Random erections while wearing speedo?

[dm106]

Hey talzboi21 - I can tell you when I occasionally had the random boner issue as well, it will pass. Yeah, frightening at first to say the least. I've never seen anyone wearing a swim jock under speedos (how do u keep it in there without the straps or waist band showing?). On occasion - 2 suits but usually for drag in workouts. I agree with STS about wearing it now to get used to it. By the way, my take on square cut is they are just as revealing in the bulge department but do cover more "skin" thus have the illusion of being more modest. You probably could get a swim jock under those if you think necessary but most important is fit of the suit. It should b e politely snug and in compression mode, not loose. Modern lycra suits offer pretty good support so a swim jock shouldn't be needed compared to the "old days" when looser fitting nylon suits were worn. Since you are obviously fit, you should have no issue wearing a speedo from an asthetic point of view.

[SwimTeamSpeedo]

dm makes a good point on square cuts, they still have the bulge factor, but the extra material does alleviate some of the "on display" anxiety. I have some shorter square cuts that I like to wear when at events where my smaller cut suits might be a bit out of place. You might consider a water polo brief, which are frequently thicker material or double lined. Also, avoid light colors. I think moderate to darker colorful prints look hot on a guy and the colors can mask arising desires. Speedo makes some really cool fully lined suits in prints that are more along the lines of three inch sides. If this is your first time just hanging out in your coolest swimsuits, I think a slightly wider 3 inch suit is the way to go. You can mix it up with colors, cuts and even throw in a more daring suit if all goes well. Most of all, as much as you might want to "keep the shorts on" resist the temptation. Last, have your partner mention to his parents that you swim laps and wear racing style suits. That way, they know what to expect. As a fit guy, you will rock the suit well!

STS

[ReservedEnthusiast]

I agree about just wearing one around even under your clothes to get used to the feel. Alternatively/additionally, you could just wank a bunch of times before going out in them so you have less sexual energy built up and less chance of random boners. I've done that in the past. Just a thought