What to wear?

[sebbie]

There was one more item in Dylan’s Amazon order that he had not yet explored, a tiny plastic envelope packet that had come directly from China, several days after the main order. Dylan had been having so much fun trying on and then masturbating while wearing the other items, that he had almost forgotten about the little packet now in his possession and at he very bottom of his closet dresser drawer. He hadn’t even cut open the packet yet, to reveal the contents. Dylan knew the packet contained a pair of thong underwear under the Desmiit® brand label, but otherwise he didn’t know quite what to expect. After all, he had never before owned or worn a pair of thong underwear before. This is certainly not something a high school student, living at home, would ever have in his possession. But Dylan was now 19 years old, and living away from home.

Dylan cut open the mail packet, and examined the thong. The first thing he noticed is that the thong was not very big at all, indeed tiny. Dylan had tried on the Desmiit® swim brief, and he pretty much thought that was about as small as this sort of stuff ever got for a guy, but he was surprised to discover that the thong was even smaller than the swim brief, a lot smaller, and with basically no back at all except for a narrow elastic back.

Then Dylan noticed something else about the thong that was unlike the swim brief. The front of the thong had a pouch, a quite large pouch, at least in comparison with the size of the rest of the thong. The cut of the cotton pouch was, well, interesting, to say the least, quite interesting.

By now, Dylan was at least somewhat erect just thinking about all of this and how his body might fit wearing the thong with its outsized pouch. There was something driving Dylan at this point that made him want to get into the thong just to see what the fit and feel would be like. It had to be unlike anything Dylan had ever worn before.

Dylan pulled off his clothes and pulled on the thong. Once he was inside the thong, he quickly discovered why many guys are fascinated with wearing something like this. The situation he was in seemed uncomfortable at first. A lot of guys, Dylan included, are invariably apprehensive about having the back of a thong cut between their glutes in what ends up being a quite sensitive area, and Dylan was certainly no exception in this regard. Dylan managed to take a deep breath and went for it. He quickly “settled down,” at least in that regard.

But there were other feelings and sensations for which to contend. Of course, a properly-fitting thong puts upward pressure on the perineum area, a very sensitive, often erotic spot with lots of nerve endings terminating just behind the scrotum. And the Desmiit® thong feels quite good in this regard. Proper positioning on the thong on Dylan’s body will push Dylan’s scrotum up and forward. Once again, this can at first feel uncomfortable not erotic, but these initially-uncomfortable sensations quickly morph into something quite pleasant and erotic.

Then, there is the pouch itself. The pouch needs to be just big enough to contain Dylan’s penis and balls, but not too big or loose. On the Desmiit thong, the pouch is sewn in a most interesting way, designed not only top hold the entire scrotum, but also just the right amount room so that the penis is worn forward not up, down, or sideways.

Let’s assume that Dylan by now is at least semi-erect as a consequence of getting into his new thong, (which, unless he is completely brain-dead, he will be by now. So Dylan’s penis at this point is at least somewhat hard and pointing straight forward in the thong, even as Dylan is feeling the sensations of the thong back cutting between his glutes and the upward pressure of the thong just behind his scrotum as well. The more erect Dylan gets, the more the thong pulls between the glutes and upward in the perineum area. Those sensations while getting bigger and bigger is part of the fun for sure.

The thong pouch pushes Dylan’s penis so it is pointing nearly straight forward from inside the thong. Even more interesting, the underside of Dylan’s penis is quite accessible, if Dylan decides that he needs to stroke or otherwise play with the sensitive underside of his penis. This is a terrific “predicament for a guy’s most sensitive parts to be in for sure. This is just a great opportunity for a guy to enjoy the sensations his mind and body are capable of producing. Dylan is certainly no exception in this regard. In fact, Dylan is completely “hooked” on what he is experiencing in his mind and body right now. It occurs to Dylan that it would be fin to put his Tesla® compression shorts on right over the thong. With Dylan’s penis being as hard as it is, and pressing forward against the short, it should appear as a really neat “button”. Dylan pulls on the Tesla® shorts and looks at himself in the mirror. WOW!

To be continued…..

[sebbie]

Dylan has been doing a lot of thinking lately, both about where his live has gone as a guy so far and where it appears to be headed now that he is officially a young adult in college.

Ever since the dawn of puberty, maybe even a bit before, Dylan was always fascinated by clothing that fit him snug in the groin. It is at puberty that most guys quickly learn that rubbing and stroking their penises feels really good, and this quickly morphs into a situation whereby a guy discovers that there are a nearly endless variety of pleasant sensations that are possible. Dylan quickly tended to look at this somewhat philosophically, in that a guy’s penis is capable of giving back an entire lifetime of ever new and fascinating sensations. Dylan had always thought that his understanding of all of this must be unique among his male friends the same or similar age. Dylan noticed that most of his guy friends at age 13 or 14 quickly become focused on girls their age. But in Dylan’s case at least he did not exactly feel what must have been a strong tug that was affecting how his male friends acted and what their interests appeared to be.

Dylan had always been a quiet, studious and serious kid and some of the things that his buddies were talking about, and if they dared, doing, didn’t seem to have that much appeal to him. But Dylan’s groin area was capable of giving him back some very powerful sensations under certain circumstances, circumstances that Dylan had kept quiet about during all of his high school years.

It’s funny how all of this has developed for Dylan. Once a guy figures out the pleasure to be had just by rubbing and stroking one’s own penis, a guy quickly figures out that there are certain items of clothing that can “accidentally” help along with the same thing. I suppose the first clothing item that guys that age soon discover is snug-fitting cotton brief underwear, often known as “tighty whiteys”. Dylan loved wearing these, but also as a teenager constantly worried that if he got too “carried away” so to speak, he would end up with an erection in a place where for a host of different reasons, it was not appropriate to have an erection. As a young high school student, Dylan noticed at the gym that most of the guys his age had switched over to wearing loose-fitting cotton boxers. Dylan surmised that this was because his male buddies were equally concerned about the possibility of ending up with a giant erection at some inopportune place or time, and that the snugger the fit, the greater those odds were. Dylan surmised that this was what was really going on in the heads of his buddies, but, like nearly all guys his age, Dylan never dared raise the subject with them for fear of the consequences should they take what he was asking the wrong way.

Of course, growing up, Dylan’s body was growing as well, which meant that the clothing Dylan had worn comfortably only a year or so ago was suddenly fitting quite snug. This particularly applied to his cotton briefs. Interestingly, Dylan had a special spot in a bottom dresser drawer back home where he kept pairs of tighty whiteys that, quite frankly, he realized he had outgrown. Dylan at an early age discovered that these were still quite useful to keep around, as the pairs with the tightest and snuggest fit were helpful “aids” in jerking off. So Dylan had what might be called a special collection of clothing items that he enjoyed masturbating into. Dylan surmised that his buddies might be enjoying the same ideas or at least something similar, but, of course, he never dared ask.

Then there were the jeans. Dylan knew that a snug-fitting pair of jeans could have some of the same effects, and, indeed, the combination of an overly snug pair of tighty whiteys could be, well, really fun. Dylan loved to look at himself in the mirror as he pulled on his favorite pair of old briefs, along with a pair of jeans that only recently fit him OK. The combination of the two really sent him off into another world.

So, now Dylan is a 19 y/o college student. Dylan has discovered something that up until now he had only speculated about—that guys actually go out and make purchases of specific snug-fitting clothing items with an eye toward finding the specific items that would be most fun to jerk off in. Dylan has gotten a huge “education” about all of this from Bill and Joe, and for that matter, from Tony and Donovan. What Dylan purchased in the Amazon® order was a huge move forward (or perhaps, backward) in this regard. There is suddenly all sorts of stuff going on in Dylan’s brain and body that Dylan had not experienced as a lowly high school student.

Dylan is excited, if you know what I am saying, but also a little scared. For starters, how much of this has Josh figured out with respect to exactly what is going on? Is Dylan messing around with stuff that is basically “gay” or can a guy continue to claim to be straight even as he enjoys all this stuff? What is Josh REALLY making of all of this? Is Josh starting to interpret this all as a form of gay behavior? Does Josh find it in some way interesting to see Dylan wearing his new garb? Josh SEEMS OK with what Dylan is doing, but is that really the case? What happens if Dylan ends up enjoying himself “too much”? Does that mean he is no longer straight?

And what if Josh buys some clothing items of his own? Can Dylan in any way admit to being turned on by helping Josh to do that? Bill and Joe are pretty obviously each turned on simply by observing what the other one is doing, but should that mean that Bill and Joe are actually gay and somehow no longer even interested in dating girls? And what about if Josh decides to try on his new items in the dorm room right front of Dylan? Should Dylan run and hide instead? Will Josh be OK with Dylan watching him? What happens if Dylan starts to get an erection just watching Josh?

Lots of interesting and complicated questions that need to be answered, for sure.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan has been doing a lot of thinking lately, both about where his live has gone as a guy so far and where it appears to be headed now that he is officially a young adult in college.

Ever since the dawn of puberty, maybe even a bit before, Dylan was always fascinated by clothing that fit him snug in the groin. It is at puberty that most guys quickly learn that rubbing and stroking their penises feels really good, and this quickly morphs into a situation whereby a guy discovers that there are a nearly endless variety of pleasant sensations that are possible. Dylan quickly tended to look at this somewhat philosophically, in that a guy’s penis is capable of giving back an entire lifetime of ever new and fascinating sensations. Dylan had always thought that his understanding of all of this must be unique among his male friends the same or similar age. Dylan noticed that most of his guy friends at age 13 or 14 quickly become focused on girls their age. But in Dylan’s case at least he did not exactly feel what must have been a strong tug that was affecting how his male friends acted and what their interests appeared to be.

Dylan had always been a quiet, studious and serious kid and some of the things that his buddies were talking about, and if they dared, doing, didn’t seem to have that much appeal to him. But Dylan’s groin area was capable of giving him back some very powerful sensations under certain circumstances, circumstances that Dylan had kept quiet about during all of his high school years.

It’s funny how all of this has developed for Dylan. Once a guy figures out the pleasure to be had just by rubbing and stroking one’s own penis, a guy quickly figures out that there are certain items of clothing that can “accidentally” help along with the same thing. I suppose the first clothing item that guys that age soon discover is snug-fitting cotton brief underwear, often known as “tighty whiteys”. Dylan loved wearing these, but also as a teenager constantly worried that if he got too “carried away” so to speak, he would end up with an erection in a place where for a host of different reasons, it was not appropriate to have an erection. As a young high school student, Dylan noticed at the gym that most of the guys his age had switched over to wearing loose-fitting cotton boxers. Dylan surmised that this was because his male buddies were equally concerned about the possibility of ending up with a giant erection at some inopportune place or time, and that the snugger the fit, the greater those odds were. Dylan surmised that this was what was really going on in the heads of his buddies, but, like nearly all guys his age, Dylan never dared raise the subject with them for fear of the consequences should they take what he was asking the wrong way.

Of course, growing up, Dylan’s body was growing as well, which meant that the clothing Dylan had worn comfortably only a year or so ago was suddenly fitting quite snug. This particularly applied to his cotton briefs. Interestingly, Dylan had a special spot in a bottom dresser drawer back home where he kept pairs of tighty whiteys that, quite frankly, he realized he had outgrown. Dylan at an early age discovered that these were still quite useful to keep around, as the pairs with the tightest and snuggest fit were helpful “aids” in jerking off. So Dylan had what might be called a special collection of clothing items that he enjoyed masturbating into. Dylan surmised that his buddies might be enjoying the same ideas or at least something similar, but, of course, he never dared ask.

Then there were the jeans. Dylan knew that a snug-fitting pair of jeans could have some of the same effects, and, indeed, the combination of an overly snug pair of tighty whiteys could be, well, really fun. Dylan loved to look at himself in the mirror as he pulled on his favorite pair of old briefs, along with a pair of jeans that only recently fit him OK. The combination of the two really sent him off into another world.

So, now Dylan is a 19 y/o college student. Dylan has discovered something that up until now he had only speculated about—that guys actually go out and make purchases of specific snug-fitting clothing items with an eye toward finding the specific items that would be most fun to jerk off in. Dylan has gotten a huge “education” about all of this from Bill and Joe, and for that matter, from Tony and Donovan. What Dylan purchased in the Amazon® order was a huge move forward (or perhaps, backward) in this regard. There is suddenly all sorts of stuff going on in Dylan’s brain and body that Dylan had not experienced as a lowly high school student.

Dylan is excited, if you know what I am saying, but also a little scared. For starters, how much of this has Josh figured out with respect to exactly what is going on? Is Dylan messing around with stuff that is basically “gay” or can a guy continue to claim to be straight even as he enjoys all this stuff? What is Josh REALLY making of all of this? Is Josh starting to interpret this all as a form of gay behavior? Does Josh find it in some way interesting to see Dylan wearing his new garb? Josh SEEMS OK with what Dylan is doing, but is that really the case? What happens if Dylan ends up enjoying himself “too much”? Does that mean he is no longer straight?

And what if Josh buys some clothing items of his own? Can Dylan in any way admit to being turned on by helping Josh to do that? Bill and Joe are pretty obviously each turned on simply by observing what the other one is doing, but should that mean that Bill and Joe are actually gay and somehow no longer even interested in dating girls? And what about if Josh decides to try on his new items in the dorm room right front of Dylan? Should Dylan run and hide instead? Will Josh be OK with Dylan watching him? What happens if Dylan starts to get an erection just watching Josh?

Lots of interesting and complicated questions that need to be answered, for sure.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan got up this morning, feeling, well, more than a little horny. What exactly was going on with his body last night seems to be in something of a foggy haze. He slept through the night OK, pretty much, but this morning he recalls, if somewhat vaguely, moments (he thinks might have been around 2:30 AM) where he had what can only be described in his mind as a massive male erection. He doesn’t recall ejaculating at all during the night, and there are no tell-tale stains either on his bed-time clothing or the sheets that would provide any sort of clear evidence that he did. Despite having a big hard-on during the night, he must have held everything in.

Now Dylan knows all about the so-called nocturnal emissions, often referred to as wet dreams. But Dylan had neither a nocturnal emission nor, as he can recall, anything like a wet dream during the night. Still, Dylan knew that something was going on inside his body last night, something that could end up being embarrassing, but also offering him up a whole lot of pleasant feelings and sensations.

Dylan has had these experiences before. He has learned that in the morning, he feels one way if, during the night, he ejaculated in his bed, but psychologically quite different if there was just one or more erections, maybe big erections that did not somehow conclude with puddles of ejaculate. If the ejaculation happened during the night, usually Dylan wakes up in the morning feeling anything but horny. If anything, he awakens feeling a little tired. Maybe a better term would be exhausted. But, if the one or more serious erections occurred during the night that did not lead to ejaculation, he wakes up feeling horny, and seemingly his mind is almost totally preoccupied thinking about his private parts. Dylan always has thought that these two experiences were more than a little odd, but since he went into puberty, he has somehow learned a little about how to deal with all of this.

Dylan realizes that a nocturnal emission is actually something of a tension reliever the next morning, but somehow he wakes up not quite feeling as energetic as he does if the ejaculation did not happen. Dylan at some level also realizes that a lot of guys in his “unresolved” condition will wake up very focused on thinking about females, and in particular female private parts. But Dylan, at least this morning, is not there to the degree that he senses that some of his male friends get when faced with the exact same situation. Dylan is more nearly focused on his own private parts.

But there is more going on in Dylan’s brain than that. Ever since he got the Amazon order with all the stuff in it, he cannot help thinking about how his body would feel wearing each of the various items.

Dylan has a rather slender body, and he owns a couple pairs of the currently fashionable skinny jeans that he likes to wear to his classes. One of the pairs fits particularly tight and snug on Dylan’s frame. The waist size is 29 inches on those, an inch smaller than Dylan normally wears. But the jeans fit Dylan well, quite snug through his thighs and over his butt, with a nice low rise too. Dylan starts to pre cum just thinking about all of this. If Dylan is pre-cumming already just thinking about those jeans, that is more than ample evidence that he is feeling pretty horny.

Dylan starts to thinking about all the items he has from the order, and whether this might be the morning to wear one of the items to class under the skinny jeans, of course. A horny condition as Dylan is in with the lack of resolution during the night makes Dylan think about this possibility more and more intently. But which item?

Well, the strap with the cup is certainly a possibility. Dylan likes the strap and cup a lot but worries that this option may be a little too over the top at least on the first day of trying this scheme. For starters, the jeans may fit so tight that it would be obvious to others that there is something, namely the cup, right under the jeans. And what if he needs to pee? How does he deal with the cup standing at the urinal in the men’s restroom?

Naw, the first time at this needs to be a bit more subtle. The tiny little Desmiit swim brief, maybe? That is certainly a possibility, but maybe that is going overboard in the opposite direction of being a bit two subtle given how Dylan is feeling this morning.

A third possibility is the little Desmiit thong. Dylan knows that the thong is good at pressing his private parts up and forward. That outline under the jeans may make it appear that Dylan is “well endowed”, but not oddly so. And, at the restroom urinal he can just pull his penis out over the waistband of the little thong. Then there is that little strap between his butt cheeks which is certainly going to “capture his attention” in various ways as he walks off to class.

Dylan grabs the thong and puts it on. He pulls on those snug little jeans over. Wow! A great feeling with both items taken together. Dylan does not want the horny sensations to be so strong that he goes into full-scale ejaculation mode while listening to the classroom lecture. But he does not want to lose that terrific horny feeling that has occupied his mind and body since he awakened this morning either. This combination seems perfect.

Dylan pulls on tee shirt with a sweatshirt over. And he is off to class, still feeling horny as all get out.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Dylan makes it to class, and finds his seat in the lecture hall, but he finds it difficult to keep his mind focused on the lecture in front of him. Dylan begins to think that it might have not been the brainiest idea to go off to class in the state of horniness he was in, without relieving himself first. Still, had he done that so late in the morning, he knew he would have likely felt sluggish and drained all day long. If you must relieve yourself, better to do that just before bedtime, so you have the night to recover.

Dylan’s choice of clothing to wear to class only makes his struggle with himself that much worse to bear. To be sure, Dylan is enjoying himself, very much so, but he is facing a problem not unlike what he faced when he was much younger, only 13 or 14 years old. At that point in time he was in near constant agony over the prospect of going into a full-scale ejaculation mode at a very inopportune time, place or both. Of course, that worry is nearly a constant source of agony for guys that age, but Dylan realizes that he is 19 years old now, and his mind and body should be far enough along in development such that he has developed enough control such that the problem is no longer a big concern, if at all.

Dylan has reached a point in his life where he greatly enjoys playing with his body in this regard, but what he did is, at least to a degree, pushing the limits for him. In some ways, Dylan thinks it is fun to try and press the limits right up to the edge, and then figuring out exactly when and how he needs to back off from going over the edge. However interesting this is, Dylan on occasion has been known to not always have his timing down exactly. The urge to ejaculate, on occasion, can be overwhelming, especially if a guy is messing around with himself on the very edge of going off. Sometimes, it is no longer possible to back off, even if the guy thinks he has developed a high degree of control over when he ejaculates that he did not have only a few years earlier.

Dylan has no one to blame but himself for the situation he now finds himself in. The thong underwear he chose to wear under those snug-fitting skinny jeans poses an interesting problem. The guys who wear thong underwear regularly, if not every day, probably eventually get “used” to the unique thong sensations from the snug pouch, the perineum area just behind the scrotum, and the rear band riding up between the butt cheeks, but for Dylan, having only tried on the underwear a time or two before, and in the privacy of his dorm room, all these sensations are still quite new and what might best be termed, “novel” to Dylan’s body. Dylan’s mind keeps getting dragged into what he is feeling and experiencing down there as the thong tugs on all sorts of places Dylan never knew before were sensitive and, for want of a better word, sexually “active.”

In this kind of a situation, Dylan’s body parts react to these new feelings and sensations the only way they know how. Furthermore, it didn’t help for Dylan to wear his tightest and snuggest pair of skinny jeans over the thong. Dylan is primarily concerned now that

1. The thong pouch is tiny compared to the pouch and absorbent cloth in any of his other non-thong underwear. So if he does go over the edge, there is little cloth to absorb any of the ejaculate, which is going to end up on his jeans.

2. The snug fit of the jeans that fit tightly against the pouch of the thong only add to the dilemma, making it all almost certain that there is going to be a very large wet spot right on the fly of his jeans.

At this point Dylan must avoid going over the edge and into full-scale ejaculation mode if at all possible, because the downside of a full-blown ejaculation is just too messy to even contemplate. I suppose one way of dealing with the situation at hand is to try and focus his mind on the lecture if he possibly can. But Dylan is now at the point where he is once again experiencing the same sensations, feelings and fears as he did as a 14-year old.

Penises do what penises do. Penises greatly enjoy being in confined spaces, and when they are in such a situation, they reward their owners with the most wonderful feelings and sensations. Penises have a remarkable ability to work their magic in whatever space they are given to expand. Penises love to grow in size to the point where they are pressing against all sides of whatever contains them. Dylan knows that, and part of Dylan’s fascination with the thong underwear and, for that matter, with the skinny jeans both of which give Dylan’s penis only a very limited space. As the penis comes in contact with the walls of what is confining it, it emanates the most sensational of feelings in Dylan’s brain. Dylan knows this, and that in large measure is how he got himself in the predicament he is now in.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan is thinking about all sorts of weighty stuff related to exactly what it means to be an adult male. Taking on a serious relationship with partner sex has many issues for any guy of any age, but particularly has a lot of down-sides for a 19-year old college freshman. But what is a guy like Dylan supposed to do? Practical solutions are few and far between to the problem of male hormones circulating and intentional and unintentional erections occurring, sometimes seemingly almost relentlessly, not only at night (aka wet dreams) but often during the day as well.

Males learn at a very early age that penises greatly enjoy being contained within a confined space, and oftentimes the snugger, the better. It is only somewhat later in life that it probably occurs to them that this is largely because the female vagina is the ultimate confined space for a male penis to be confined in, at least for straight guys. Dylan, at age 19, fully realizes all of this. It’s a basic biological issue not only for all humans, but for virtually all mammals in general. A driving force of nature focused on continuing the species. If a male of any species has any interest in sex at all, its all about getting the penis into a snug-fitting contained space. Dylan realizes that this is not only his problem or issue, but that each 19-year old college freshman is attempting to navigate while dealing with this erotic desire in his own way. Dylan also fully realizes that some of the guys have worked out paths that seem to be more successful in the short term than others, while others just seem to be just muddling along in trying to deal with their thoughts and feelings. The world for 19-year old college freshmen is pretty weird in this regard.

Any post-pubescent teen has, of necessity, developed a plan for dealing with these new-found sensations and feelings, a plan that typically involves solo sex (aka masturbation) on a regular basis. Guys quickly learn that this is something they should not be done in the view of family members, let alone, male peers, and in order to do this, at least during waking hours, requires a degree of privacy. Getting the necessary privacy for any significant length of time can be very difficult. What if a family member should wander in while you are “doing it”? This would be very embarrassing and difficult for a teen male. Young teen guys quickly learn how to move from an initial arousal state to ejaculation in a short period of time in order to limit the possibility of being “discovered”.

But being a college freshman in a not-very-roomy double room with another 19-year old male presents an all-new set of issues for Dylan. A 19-year old guy’s masturbation scheme is usually as closely guarded as any piece of personal information can be guarded. But now Dylan is dealing almost constantly with Josh, a good guy, but in the room a lot of time. How does Josh deal with the same issues as those affecting Dylan? Some college males seem to think that their roommates will be much more socially and sexually active with females and have male-female partner sex on weekend “dates that typically occur on Friday and Saturday nights. Then, presumably, the roommate can somehow make it through another week without masturbating. Dylan knows this is a foolish assumption on all sorts of levels. A 19-year old guy is a whole lot hornier than that and needs to “relieve himself” on a much more frequent basis than once every weekend, but, under the circumstances, how and when?

Dylan has learned a lot from Bill and Joe relating specifically to the entire issue of how the right pieces of clothing can make solo sex a lot more fun than plain old masturbation. As Dylan sits in his lecture wearing his male thong and skinny jeans, he is experiencing some of this first hand. Let’s assume that Dylan makes it through the lecture without ejaculating, however tough that might be. His situation sitting in the classroom is quite interesting. Remember that young teens lean to go from initial arousal to ejaculation quickly was a learned skill. But now Dylan is into a situation where he is way horny, and he is trying as best he can to keep everything under control.

Of course, Dylan remembers two incidents in high school where a male classmate was aroused and erect and wasn’t able to contain his ejaculation. Those guys suffered from a lot of post-ejaculation teasing and, indeed, bullying afterword, both being labeled as jerk-offs and worse. Dylan wonders how males handle situations like this as college freshman, and assumes that most college freshmen have more control over the situation in the groin area now than they did as high school teen. But that is an assumption.

Of course, Dylan has been learning that staying aroused at a level just below ejaculation is quite enjoyable, and with a bit of luck, sustainable for what might be an indefinite period of time. Still, Dylan is really horny, and he knows that as soon as he gets back to the dorm room the first thing he needs to do is to relieve himself. But Dylan kind of set himself up for this by choosing the thong and his tightest skinny jeans to wear to class. This is an interesting puzzle because Dylan is in large measure doing this to himself.

What if, when Dylan returns to the Dorm room, Josh is there? Or what if Josh wanders in just when Dylan is entering the final step? How is this all going to work after class, anyway?

Here is the complication. Dylan has started to believe that he is not unique or special, at least in one regard. The whole issue relates to how males react to being around other males who are clearly horny, erect, and masturbating to ejaculation. Dylan knows that if he were to wander into the dorm room where Josh was horny and masturbating, Dylan might be surprised, but he would be anything but upset. Dylan knows that just seeing Josh in this state would be arousing for Dylan as well.

The puzzle relates to how commonplace Dylan’s response to Josh’s arousal is? Does this mean that Dylan is actually gay not straight? Dylan assumes that gay guys his stage would love to be in a situation where they got to watch their male partners masturbate themselves. (And perhaps ask “May I help you?”) But are straight guys by definition never aroused by seeing another guy in an aroused state? Good question. Do any sex researchers know the answer to this question?

So, in terms of our story, what exactly is happening here? Joe and Bill helped Dylan make the Amazon order that they had to know was at some level going to put all their penises into more confined spaces than they were used to. Bill and Joe were OK with that, and Bill and Joe both seemed quite comfortable being around each other when they both knew that each other were horny. In fact, the mere knowledge that the other guy was struggling with a situation that was arousing was in itself a turn-on. Bill and Joe had to know that by helping Dylan place the order, they were putting Dylan into the same predicament that they were in wearing their snug-fitting stuff. The mere knowledge of this had to be a turn-on for Bill and Joe.

But now what of Dylan and Josh? When Josh accidentally wandered in on Dylan who was “trying on” some of his new gear, Josh seemed more than a little surprised, but he also did not seem at all upset. It took Josh only a minute or two to put two and two together and figure out what Dylan was doing to and with himself. Josh quickly responded that he would like to have some of the same or similar gear.

Dylan has to know that if he helps Josh “shop” for gear, he is setting up Josh in much the same way that Bill and Joe set Dylan up. Dylan is starting to think that it would be fun to get to watch Josh try on his gear as well, especially to see how Josh’s body and mind “reacts” to the new situation. Dylan starts to wander if this is a weird gay response on his part, a response that is not leading into gay partner sex, at least not now, but still psychologically and sexually interesting.

For right now, horny Dylan is still finishing the lecture in the lecture hall. He is aroused as all get out but has not ejaculated. He is hoping he can endure the situation at hand until he gets back to the semi-privacy of his dorm room. Tension builds, on all sorts of levels!

…To be continued

[sebbie]

I know a lot of readers have been very much focusing on the situation Dylan got himself into when he chose to wear that little Desmiit Thong to the classroom and the lecture this morning, and more generally, how the various items in the Amazon order were each playing a role in getting Dylan feeling horny. That is fine with me and I would not discourage either Dylan nor my readers from having some fun just thinking about all the various items, the little thong, the skimpy little swim brief, the Tesla compression tee and jammer-style shorts in that neon yellow-green color, the forest green wrestling singlet, and, of course, not to forget that wonderfully snug-fitting strap and cup. This collection of items makes a very good “shopping list” for any guy who gets turned on by being contained within snug-fitting clothing or is curious about that entire idea.

Now I fully realize that not every guy out there is going to experience the “reaction” to these items that Dylan appears to be experiencing. Maybe there are some guys out there who could wear any of these items without experiencing any physical (psychosexual) reaction at all to any of them. What makes all of this even more interesting is that each guy in terms of his response to all of this might be as unique as his own fingerprint. Some guys might find the whole idea of getting aroused simply by wearing various items of clothing to be silly or perhaps even distasteful.

Then too, some guys might find the whole idea of getting aroused just wearing a clothing item from this list as being something of a fetish, which would be just a variation on being a transvestite, which of course who are the males that get sexually aroused by wearing specific items of women’s clothing. To be sure, thong underwear is far more commonly worn by women than men, and this might be tied into some of the hesitation many males have toward the whole idea of wearing a thong designed for a male body. These guys might think that if they are going to wear something that skimpy, they might as well just “go commando.”

At least the items we are talking about are intended to be worn by males. Even the little thong is cut quite differently than a thong for females to accommodate the larger male anatomy. Whether or not the guy gets turned on when he wears them is a different issue, entirely. It used to be that the sexual psychologists claimed that any attraction a person had to an inanimate object such as an item of clothing was a fetish and any fetish was a form of abnormal sexual behavior that somehow needed to be stopped or corrected. Indeed, up until the early 1970s, the main body of psychologists claimed that the only non-abnormal way for a guy to get aroused had to be centered on having sex with a female partner. Being gay and any form of gay sex was certainly abnormal sexual behavior as was any sexual attraction to an inanimate object.

Heck, at least into the 1960s, psychologists and medical doctors even felt that any form of solo sex such as masturbation should be strongly discouraged. I reached puberty in the mid 1950s. I do not recall a lot of the details around something that happened to me shortly thereafter, but I do recall that at some point I was in a doctor’s office. I think I described to him in detail what I had done or been doing. If I recall correctly, the doctor’s response was “That’s OK and you are a normal boy your age, but I would certainly discourage you from doing that insofar as you can!”

OK, knowing me, I probably surprised the doctor at least a little by outlining in somewhat graphic detail what I had been doing. But I still recall walking out of the office thinking that the doctor’s response was really strange and unhelpful. If I wasn’t damaging my body, and I was completely normal boy my age, then exactly what was wrong with what I was doing and why should I stop? I am still wondering about the same thing.

But Dylan is not living in 1955 but in 2016. Sex with either a same-sex or an opposite-sex partner is now considered to be entirely normal. Oddly enough, masturbation, especially doing it too much, whatever that amount is, is still considered to be at least a little abnormal. The guys who masturbate a lot are, at minimum, social outcasts who lack the interpersonal skills necessary to have real partner sex, whether gay or straight. Then to, there is the purported link between a guy being discovered masturbating by a male peer who is then teased or bullied, called a jerk-off or a queer by his male peers (who are all also engaging in regular masturbation as well, but haven’t been caught by their peers, as of yet.)

All of this is suddenly really complicated. The only way the guy can survive with his peers on the subject of sex is to claim that he is only ever aroused by a female of about the same age. But bragging about this behavior creates a host of issues too not only for guys, but the females who are the objects of all the male attention.

For 19-year-old Dylan, the rules that applied in high school have broken down, if only a little. For starters, Bill and Joe seem comfortable admitting to each other that they can get turned on rather easily by wearing various snug-fitting clothing items. So too with the rowing team members Tony and Donovan, who seem to have something more complex going on than only being teammates on a college rowing team. Exactly what is going on with or between Tony and Donovan is not completely clear.

For Dylan, his biggest unanswered question is something about Bill and Joe. While it is completely clear to Dylan that both Bill and Joe are easily aroused just by wearing their snug-fitting clothing, and certainly Dylan is not the only guy out there who does this. The far more interesting question for Dylan is the question of whether Bill gets aroused just watching Joe getting into his own snug-fitting clothing, and the same for Joe’s response when he watches Bill do the exact same thing. Are all the guys who have such an arousal response somehow gay or bisexual, or would this be common for most guys whether they claim to be straight or gay?

If Dylan can find the answer to this question, he might also be able to better understand Josh’s reactions to what Dylan has been doing, and how much of this Dylan might dare to share with Josh. Dylan knows that Josh did not react at all like Dylan might have expected when Josh wandered in on Dylan trying on some of Dylan’s new gear. Dare Dylan take this all a step farther or not? Josh has already indicated that he might want to obtain some items of his own.

Oh, I was going to say something about Dylan’s funky jeans. All of my readers know that Dylan has liked snug-fitting clothing from even before puberty. The really snug-fitting jeans are interesting especially when worn in combination with some of the other items, they can create some interesting, even erotic sensations. Up until a few years back, men’s skinny jeans fit less snug that women’s jeans did. This was in large measure due to the fact that the Denim used in women’s jeans contained 2-percent stretchy Spandex, so the denim had a bit of stretch. At first, the jeans manufacturers did not know how men would react to denim containing Spandex. But one-by-one the manufacturers discovered that men like a bit of stretch in the denim, too, and started introducing Skinny jeans with a bet of stretch. This meant that men’s jeans could be as slim and as tight as the designers wanted to be, too. With that, the sloppy, oversized jeans were suddenly out of style, and the so-called Asian style, as in really skin-tight jeans, became increasingly popular for men. Nowadays men can even buy formal black suits with a Skinny, athletic look.

Dylan has surely figured all of this out. Dylan has one pair of jeans that fit him really skinny and tight. They are made of denim laced with Spandex ® fibers. That is the pair he wore to class today, over the little thong. And the jeans are part of the reason Dylan is feeling so horny. To be sure, Dylan pretty much knew all of this was going to happen and he went ahead anyway.

In Dylan’s mind, the ideal pair of skinny jeans
1. Fits really snug in the lower leg, with barely enough room to contain his calf muscles.
2. Fits like a second skin over Dylan’s thighs
3. Fits very snug in the butt and through the entire groin area
4. The waist of the Spandex ®-laced denim stretches, so Dylan can and does wear a 29-inch waist in his ultra-skinny jeans instead of his usual 31 without any undue problems
This describes well the jeans Dylan wore to class today.

So, the class is (finally) over. Dylan is still feeling horny as all get out, and his urge to ejaculate is getting more and more powerful. Dylan is headed back to his dorm room, fully knowing that the first thing he needs to do is deal with his now all but overwhelming need to get off. But what if Josh is there? What if Josh should wander in at a most inopportune moment? Dylan clearly can’t hold off for much longing. All morning has been a struggle, a struggle that Dylan knew he would ultimately “lose” (or perhaps win, depending on your perspective on all of this).

At the same time, Dylan has been enjoying himself immensely. His body is capable of making him feel great in ways he had never dreamed of before. I am not the least bit sorry for the situation he is in. At some level Dylan knows that as well. Dylan still has all the questions as outlined in this chapter, but that certainly is not the entire story. There is more, far more to the story than that!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan has managed to make it through class and is walking back to his dorm room. Class was a struggle to get through in an effort to not get to the point where ejaculation could not be delayed, but somehow Dylan has managed. Dylan, by his choice in underwear and jeans, set himself up for this both physically and psychologically. Dylan is now 19-years old, of course, and he has a bit more control over his body and groin area than he did when he was, say, 13 or 14 years of age. But getting even to this point has not been an easy or simple path.

Every guy who is growing up from puberty to being a college freshman faces much the same issues. On one hand, getting aroused and erect to the very edge of ejaculation feels terrific, and it doesn’t take a post-pubescent guy much time to figure this all out. The real issue becomes what does a guy do if he slips over the edge, (which is certainly easy enough to do if you aren’t really in control)? Still, the sensations that come from playing around this way at the very edge of having gone too far forward to delay ejaculation further are just too much fun to not pursue. But where, and when?

As I have already indicated, Dylan has brought a lot of this on himself by his choice of items to wear to class. Dylan knew that he would be pushing the arousal and ejaculation envelope, and he chose to go ahead anyway. The “game” that Dylan has been playing with his own mind and body is very different as a college freshman than what he did as a high school teenager. As a young teen, the objective was to learn how to masturbate as quickly as possible in the privacy of a bathroom so as to not be “caught” by a peer or family member, and then, once this was over and done with, just act nonchalant as if nothing had happened. The whole idea of having special clothing items that would increase the arousal level was a non-starter, of course.

As a young teen, night-time erections and ejaculations have their own problems, the main one being that the wet stains on your sleepwear or bed sheets would be “discovered” by a peer (say, at camp or in an overnight sleepover) or by family member, Mom’s raising young teen boys (apparently) adapt to what is happening fairly quickly and learn not to ask questions about starchy stains showing up on sheets or sleepwear, but peers and other family members might not be so kind or gentle in this regard for sure.

So here is Dylan, still desperate to get off, still containing what is now a near-full hard-on inside his thong and super skinny jeans. The thong is particularly odd-feeling, at this point. When Dylan initially put it on this morning, he thought to himself that wearing it to class was no big deal, psychologically or sexually, but as Dylan started to get more and more aroused, and harder and harder, his expanding penis started to feel more and more confined within the thong pouch. The snug fit of the jeans helped to keep his penis from pointing straight out as it grew, but there were other sensitivity issues. From the moment Dylan pulled the thong on, he could feel the upward pressure in the sensitive perineum area, even though the rear of the thong was more or less laying on top of his butt crack, not cutting between the butt cheeks. Any well-fitting thong pushes a guy’s scrotum and penis upward and forward. Some guys like this, but other guys think that this would more nearly be uncomfortable than sexually arousing.

As the penis gets bigger and bigger, the thong pouch still contains it, or at least makes a fervent attempt to do so. But the “problem” is that the bigger the penis gets, the more upward pressure the thong is going to be put on the perineum area, and as the penis occupies more and more of the pouch space, the back of the tong will increasingly seize up between the butt cheeks. Unless a guy is somehow brain-dead (unlikely), what is happening will continue to feed the whole system driving the erection in the first place. This might be uncomfortable, but more than likely in a horny state anyway, the sensations are way fun.

So Dylan is back to the dorm, desperate to ejaculate. He heads to his room. The room provides privacy UNLESS Josh happens to wander in on him. Remember, the men’s bathroom is way down the hall. Dylan enters the dorm room. Luckily, Josh is not there. Josh pulls down his jeans, and begins to “examine” himself in the mirror. He sees that he has really filled out the thong pouch, with damp quarter-sized pre cum spots on the pouch as well. Dylan thinks he looks quite sexy. Desperate to ejaculate, Dylan starts to run his fingers along the underside of his penis along its full length, enjoying the “moment” immensely. His penis, still inside the thong pouch, quickly responds by growing s little longer still. Dylan is about to go into full-scale ejaculation mode, and he knows it!

Suddenly, Dylan hears that familiar click of a key entering a door lock. Josh must be back from class. His class must have gotten over a little early today.

To be continued…