Facts and acceptance

[PSDave]

in reference to NJH's comments about his beach experience. He only mentioned Spanish as the language of the comments. This does not surprise me in the least. There is this Macho mentality in Mexico that draws the real jerk out in the males. (females too when no males present) They treat women as 2nd class citizens and gays below that. (male to male sex is going on "the down low" and has no meaning, only sex and it is not gay - to them) While in two popular Mexican resort cities I was warned that if I planned a long walk on the beach alone that I should wear shorts or baggies not my speedo. It is not uncommon for a guy in a speedo to be attacked and beat up as gay.
It seems that when they come across the boarder (legal or illegally) they bring that mentality with them. I saw it a lot in Southern Cal and Mexico. I would say to NJH - forget it, consider the source and the mentality of the ones speaking.