What to wear?

[Schoolspeedo]

Originally Posted by sebbie

Let me suppose that you want to learn more about how your body reacts to situations that are (largely) outside your conscious control. Let me assume that you own at least a half-dozen swim briefs of various sizes. A basic stunt involves taking these out of the drawer, examining each one and checking its condition.

Next, it is fun to line these up in order, from least skimpy/confining to most skimpy/confining. It is always interesting to include in the group a new suit, one you have recently purchased but have not yet tried on.
Then, what you are going to do is try on each suit in private, but in front of a mirror, starting with the least confining of the suits you have selected for the experiment, and only gradually moving toward the more restrictive-and confining suits. In my case, the least confining suits often have a 32- or even 34- inch waist, and I gradually work my way down to something with a 24- or 26- inch waist.


As you try on each suit, do more than simply stare at yourself in the mirror. Examine exactly how each suit fits you, and what position for your penis in each suit looks best and feels best for you. How does your penis feel when confined in each successive suit? Also, as you pull yourself into each suit, are you starting to feel the tightening sensation that typically occurs at the very beginning of each erection. As you pull each successive suit in position, are you starting to
get bigger? Explore different locations for your penis. Does one of the suits just feel better and more exciting than others?

Unless you are completely brain dead, the process of getting out of and then into a successively smaller suit is probably going to result in significant precumming, perhaps profusely. Take mental notes of all of this. Specifically, what was the suit that first got you there? Are we talking dime-sized precum spots, quarter-sized, or even larger? Take mental notes!


It will get increasingly difficult to try on, examine and adjust each successive suit. By the time you make it to the sixth suit in the row, you will probably be longing and clamoring more and more to have a full-scale orgasm. That is fine and to be expected as you near the end of the sequence of suits. Just take note that messing around like this probably not only taught you some things you did not know about your body and how it responds to what initially.


This is a great way to enjoy yourself and your suit collection when you are alone, but the same iea might work even better with a partner who is attempting to do the same thing in sequence. As you do this there is something hugely erotic about the simple realization that there is someone else near you who is experiencing much the same most interesting sensations and feelings.


Sebbie

I'm with you on this one. Nothing more erotic for me than to slip into a tiny swim bikini and I frequently go into my swimwear drawer and pose around in front of a mirror with various suits. As you say by the time I've slipped into the 4th or 5th suit that my penis is well firm and causing an obscene bulge. Most suits are of very slight Lycra or spandex and reveal most detail of the head and shaft. Some are so skimpy that the fabric is stretched to the limit. I love wearing as brief as I dare in public even though the fabric doesn't really hide the form, especially in front a female friend(of my wife and I) when using her hot tub. She has nice long nails and the thought of them brushing against my bikini keeps my semi.

[sebbie]

I appreciate your kind comments. For me the main issue in continuing to write here is coming up with story lines that my readers can personally relate to...both the dilemmas and the fun.

Again, I appreciate hearing from you and what you enjoy doing.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

A collection of “stuff” like Dylan owns can be really fun in all sorts of different ways. Like so many other guys, Dylan is very fond of being just a little aroused, but also maintaining a degree of arousal over long periods of time. Getting the arousal level to the point where it is just right so that it can be successfully sustained over a long period of time even while being engaged in other activities, say, going to class or working out, is the tricky part. How does a guy stay in a semi-aroused state over a long period of time?

Every guy probably knows the exact sensation Dylan is after, that feeling of tightness or tenseness in the groin area and really, in the lower part of the penis that suggests that something is happening there, but not too much of a sensation, at least not enough so that the guy starts to feel compelled to soon ejaculate. The exact sensation is great fun, but also quite subtle. I call it “riding the wave” the wave being sensations that radiate throughout the body when a guy is sexually excited, even just a little bit excited.

What does Dylan’s collection of gear have to do with all of this fun stuff? Isn’t a guy “supposed to go through a series of steps starting with a subtle but still quite pleasant sexual arousal, which quickly leads into something that is, well, “bigger and better”? Well, yes, and, surprisingly, no.

Once arousal is underway, stuff can move in very different directions, and one of these directions does not push forward into a stiffer penis that is accompanied almost invariably by an ever greater urge to ejaculate until ejaculation comes off. What I am talking about is slower and also sweeter. It might not lead anywhere that is harder and stiffer, at least not for some time. And maintaining that semi state is where Dylan’s gear can prove to be, well, quite useful.

College students are often very busy. They are learning new stuff and doing tough and difficult things. For a guy, enjoying one’s own body sometimes gets pushed back even though it is a very enjoyable thing to do. For example, Dylan certainly enjoyed that session where he masturbated with Josh watching him do it right there in the room. But that is not something a College student would or could do in public. What Dylan and Josh were doing is reserved for quieter, private times.

Still, every guy has moments in his life where his groin area feels quite pleasant even if he is not an actively-engaged masturbator. Should a guy just ignore these remarkably pleasant sensations or perhaps even try and help them along?

Everyone reading this knows that Dylan has no qualms whatsoever about enjoying his own body, even if this involves no one else. This is not a bad thing to do, indeed it is a good thing to be able to do this on a regular basis without feeling uncertainty or guilty about it whatsoever. I guess every guy in some manner greatly enjoys masturbation, but the real differences lie in a guy’s ability to feel OK about this. Maybe an infatuation with masturbation is ultimately bad. What if I get to like it too much, in which case I never get motivated to seek out a partner for sex? Is this bad for me? Will I end up being a loner? These are all interesting questions for sure, and maybe too deep to consider for now.

Dylan is a busy guy. He goes to class every day and is doing well, grade wise. He has gotten interested in working out at the gym too, something he never really got into when he was in high school.

Dylan has long been into snug-fitting clothing. This started even before he went through puberty. He loved how snug fitting cotton briefs made his groin area feel. As he grew, he liked to wear jeans and underwear that was nearly too small for him any more. As a senior in high school he graduated to even snugger-fitting skinny jeans.. More and more he liked how all the clothes fit to his groin and to a certain degree emphasized his manhood in the mirror.

This all led to the session where with Bill and Joe he placed the order for that Amazon gear: a strap and a cup, a pair of thong underwear, a skimpy little swim brief, a compression tee and jammer, and a snug-fitting wrestling singlet. It’s occurred to Dylan that any of this gear COULD be worn to class under his skinny jeans and maybe under a sweatshirt on top, and further, any of this gear might keep him going, semi-aroused, even as class is proceeding. He needs to be careful to not get too aroused, just aroused enough to keep the pleasant sensations feeding his brain during the lecture. Picking WHAT to wear to class under the jeans and sweatshirt could pose a bit of a dilemma, but that should be quickly resolved.

How much is just enough arousal, but not too much? Well any guy realizes that is where the drops of pre cum or ooze come in. These ordinarily are tiny enough not to leak and stain into a denim jean. But guys are normally quickly aware of when they are in oozing mode, because they will feel the definite sensation of moistness forming right at the penis tip and on whatever the undergarment happens to be.

Dylan knows. He can’t not know, because he has already been playing this wearing the underwear thong under his skinny jeans to class, and further, he made it through class and back to his dorm without completely going off. That came later, with Josh in the room.

What will Dylan try next to wear to class? Will he still be able to make it through class without embarrassing himself? Dylan is drawn to trying this because it is so much fun. But, what will Dylan try doing to himself and his body next?

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Dylan has been having a lot of fun trying on and wearing the various clothing items that he has purchased. These “experiments” and what has happened to his body by wearing the various items have left an indelible “mark” on his brain, a mark that is not easily overlooked or ignored.

Whenever a guy engages himself in this manner seems to lead to creating a special situation whereby the guy is flooded with the most pleasant sensations and feelings, feelings and sensations that a young guy just wants to relive over and over.

It’s funny how all of this works. Some people seem to associate finding this place containing special feelings and sensations with finding someone that you particularly enjoy being with. But that is not the only mechanism that makes this happen. Relationships of any sort are often fraught with issues and problems not the least of which the whole idea of forming permanent bonds with another person may be more than a little impractical, especially as a 19-year old college freshman. There is too much going on in a guy’s life at that age that doesn’t involve relationship issues.

The basic problem, of course is that testosterone is flooding a guy’s brain at that age, and driving him to perhaps behave in ways that might seem more than a little out of order. Guys quickly get focused on coming up with ways to get their bodies to create these special sensations, but if, for whatever reason, a sexual relationship with another person is impractical or impossible, there might still be other ways of doing it.

For example, Dylan was both surprised and fascinated by how his body so quickly responded when he put on that little Desmiit® Thong. The sensations Dylan experienced are still floating around in his brain as if they had just happened.

Dylan is thinking that this time, he wants to try wearing the little Desmiit® swim brief to class, under his skinny jeans of course. The room is empty except for Dylan, and he pulls the little swim brief out of his dresser drawer.

Previously, Dylan’s attention had been diverted to all of the other items he had, the thong, the strap, the Tesla® gear and the singlet. Dylan had kind of forgotten that he even had the little swim brief. But now it dawns on Dylan that the little brief might work well under his jeans as a substitute for his usual white cotton briefs. But, how will Dylan’s body—and mind—“react to doing this. Dylan decides that it is time to run an experiment to find out exactly what might happen.

For starters, the swim brief is not very big, but Dylan knew that already. Dylan slips on the brief and quickly discovers that the size he bought is barely big enough to contain all of his male anatomy, anatomy that will grow substantially in size if he gets sexually excited. What seems like a snug fit now is going to be even more confining unless Dylan can keep from getting excited.

Of course, just by pulling on the swim brief, Dylan is already somewhat excited, and his penis is already starting to get bigger. That subtle but distinct tenseness at the base of the penis—every guy knows that feeling for sure—is happening too. This is all fun to have happen, but a bit scary as well…Dylan knows all about that particular combination of sensations and feelings.

Dylan looks at himself in the dorm-room mirror, focusing especially on how he looks in the groin area. To Dylan at least, it is obvious that he is at least a little excited already. Mirrors don’t lie. But, there is a more serious problem at hand. The problem Dylan faces is one of finding a position for his penis inside the little suit. Down is workable assuming a guy is completely flaccid. But, if a guy has any degree of erection, the choices are either to one side or the other, or possibly up.

The up position looks cool, but only if a guy wants to show a big bulge, a bulge that might even be obvious wearing skinny jeans over. In class, that could get more than a little embarrassing.

The other option is to position the penis horizontally, with the tip facing either left or right. Dylan has experimented with a sideways position wearing his tighty whitey underwear. Somehow, aiming the tip toward the right always felt uncomfortable to Dylan. Pointing left seemed more “natural” to him. Dylan wonders if guys’ penises are like being left handed or right handed. That is, for some guys it just works better to consistently point one way or the other. Dylan wonders if anyone has researched this topic.

The Desmiit brief is very low-slung, barely covering the entirety of his butt crack when he is completely flaccid. Any growth puts pressure on the brief, and makes it more and more difficult to pull the brief into position to cover the butt crack completely. This could be an issue if Dylan were swimming in the brief, but the sideways position helps a little in this regard, but it is not a big problem given that Dylan will be wearing a snug-fitting pair of jeans over everything.

The other problem is that Dylan has started to pre cum. Would a guy expect anything otherwise given all the experiments with penis positioning and then snugging up the brief to fit tight against the crotch? This is leaving small damp spots of crystal clear ooze on the front of the brief. Three of them have formed already. This too should not be a problem unless Dylan starts precumming sufficiently that it passes on through his denim jeans.

So Dylan takes one final tug on the brief, snugging everything up in place, and pulls on his skinny jeans over. A tee followed by a sweatshirt complete the look, and Dylan, still feeling quite horny, is off to class.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan is now snuggly tucked into his little Desmiit® swim brief, wearing his equally snug-fitting skinny jeans over the top of everything underneath.
Dylan thinks “it’s funny how a guy’s anatomy works.” Dylan’s little swim brief is entirely covered up by the denim in the skinny jeans, denim that, interestingly, has a bit of Elastane (aka Lycra®) in it to make the jeans fit even snugger, but still comfortable to wear. Dylan is certainly OK to go to class the way he is. No one should be the wiser as to what he is actually wearing today.

Still, Dylan’s mind is focused not on his class work, but on where his penis and balls are residing today as he walks to class. This is the funny thing about guys. A guy can very easily get engaged about the ordinary events of the day and a guy’s attention is diverted from any sort of sexual feelings whatsoever. But if a guy’s penis and balls are in a very confined space such as the clothing Dylan is wearing, a guy’s attention is quickly diverted once again to thinking about any sensations from the groin area. Of course, the smooth fit of the little swim brief merely adds to all of this, plus the feeling always there that if a guy somehow is getting into a situation whereby he needs to grow some, will there be adequate space inside the brief to do so, and what might happen if adequate space is not available?

Adding to the dilemma is the skinny jeans with the snug-fitting denim bearing down on everything, which makes the dilemma of “what happens if I start to grow?” even more interesting. Guys are made to greatly enjoy having their male anatomy in places that are very confining. If this weren’t true, human beings as a species would have likely have died out eons ago.

But Dylan, right now is really “messing” with all of this. Sex with a female partner is something completely different, entirely. Indeed, what Dylan is messing with is something that largely only guys even know about. Females, for the most part, are clueless about all of this.

Around puberty, guys learn a lot about how much pure fun it can be just to play with yourself in private. This usually begins with just some basic rubbing and stroking of the penis with your hand from glans to base. This is actually an important learning activity for guys, because in doing this they learn about the touch and feel of various parts of the penis, the extra sensitivity of the underside, the super sensitivity of the glans area around the penis head, and so on. Every individual masturbation experience is also an important learning experience for guys.

But guys soon pick up on the whole idea that there are more fun ways to masturbate than simply running one’s dry fingers along the penis shaft. It doesn’t take a guy long to learn that the entire act is facilitated if these is something in between. Perhaps a hand lotion is used to lubricate everything, but that can quickly get messy.

But what about a piece of cloth instead? A piece of cloth that feels really smooth and slick against the shaft of the penis? Maybe cloth like what is commonly found in a stretchy swim brief?

For guys, there has always been a curious mixture of interest coupled with equal parts of apprehension and anxiety about the whole prospect of wearing a snug-fitting item of clothing made from a stretchy fabric. For those new to the idea the interest comes about from the knowledge that the slick, snug-but-stretchy fabric is made to order for better-quality self-administered sexual pleasure. The apprehension and anxiety is linked to the notion of getting a hard-on at an inappropriate time, say in the locker room, or worse, end up with an explosive orgasm. Still, the fun of being able to wear something that a guy always thought would be a great garment for improving the quality of masturbation cannot be ignored. The guy is thus being tugged in two different directions---a dilemma that is not easily resolved.

Dylan, this morning, is in a relatively “safe” place wearing what he is wearing to class. A bit of a hard-on, if it did occur, should be largely unnoticeable given that he is all tucked inside the jeans as . It is not likely that things will get out of control because if that happens, Dylan is aware that he can simply divert his attention to whatever is going on inside the lecture hall, and that should cool things down just enough to be manageable. Dylan’s body is telling him that he has found himself a place to be that can only be described as “most interesting.”

Still, Dylan knows he is in a “fun” place, body and mind, this morning. Maybe a place the other guys in his class do not know about or appreciate like Dylan does. Or do they? Dylan still isn’t sure where other guys are or could be in this regard, and there is no simple way to find out, either.

Maybe, but maybe not.

To be continued….

[swim suit eddie]

Much to my surprise, my physical examination was scheduled in February on Valentine's Day. I wasn't looking forward to my upcoming scheduled plight, but the doctor was a very pretty female and a lovely nurse helping her. I arrived there and signed in at the receptionist's desk. Because it was a very cold day, I was wearing warm snug tan colored overalls with a flannel button up shirt and underneath bright pink long sleeve leotard, tights and speedo style, pink colored briefs under my leotards. I felt very warm and comfortable in my Valentine's day outfit and underwear while sitting in the waiting room, when Called in by the nurse and escorted to a large examination room. The pretty doctor entered and went over the medical paper work with me, while still in my warm Valentine's Day outfit. Both her and noticed the bright pink showing under the flannel shirt and asked what I was wearing under my outfit. I answered that it was my pink Cupid leotards for Valentine's Day day and hoped I wouldn't have to give up my pink underwear for the doctor. I did bring other clothes to put on after my physical. The doctor then told her nurse to have me changed and in a gown, as she left the room with my papers. The lovely nurse would give me a nice smile, while closing the large privacy curtain surrounding me. She would say "okay Cupid everything comes including the pink underwear, and I'll help you if need be." Now I sat on the exam table, when she took off my winter shoes and socks, showing my feet encased in bright pink tights. Now only the sounds of me whimpering like a little boy, overalls being unsnapped "pop,pop" then buttons unfastened with front bib and zippers being opened "unzzzipp", as I squirmed and continued whimpering. Soon she had my warm flannel shirt unbuttoned revealing the bright pink leotards underneath. She was tickling me a lot too. I liked the way she was undressing me, but hoping I could stay in my pink leotard and tights, but to no avail,as the flannel shirt came off, then guiding me off the exam table pulling and tugging the snug overalls down and off. Now only in the pink leotard and tights, she wished me a happy Valentine's Day, saying "but those are coming off too," when the pretty doctor came back into the examination room to see if I was ready to be examined yet. There I was standing only in bright pink leotard and tights trying to cover my full erection well outlined under them. when the doctor said how cute I looked as a pink Cupid. The nurse was holding an awful gown saying "Valentine's Day is over for you Cupid, let's finish getting you readied for your physical," now turning me around, slowly unzipping the long back leotard zipper, when I arched my backed and whined some more, feeling a chill on my upper back, as she unzipped and the opened the leotard. The lovely nurse gently turned me around peeling my arms from the clinging bright pink leotard sleeves. The doctor would watch my medical plight begin, as the nurse continued undressing me with a big smile seeing seeing my now bare upper torso, the doctor then puttting the sthesicope to my bare chest and listening to my excited heart beat. Now the moment of truth came for me when the nurse put her hands around my lower half still snug and secure in three layers of bright pink leotard,tights and speedo briefs and with the doctor's help began peeling them down below my waist despite crossing my legs, squeezing my buns and trying to keep my erect penis from being unsnugged, the feeling of all three layers of clinging pink nylon coming off was beautiful. Both ladies were very gentle and yet professional getting the Cupid out of me. The nurse managed to free up my excited penis, while the doctor gave several gentle tugs getting the still clinging layers of pink unwedgied from my buns, while uncovering and fully exposing my behind. Slowly both nurse and doctor got them down my legs then freed my squirming ankles from all three tangled layers of pink. Finally naked, I was guided back on the exam table where the doctor began doing the physical exam on me. My naked body covered in only a gown, looked like tent city, as the pretty doctor gently groped and probed my naked body, then having me stand up again and with the nurse's help I was given a DR exam. Finally my exam was finished and I passed in good health. Yes once naked, my fully erect penis was measured by the nurse, showing me to be in good health. The doctor and nurse said I was a good patient and liked me being dressed in Cupid pink for Valentine's Day and made their day somewhat brighter. I quickly got dressed again in pink boxers with a warm pink shirt and baggy tan colored polyester trousers. I gave both the pretty doctor and lovely kind nurse a big hug, as they wished me a very Happy Valentine's Day. It was great day,making my medical plight go so much easier.

[sebbie]

It’s interesting, how everything has been working out for Dylan. Actually, Dylan’s case is what I might call typical for young men his age everywhere. Guys obviously wear clothing that ordinarily brushes against their penises without getting sexually excited or erect. They just go about their ordinary day-by-day tasks, in Dylan’s case, going to class, without getting sexually excited in any way.

Of course, this is not quite as simple as it seems. Guys all know that as well. Occasionally, sometimes when one least expects, a guy gets sexually stimulated, the so-called juices start to flow, and its off to the races, so to speak. Every guy Dylan’s age has experienced this too. The situation just “pops up” more or less, and suddenly all a guy can think about is the sensations that he is starting to feel in his male anatomy.

These sensations almost invariably are accompanied by a lot of strange and wonderful things happening. And some of these strange and wonderful things start to happen even before a guy senses that he may get erect. I’ve talked at length about how the flow of pre cum often marks the start of sexual excitement, and this ordinarily gets underway without a significant erection if at all. Technically, pre cum is the output of glands called the Cowpers, located some distance apart from the prostate which is the source of the main fluid in semen. There is still debate going on as to what the exact biological function of the pre cum is in human sexuality, except to say that the female vagina tends to be acidic, chemically low pH, and acids are deadly to semen. Every guy knows that pre cum is slick and smooth. Slick and smooth feeling fluids tend to have high pH, technically OH- not acidic H+ . This theory thus holds that the pre cum has a very useful function biologically in first neutralizing the acidity of the vagina so that the sperm don’t get killed and thus not be able to fertilize the egg.

So much for the science of pre cum manufacturing. Every guy also knows that any time spent oozing pre cum is just a great time to be alive, and illustrates that terrific connection between the body and the brain. Aside from being in the throes of an orgasm, oozing pre cum comes in a close second. If a guy wants to, he can ooze pre cum for literally hours at a time, delaying and delaying any further steps. In a situation not unlike Pavlov’s dog, a young guy usually quickly learns the feel of a wet spot of ooze forming in his undergarment right at the tip of his penis, and it’s not long before that sensation is associated with a very pleasant feeling in the brain as well. This is the exact situation Dylan is in right now as he sits in class quietly oozing pre cum as the lecture proceeds.

Pretty much every guy loves to masturbate, but a basic problem is that most guys aware of these pre cum moments want to quickly take things a step farther, as in stroking ones soon-to-be-erect penis. Dylan used to think that way himself, but he has gradually learned that there is more to being a guy than just seeing how quickly he can get to a point of ejaculation. The real point here is that the longer a guy can remain sexually focused without going into a full-blown erection and ejaculation, the more fun it is going to be to be a guy, and, further, the more fun the ejaculation is going to be when it finally does take place. A lot of guys are into speed in all sorts of ways. But there is more to being a guy than simply seeing how fast you can get it all over with. Much more.

What does that skimpy Desmiit® swim brief and the skinny jeans Dylan is wearing have to do with all of this? Well, this morning, they are something of an aid in helping Dylan focus his mind on his male body parts. Will Dylan get anything out of the classroom lecture this morning? That is an interesting question too. Dylan is wondering if the other guys in the classroom are struggling with all of this as well…these are frequently deep dark secrets guys keep from each other. Except for swimmers of course, competitive swimmers who must wear swim briefs as part of their attire for sport. Do swimmer guys in briefs occasionally surreptitiously check out other swimmer guys to see what their situation is in the pre cum department? You know, a dime-sized stain right at the spot where the tip of the guy’s penis must be located. Given how much fun guys have pre cumming. I don’t see how they could possibly avoid doing so. This is not about being straight or gay. All guys are curious about the question of whether or not other guys have the same issue, and, if so, how other guys cope with it.

To be continued…