have a stain bigger than a silver doillar from pre-cum. Last night must have been fun. Really, really fun. I need to do that again. And soon. Goodness, the story I could tell to help guys who live alone to enjoy themselves.

I'm thinking about all of this in the context of the video, but also in the context of the guys who claim they would never wear a Speedo, even to bed. For goodness sakes what gives with that? I keep wondering if these guys are scared of their on bodies and what their own bodies are easily capable of doing. Or are they scared because this is not sex involving a partner in a conventional way. Too much of a sexual Speedo fetish perhaps? I keep wondering about his. What drives some guys' fears and apprehension? That self-pleasure using a suit is still somehow wrong or even a little bit abnormal? These are all real sensations. Stay tuned. Your mind and body can go to all sorts of immensely pleasant places....to be continued.

[sebbie]

Hmmm. the link is no longer there,..the video must be down too..good I was at the end of my story.

Speaking of Japanese Speedos, however, I have been looking at some videos of how the Asian guys wear them. There seems to be no embarrassment whatsoever about showing considerable butt crack..in fact the lower the better! This as much a part of the accepted culture there versus here in the US, where showing butt-crack is mostly frowned upon. I watched a great instructional video last nite on xtube with both Asian guys wearing suits very similar to mine. They had a great deal of fun for sure with the suits on throughout the video.

Those Asian suits are really fun. I've been wearing both my Aqux suits as bedtime wear. That center seam that stretches feels really good at night. Equipment must be placed horizonally..down just doesnt work at all... Bottom line, I was off in a jiffy. The ther is warming up, and its a good time to start wearing something tighter and skimpier at night for sure! Highly recommended!

Sebbie

[swim suit eddie]

A college age lady friend told an interesting story, one day at the beach, where she met a lady somewhat older and heavier than her wearing a lady's one piece red and black colored Speedo swimsuit. She is somewhat petite for her age being in her late twenties and wearing her sister's one piece two tone green swim suit, a size that fit smaller and felt very sexy on her. After being with the older lady a while, she was invited to the lady's home where she could change into other clothes if she wanted. After some time and a lot of good conversations including some hot sexy fantasies, the lady took her into the large fancy bedroom while still in the one piece large swimsuit and my lady friend still wearing her sister's one piece tight fitting swimsuit that looked like a leotard. Little know did she know what a surprise she was in for, when the large lady helped her onto the bed tying her arms and legs spread eagle, telling her, she will tickle her all over including having her swimsuit clad body massaged with an electric vibrator too. She didn't know what to say, as she laughed and squirming her tied down body. The soft close feeling in the polyester tight swimsuit, the large lady's tickling,and being excited while the vibrator was rubbed on her feet, legs and upper body. As she still squirmed, the large lady said my lady friend needs to have a full feeling being tickled and massaged in the nude and still tied down spread eagle on the bed. My lady friend pleaded with her not to strip her bare, but to no avail while saying she'll really enjoy it, while untying one of her arms and slowly freeing the swimsuit from one arm then retying her arm, now moved to the other side of the large bed and untied her other arm and freeing the swimsuit shoulder strap and retying her arm. My friend still begged not to strip her suit off, yet the large lady would say "enjoy your new adventure, especially once I have you naked." The large lady would climb on top of her and begin peeling the tight one piece swimsuit down, exposing her slim breasts, despite my lady's restricted squirming, slowly the soft tight swimsuit would come down while the large lady continued joyfully stripping her naked. What a sight, my young lady friend tied down spread eagle with her sister's tight one piece swimsuit still half on her, as the the larger lady still wearing her one piece Speedo swimsuit would laugh and continued reassuring her that she should enjoy her new endeavor with the large lady, acting out her fantasy with another woman. She then untied my friend's legs, as she kicked and squirmed, knowing soon the large lady will have her out of that tight sexy small size one piece swimsuit. She managed to look down and seeing the lycra light blue inside lining now showing. Feeling the tightly clinging swimsuit slowly slipping off her, as the large lady straddled her squirming body, yet with her arms still tied and closely squeezing her strong shapely legs while trying to keep the large lady from getting it off. Soon she was overtaken by the large lady straddling her squirming lovely petite half bare body, as the tight sexy swimsuit began slowly slip out between her legs, as the large lady would work it down her kicking legs and finally off her, while admiring her now naked shaped body. My lady friend said "like me , as a man the feeling of being tickled and having her body massaged with a vibrator was beautiful, yet really sensational having her sister's tight sexy one piece being stripped off her by the large lady in a Speedo woman's one piece swimsuit.