The Japanese Speedo video Story

[sebbie]

I ended up watching the first half of this new video one more time last night. For me it was both educational and totally different than the usual "porno" videos involving two men.

At one point in time, pre-HIV, being a gay male meant that you were engaging in anal and oral sex with your partner.

As you watch the video take not of what I observed. The first pair of "wrestlers are actually a sweet couple who enjoy each other tremendously. The wrestling is simply a fun way of playing with each other.


But, most importantly, this video illustrates all sorts of ways that two guys who are close can enjoy being close without engaging in anal or oral sex. Pay close attention as to the loving way they oil each other's bodies. Just watching this might cause a guy who thought he was straight to turn gay on the spot.

The tumbling mimicking wrestling with the oiled bodies has got to be great erotic fun in itself. But then the video gets really interesting when they start playing with each others balls and penises.

Take note that each of these guys seem to know exactly how much fondling the other can tolerate without pushing the other over the edge. They keep edging along via what I would call the stop-start method and intertwining the sex organ play with play that is arousing but takes the immediate pressure off of ejaculating. Being able to "read" another guy in this respect takes real skill. Straight couples could learn a lot from these guys about making your partner happy without immediately going into penis-vagina intercourse.

Is this pair a gay couple in real life? I don't know but I certainly hope that they are!


All in all I found the video of the first wrestling pair enormously useful and I learned a bunch of stuff about the current range of sexual behaviors between men. The couple in the second half of the video basically ignore the idea that they are somehow engaged in a wrestling match, and get more immediately down to stroking each other's penises. That's OK I suppose, but not nearly as fascinating a video on the subject.

Watch and enjoy!

Sebbie

[Torchwatch]

In Japanese oil wrestling the objective seems to be to make your opponent cum first. Once you have oiled each other you must hold him down and work him into a lather.
Once held down on your back and unable to escape you must grit your teeth and edge as best you can for as long as you can.
of course once the looser has cum he might as well service the winner until he cums too.
This isn't love play, it a contest for the camera.

[sebbie]

Maybe both? I do not discount that some guys find it more erotic to do this camera rolling than in private. I have no problem with that at all...whatever floats your boat!

Is it more fun for a guy to masturbate in a swim brief alone in private, or with a male bud who might "help" you along on occasion? And suppose he is doing the same thing. Might you on occasion give him a "hand"?

And wouldn't all of this be more exciting if you knew a camera was running, and the video would be showing up on the Internet?

Are the two guys having done this somehow both gay or are they just engaging in what is sometimes referred to as typical "horseplay" when two horny males are given an opportunity to enjoy themselves and each other? Why should anyone even care about the answer to this question?

[sebbie]

Maybe both? I do not discount that some guys find it more erotic to do this camera rolling than in private. I have no problem with that at all...whatever floats your boat!

Is it more fun for a guy to masturbate in a swim brief alone in private, or with a male bud who might "help" you along on occasion? And suppose he is doing the same thing. Might you on occasion give him a "hand"?

And wouldn't all of this be more exciting if you knew a camera was running, and the video would be showing up on the Internet?

Are the two guys having done this somehow both gay or are they just engaging in what is sometimes referred to as typical "horseplay" when two horny males are given an opportunity to enjoy themselves and each other? Why should anyone even care about the answer to this question?

[sebbie]

Ordinarily, I don't watch Pornhub videos, when I do...

I was interested in videos demonstrating the use of VED and estim devices that might be useful in the post RP rehab "work" I have been doing. I ran into videos by this guy where he demonstrated the use of both in an edging application (as in see how close he can get to having an orgasm and then stopping just before an involuntary orgasm occurs)

This guy makes a few references to possibly being gay but the videos are solo efforts. It appears that he might in part be funding college from revenue he gets for the video posts. He never shows his face, which is smart for whatever future career he might have. As porn videos go this is tame and sweet stuff esp if you are interested in seeing a guy cope or struggle with being near to going over the edge but not quite there.

https://www.pornhub.com/model/xiao-qiang/videos