What to wear?

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe are both enjoying themselves, immensely. The new gear has resulted in an entirely different set of sensations for both of them, sensations that before they got into the gear they did not realize were possible. For starters, the upward pressure of the thong at the point where the pouch meets the rear of the elastic band that makes up the rear of the thong is, well, interesting to say the least.

Bill and Joe are not that knowledgeable about the nuances of male anatomy, in particular, they have been used to leaving the impression with their friends that they knew a lot about everything there was to know, but, as it turns out, some rather interesting parts got left out. For example, most 19-year old guys are probably only vaguely aware that their prostates are sensitive to touch and that this sensitivity can be sexually exciting coming from a very different place in the anatomy than the penis. They probably know that a lot of older guys are squeamish about having a physical that involves a digital prostate exam (these instances where guys have to do this play over and over on TV comedies) but the real reason for the squeamishness is less clear, that the guy undergoing a physical, having his prostate digitally examined, might also ejaculate in the doctor’s office almost instantly. Thankfully, physicals that include a digital prostate exam are rare for 19-year old guys. That is something that is a long way off.

Then there is the entire subject of gay butt sex and the nuances of that. At age 19, a lot of guys who think of themselves as straight are still wondering if this can possibly be comparable to having sex with a woman. What can be fun about that? But of course, the key here is the sexually-exciting prostate massage since the prostate is located directly beside the rectum. Hence the reason the digital prostate exam works, at least to a certain degree.

Now what Bill and Joe are doing is a little different. Obviously these two seemingly straight guys are not engaging in butt sex. But they are both wearing these skimpy thongs that are putting a lot of direct upward pressure in the perineum, rubbing externally right up against the prostate. For guys who haven’t discovered this yet, sexually this can turn out to be quite interesting, and doubly so with the wrestling singlet in place.

In this situation, guys usually do not immediately become way erect. The various pressures and sensations can be subtle at best, at least initially. This is like a lot of sexual feelings and sensations—they sneak up on you and take their own time about capturing your full attention. The usual response is only to get slightly erect, but to quietly start oozing crystalline clear drops of pre-cum. These droplets are usually viscous enough to stay as drops—growing up at that age I always thought they were fun to watch form as individual droplets. If the guy has a singlet over the top of the thong, the drops are so viscous that if the guy is careful, they will continue to form as funny-looking individual clear droplets on the outside of the singlet. And depending on exactly where the guy is psychologically, this process can continue, almost indefinitely.

Bill says to Joe “Wouldn’t it be fun to wear this gear to bed?” Joe says nothing, but nods approvingly. Keep in mind that part of the fun here for Bill is enjoying not only what is happening to his own body as the pre-cum oozes, but also at the same time getting to observe close up what is happening to Joe as he undergoes a situation with the same pressures and sensations. Of course, Joe is oozing pre-cum rather heavily by now too, and Joe is having fun just observing Bill and watching exactly how Bill is coping with the situation at hand as well.

Could this be considered a gay sexual encounter between Bill and Joe? That is certainly an interesting question, and not a question that can be resolved in a few sentences. Bill and Joe are certainly both enjoying themselves and what they are experiencing, and part of the enjoyment is directly related to observing close up what is happening to the other. Dylan would love to be where either Bill or Joe are right now but for now he is too shy and uncertain. Does this mean that Bill and Joe are gay and only masquerading as straight guys? Do both Bill and Joe still think they would be having more fun if they were in direct sexual contact with a female (in which case they could still with straight faces claim to be straight)? If part of the fun for Bill and Joe is just watching each other struggle do they both still fit on the far straight end of the scale?

And is this all “normal” or not? Maybe this entire situation is merely a fetish that Bill and Joe both happen to have. Some sexual psychologists might label this as such given that the clothing items are stimulating the sexual responses. But this is not fantasy or in any way imaginary. The pressures and sensations Bill and Joe are feeling are quite real even though specific items of clothing are involved. If this is indeed some sort of fetish, then a lot of guys must “suffer” with the same “problem.”

More generally, how many guys out there would not have any sexual reaction if they were given an opportunity to be in Bill’s or Joe’s situation right now? How many guys out there would perhaps secretly delight in being able to be in exactly that situation right now? There is still a lot about male sexuality that a lot of the researchers apparently understand hardly at all.

Meanwhile, Bill and Joe need to pee and this need to get down the hallway to the bathroom. Both of them now have silver-dollar sized damp spots of pre-cum on their singlets. This will be tricky. First, they will need to navigate the hallway without anyone noticing the pre-cum stains. Then, once they get to the urinals, they will need to pull down their singlets and pull out their penises from the thong pouches. With the singlets down it will be perfectly clear to any guy walking by that their butts are, well, baby-butt bare as they stand at the urinals. Another “little” problem of a physical nature is that when a guy starts to pre-cum, the prostate immediately shuts off the urine flow, biologically necessary because any trace of urine in the urethra would immediately kill the sperm in the semen, not great for reproduction.

So, if Bill and Joe are pre-cumming profusely, as we know they have been, they are probably going to have to stand at the urinal for a while before they can have any hope of peeing, which increases the likelihood that some other guys are going to wander into the bathroom and see everything, bare butts, singlets, thongs and all.

Bill and Joe wander into the hallway, hoping that no one will be out there and in particular notice the pre-cum stains.

But who should suddenly pop out of a side hallway but Josh, Dylan’s roommate, just back from his weekend home. And there are Bill and Joe both clad in cum-stained asics singlets, Bill’s crimson red and Joe’s blue. Josh is a more outgoing, friendly sort, and he greets Bill and Joe in a very friendly manner, pretending not to even notice the damp spots of pre-cum. Of course, Josh did notice. He just didn’t say anything.

Bill and Joe have not yet made it to the urinals, let alone to bed. However, they both have been enjoying themselves (and each other) a lot.

To be continued..

[sebbie]

As any heterosexual guy has come to realize at age 19, navigating the path to penis-vagina sex with a female can be difficult. There are all sorts of bumps in the road, starting with the notion that sex with a female is most often tied not only to emotional attachment (bad enough alone for a lot of guys) but to, (horror of horrors), long-term commitment! And, not surprisingly, most 19-year olds are not ready to get into big time emotional attachments let alone commitments that at least in the story books are supposed to last forever (remember the “until death do you part” stuff). All of this is just scary for most (dare I say nearly all) 19-year old guys.

Let’s say it right now. A lot of women, maybe most, are wired very differently when it comes to sex than the guys are wired. Generally speaking, the women worth getting serious about from the standpoint of emotional and perhaps permanent commitment are most often the ones that see sex as the logical last- step in a process that begins with emotional attachment.

Guys usually are wired differently. The hormones are flowing and the tension in the groin area is happening. Guys sometimes (often?) see this tension not as simply a very enjoyable experience but as a “medical condition” that needs to be dealt with one way or another. They often think that the best and most socially-acceptable way to deal with this is real sex with a woman, but for a host of reasons, this may not either be possible or even desirable in the larger scheme of things, given where the guy is school-wise (a freshman in college) or otherwise (a reluctance to make a long-term emotional commitment).

Let’s be blunt here. For guys who think of themselves as straight, this is frequently not a happy time, sex-wise.

What about the guys who think of themselves as gay, and attracted to other men their age? Isn’t casual sex with another guy considered the norm for gay guys? Another guy is not going to be wired like the typical woman is wired, where everything seems connected to making a firm emotional commitment first and the sex part comes later, maybe far later. Gay guys in theory are all about casual (aka one-night) sex without emotional bonds or commitments. Or are they? Maybe this is one of those great myths that heterosexual guys generally believe.

Let’s think back: In the pre-HIV days, prior to the 80s, maybe the casual sex thing was indeed the norm for gay men, and the long term commitment thing was more-nearly the exception than the rule. As everyone knows, HIV changed the behavior of gay guys with respect to casual sex in major ways. Casual sex by definition was not sex with a guy who you have first gone through a detailed list of all the previous sexual partners. Casual gay sex involving methods in which bodily fluids were exchanged became potentially life-threatening sex, and interest in coming up with ways that were safe(r) became a new key element. For starters, no one got HIV when engaging in a solo jerk-off session nor by watching another guy jerk himself off. Problem solved! Well, at least sort of problem solved. What I am getting at here is the idea that gay guys suddenly became interested in engaging in activities that at once were sexually exciting to them and yet posed no risks.

I suppose we could debate the issue of whether the safe activities are as enjoyable as the risky ones, but let me leave that topic alone for now. Perhaps you can decide that one for yourself as you read the story line relating to Bill and Joe, Tony and Donovan, Dylan and (now) Josh.

Other forces are at work too. Politically the whole gay movement has evolved to the point where the major theme is “gay couples, male or female, are no different than straight couples other than gay couples have same-sex partners.” Gay couples find each other, establish emotional bonds, make commitments, get married, take on employment in every imaginable field, raise kids, and in general do everything that a straight couple would do. Acceptance of gays in the larger society largely hinges on the notion that we are no different from you. In particular, we do not engage in casual sex in public restrooms. All of those old gay stereotypes from the 1950s about gays and sex are flat-out wrong or at least completely obsolete.

All of this is endlessly fascinating commentary, and worthy of more discussion, but for now let me circle back to the 19-year olds Bill and Joe, and the situation they currently face. Bill and Joe have discovered a bunch of stuff that a lot of 19-year olds would be clueless about. First off, both Bill and Joe love snug-fitting clothing, clothing that seems to get them aroused in a bunch of different ways. Would this be common among 19-year olds, or more nearly some sort of abnormal “fetish” Bill and Joe both just happen to have? I do not know for certain, but I think that what Bill and Joe discovered is probably very commonplace for guys and quite normal. The issues are two-fold, however. If a guy were to be open and admit to this, he might be teased or bullied, called a fag, or whatever. So most guys are not even willing to entertain the possibility in their own minds for fear of what the possible consequences might be. College life is more open than what it was like living with your parents and in high school, but still a lot of college students would still be very uneasy about admitting what they like to themselves let alone their male friends, particular what they like that involves solo sex activity involving anything they think could be interpreted by others as abnormal.

Somehow, without saying much to each other, Bill and Joe have managed to at least to a degree worked their respective ways around this. Bill and Joe are not ready to make emotional commitments to anyone, having nearly four years of college to navigate first. But that doesn’t mean that they can somehow deep-six their sexual feelings and sensations for that amount of time. So the activity involving the clothing items at this point serves a very useful purpose and release given the limits on the other options right now, and where other options might quickly go.

The third part of the puzzle, however, gets trickier. What if I, a guy, gets aroused watching you, a guy, get aroused perhaps with the aid of the snug-fitting clothing items such as those that have been described? Does that make me gay, or at least have a gay side to my personality?

What if YOU suddenly discover that YOUR arousal gets more intense with the realization that I am watching you do this? Does that mean that YOU are somehow gay and now disinterested in ever having sex with a female partner? Or what? Is this just a curious form of male bonding, or is there something more complicated going on here? If I enjoy watching you struggle with your sensations inside the thong and singlet, and similarly, you think it is fun to watch me struggle with the same feelings and sensations, exactly where does that leave the situation between you and me right now?

Maybe part of the problem is that the thongs and singlets are actually working TOO WELL and are therefore too good of a substitute for the sensations of real penis-vagina sex, in if this is true isn’t that going to eventually mean the end of reproduction (and the human race)? Maybe I shouldn’t even think about that for now.

So, as we leave this chapter, Bill and Joe have wandered down the hall in their thongs and singlets, and into the process had an encounter with Josh, Dylan’s roommate. Josh thought what they were wearing was, well, interesting for sure, but did not say anything that would indicate a degree of surprise.

Bill and Joe are now at the urinals, attempting to pee, which because of basic biology is not that easy to if they have been pre-cumming profusely very recently. The singlets have to come off the shoulders, and the singlets have to come off the shoulders and get pulled down so the pouch and their butts are exposed. Then the penises have to come out of the cotton thong pouches. Then a guy waits, sometimes a long time. If any other guy wanders into the bathroom right now, he is going to see two bare butted guys standing beside each other at the urinals, attempting to pee. Whoever wanders in might get the wrong idea about what is happening. But Bill and Joe both seem to think that is also part of the fun they are having with themselves (and with each other).

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Lots of interesting stuff going on here. Bill and Joe have discovered that if you are a guy who is pre-cumming, its tough to get a urine stream started. This is more than just having a “bashful kidney”. Given the arousal and all the pre-cum, Bill and Joe’s bodies are telling them that a stream of urine right now would really mess things up. The male body has a lot of different self-protects built in, almost like a modern automobile. And of course, very important in the scheme of things is the idea of maintaining the species into future generations. So with a common pipe for urine and sperm/semen, a system had to be made that would ensure the sperm emerged healthy and ready to go. This is it!

If you wait long enough at the urinal, things will probably switch back, but there are Bill and Joe, bare-butted, singlets dropped to their knees, waiting for something to happen.

Then there is Josh, who just got back to the dorm after a weekend home. Dylan is in their room. Josh has just encountered Bill and Joe in the hallway, both of them wearing their wrestling singlets (with thongs under). Josh greets Bill and Joe warmly but thinks what he just saw is a little, well, weird.

Josh pops into the dorm room and says to Dylan. “I just saw Bill and Joe in the hallway. They both looked great, but they were both wearing colorful wrestling singlets. Bill’s was red and Joe’s was navy blue.”

The really interesting question is how Dylan will decide to respond to what Josh has just said.

There are two options: Option A is to say nothing about his own gear that he has been experimenting with this weekend, as in his in forest green singlet, strap and cup.

Option B is to say to Josh. “Oh, I bought one of those too, but mine is a dark green color.”

If Dylan goes with Option A, then he has the additional problem of trying to hide the gear from John, and Josh will likely eventually see something on Dylan’s side of the room. The strap and cup is more easily hidden in the bottom of the in-closet dresser drawer, but eventually Josh is probably going to see the wrestling singlet Dylan bought, if buy accident.

But Dylan knows that if he responds with option B, Josh is probably going to start asking some questions. A question might be as simple as “What gives, Dylan?”

At this point Dylan gets to think up an answer. Obviously, there are various ways to handle this. Dylan is too shy to tell Josh anything about what exactly he has been doing all weekend long. Nope, a more believable answer goes something like this.

“Joe, Bill and I have started going to the student gym for exercise. Some of the guys there are wearing singlets as gym wear. Bill, Joe and I thought this was not a bad idea, so we each ordered one on Amazon. Mine is dark green. Josh, you need to join us at the gym. It has been fun, and we are meeting some guys who are better athletes than we are!”

Josh thinks this response is at least plausible. Dylan avoids having to go into what could be embarrassing details of his messing around all weekend long. The explanation for the wrestling singlets may not be completely satisfactory, but at least it is a start.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Dylan and Josh have both crawled into bed. Dylan especially felt particularly “drained” and beat for some odd reason, but Josh was tired too, after his trip home and long (250-mile) car ride back to campus. Both Josh and Dylan are wearing their sleepwear of choice, plaid, loose-fitting cotton boxers, Dylan’s in a medium Blue and Josh in various shades of gray.

Strangely enough, Dylan is still wide awake, and in his mind he seems to be replaying the events that took place over the weekend. Dylan really enjoyed himself inside the strap and cup and wearing the singlet over. Guys generally don’t easily forget this kind of enjoyment, for some strange reason. I think the reason this stuff gets “glued” into a guy’s brain might have something to do with basic biology. What makes this situation a little different, however, is that in this case, attraction to another person is not an element.

Dylan keeps thinking to himself that if Josh weren’t in the bed in the room right beside him, already he would be up getting into the strap, cup and singlet and see how long he could “tolerate” another round of self-pleasuring. Dylan finds this thought a little weird, but also arousing. The fact that he can’t just get up and do this right now is in itself strangely arousing, and as this stuff rolls over and over in Dylan’s mind, Dylan is starting to feel that pleasant tension in his groin area and particular at the base of his penis. Dylan doesn’t quite know what exactly to make of this. Dylan has had erotic fantasies in the past that led to the same sensations happening, but never quite this way. What is happening now to Dylan is that the erotic fantasy is based on his own self-pleasuring that happened only a few hours ago. The events of the recent past are having an impact all over again on Dylan’s brain and body.

As all of this happens, Dylan goes into a very natural but nearly autonomous response. At first he just touches his penis by simply pressing his fingertips on the underside at the base. “Yup, I am starting to get a little hard” Dylan says to himself, even though he is only wearing loose-fitting boxer shorts. Fortunately, Dylan’s “activity” is hidden under the bed covers, and Josh, if he is awake at all, cannot see what Dylan is doing to himself. The situation Dylan was in with the strap, cup and singlet keeps getting replayed over and over in his mind, almost as if it were a short YouTube ® video that somehow repeats endlessly. As this happens, Dylan starts to grow and get harder and harder. Dylan is now helping the process along in that what started out as just light fingertip pressing has morphed into what at first is gentle stroking. The stroking quickens a little as the tension in Dylan’s penis becomes greater. Dylan keeps thinking to himself that the strap, cup and singlet are fun even when a guy is NOT wearing them, because the events morph into such a neat self-pleasuring fantasy.

Dylan is confused too. Do these events have anything to do with Dylan’s sexual orientation? Is what Dylan is doing to himself and his penis right now the trademark behavior of a gay-leaning jerk-off, or if nearly ANY guy were placed into the same sequence of events over the weekend would end up in basically the same place right now. Dylan has no idea, except to say that this is a concern that pops into Dylan’s mind.

Dylan also wonders that if the strap, cup and singlet were that much fun, what about the other items he bought? What about those Desmiit® swim briefs? What will happen if Dylan gets into those and then “covers up” with the bright lime green Tesla® compression shorts? These accumulating thoughts are too much for Dylan’s young brain (and body) to handle. Dylan just touches the underside of the glans of his now really-hard penis and he starts to shoot semen in a series of powerful contractions. “I hope Josh is fast asleep” Dylan says to himself. “I hope I don’t need to pee after this” he says, realizing that he can hardly jump up and head down the hall to the bathroom right now, given that his boxer shorts are now covered with semen. Dylan, of course, has masturbated to ejaculation in bed before. Any young teen learns techniques for hiding this early on in life. But this ejaculation was really powerful and heavy, creating quite a mess for sure. Hiding what happened from Josh is going to be difficult, if not impossible.

Meanwhile, Bill and Joe have now both made it back from the hall bathroom and into the room. They are both thinking about continuing to wear their singlets and neat-fitting thongs to bed. Pressures and tensions down there which are readily manageable during the day when there are distractions quickly become more powerful at night, when the brain tends to want to focus on the sensations coming from the groin area. That is part of what makes life so interesting for guys.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

For many if not most guys, the first year of college is a huge learning experience in all sorts of ways, and it goes without saying that not everything a 19-year old guy learns happens inside the classroom. Out on their own for the first time, most college freshmen are delighted to have some additional freedom to do things that they would have not felt comfortable doing when living with their parents and siblings.

We all know what is traditionally on this list. College freshmen frequently get into a lot of trouble with teen-age drinking, DWI etc etc, plus things like sex with maybe not entirely willing females. A lot of this can quickly turn into stuff that ends up being illegal and results in a lot of issues and problems.

But Dylan, as you might have already expected, is none of this. Dylan is the shy, quiet type, and would never even think about getting involved in doing anything that would get himself into trouble with the law. Dylan is basically a “nice kid”, sometimes called a “sweet young man”. He is so laid back in terms of his behavior that he sometimes almost just blends into the background. He was famous for NOT engaging in the stuff in high school that the “rowdier” kids did, and his behavior in this regard has not significantly changed once he got to college. Dylan is still a sweet young man, affable, but not even that talkative.

Having said that, this does not mean that Dylan also lacks the drives and urges the other college guys have. Dylan has often felt the urge to beat off, sometimes in what would be considered unexpected times and places, but as a high school student, Dylan quickly learned that he needed to be able to control his “base instincts.”

Now in College, however, Dylan is starting to feel a bit more open about all of this. Dylan is not in any sort of a partner relationship though he is starting to think that this is something that he would eventually like to at least try to engage in at some point. As a consequence, Dylan has no reputation as a ladies’ man, but neither does he have any sort of reputation as a guy’s man, either or that he is somehow attracted to guys. Sexual orientation-wise, Dylan just blends into the background.

As I have suggested before, Dylan has long been aroused just thinking about the possibility of wearing snug-fitting clothing, and the idea of making the Amazon® order was in some ways a real break though for Dylan’s shyness. This was something he would have never tried doing had he still been living at home. And Dylan himself did not know exactly where this would lead. He soon found out.

Need I also mention one more time that the college living arrangements in freshmen dorms usually involve twin rooms, and oftentimes a guy does not know who his male roommate is going to be until they both move in. Two male roommates, living together in very tight quarters, can easily have drastically different habits, behaviors and views. (Would a college knowingly pair two gay guys in the same dorm room if they knew both of the guys were gay males?) Could two sexually-involved gay males get a double room in a men’s dorm without question, and sexually cohabit as roommates? I see no reason how the system could prevent this from happening. A lot of this old system still assumes that every guy in the dorm is straight no matter how silly that is. The key point here is that college roommates frequently have no clue about the sexual orientation of the roommate until after school starts.

It goes without saying that Dylan thoroughly enjoyed himself over the weekend when Josh went back home. Dylan has discovered a whole bunch of stuff about himself and his body that turned out to be terrific fun. He has never before had so much fun pleasuring himself, and these special self-pleasuring moments ended up getting replayed in his brain over and over again, which in turn ended with another powerful under-the-covers orgasm in bed when he was not even wearing any of the special stuff in the Amazon® order, just thinking about the possibilities wearing some of this. Plus Dylan still has a bunch of other stuff in the order he has not yet even tried on, let alone played with.

As a learning experience, all of this has been moving at a very rapid pace for Dylan. The entire experience has been so much fun that deep down, Dylan thinks he would like to shout out what he did and exactly what happened. Well, maybe not stand up and explain all of this in some public forum, but perhaps (????) share a little of this with his roommate Josh. Now Dylan and Josh are well-paired as roommates. Both good students, they are both quiet and somewhat shy with others, particularly with members of the opposite sex. Josh is a sweet guy too. The problem is that if Dylan starts to discuss any of what he has been up to with Josh, Josh might begin to take it the wrong way, especially perhaps start to assume that Dylan, at minimum, has a gay side, and that the discussion about singlets, jocks etc is the start of some sort of gay “come-on.” That is the real down side of having any sort of discussion. There are risks that it could all go quickly the wrong way, and college guys like to avoid roommate battles at least until late in the school year.

At the same time, Josh is not brain-dead. Ergo, he must engage in self-pleasuring (masturbation) too. Assuming this is true, Josh must be facing some of the same issues Dylan is dealing with in having a male roommate, and trying to maintain the “image” for Dylan’s benefit that he never ever masturbates. As the semester drags on, this gets tougher and tougher to do. But Dylan knows that he has taken all of this a step beyond where he thinks Josh is. Dylan has had this “thing” for snug-fitting clothing that goes all the way back to before puberty. Dylan is clueless as to whether this thing he has is widespread among 19-year old college roommates, and, if it isn’t, whether or not Josh would get uncomfortable knowing a little more about Dylan than he really wanted to know.

What a dilemma! Best to take this slow with Josh and proceed at a measured pace, if at all. What can Dylan comfortably share with Josh? Well, Josh already knows about Dylan’s forest green wrestling singlet and is, well, wondering what exactly is up with that. Josh is stumped. For starters, Josh knows Dylan is NOT a college wrestler.

Meanwhile, in the other dorm room, Joe and Bill have crawled into bed wearing their thongs and singlets. They are both having fun, and feeling pretty good. Bill knows that Joe in the bed a few feet away is enjoying himself clad that way. Joe knows that Bill in the bed a few feet away is also experiencing some pleasurable moments. The night is young. Can Bill and Joe make it through the night OK? More than OK? We will see.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Just as Dylan has issues, Bill and Joe have issues too. Bill and Joe have both crawled into bed wearing their new thongs and their new wrestling singlets, Bill’s in crimson red and Joe’s in navy blue. The new thongs feel really good to them, in large measure not so much because of the general snugness of the fit, but because for the first time, they are both experiencing exactly what significant upward pressure in the perineum area, that little spot right behind the scrotum, does to their bodies (and minds).

Exactly why that pressure in the thongs feels so good is not entirely clear, except to say that it must be a combination of all the nerve endings that terminate there that pleasantly respond to the pressure, plus the fact that the thong is putting indirect external pressure on the prostate gland located just inside. Bill and Joe had known nothing about this. The combination of these two events happening together is, well, interesting. Actually, the sensations are more than interesting. They are normally not strong enough to give a guy a firm erection right off, but the sensations are enormously satisfying in a host of other ways.

These sensations generated by the thong and the upward perineum pressure generally will quickly send a guy into a heavy pre-cum mode, despite the penis still being flaccid, or at best only semi-erect. And the pre-cumming will almost surely be profuse. Think not only dime-size spots of that crystal-clear, viscous, somewhat sticky fluid, but soon nickel-sized, then quarter-sized, then half-dollar-sized and even silver-dollar sized spots of pure pre-cum. Guys get fascinated with just watching the pre-cum accumulate in what are successive small but persistently accumulating individual droplets.

Bill and Joe both lie in bed pretending to be asleep, but at the same time having great fun with themselves. Further, Bill knows what is happening to Joe and Joe knows what is happening to Bill, and the mere knowledge that there is another guy in the bed a few feet away enjoying this in much the same way makes the entire sequence of events even more fun. All of this is a not-to-be-missed educational experience for 19-year old male college roommates housed in a freshman dorm.

The title of the story today indicated that Bill and Joe faced a dilemma, and they do, sort of. Let me explain in detail the specifics of the“problem.” Despite the snug fit of the thongs, their penises are much freer to move around than they were when they were contained in the straps and hard cups. Access is better. But remember, both Bill and Joe are wearing wrestling singlets that also fit snugly over the thongs, and these wrestling singlets cover their lower chests and are held in place via shoulder straps.

First off, as the pre-cum accumulates inside of the thong pouch, some of it is going to leak through, staining the singlet on the outside, right above the penis tip. This means a wet spot will soon be appearing on the outside of the singlet, a wet spot that will grow in size on the singlet as the pre-cum accumulates drop-by-drop.

Second, as all of this pre-cumming proceeds, at some point Bill and Joe are both going to feel increasing urges to stroke their penises from glans to base. This is tricky with the singlets in place. They can try stroking themselves from the outside of the singlet. Another approach would be to reach down inside the singlet and do the stroking from there. Keep in mind also that as all of this is happening the psychological pressure to go into full-scale ejaculation mode is building, and especially so if stroking is going on.

What then? I suppose Bill and Joe could ejaculate under the covers with the singlet still in place, but if these guys are now as horny as I think they are, this is going to leave a huge cum-stain on the singlet. Another approach would e to hop out of bed at some point, pull down the singlet shoulder straps, pull the singlet down and then ejaculate into the thong, or perhaps right into the air. But this is going to create a real mess, too.

Then there is the question of timing. Are both Joe and Bill going to get to the point whereby they can delay ejaculation no farther at about the same moment in time, or is one of them ahead of the other in this regard. Joe is thinking that it would be, well, interesting to watch Bill struggle doing this. Bill is thinking the same thing. What does this mean, for goodness sakes?

So, we leave Bill and Joe with a real dilemma. They had not expected to mess up their new singlets so soon after they got them, but for the turn of events as they discovered for themselves what Tony and Donovan were experiencing.

Meanwhile, back in Dylan and Josh’s room, we still have Dylan lying in bed in his damp, cum-stained boxers. This is, well, uncomfortable, but Dylan does not know quite what to do at this point. He could get up and slip on a clean pair, but that would awaken Josh, no doubt, who is now fast asleep. Alternately, he could just lie there and hope that the cum-stains dry by morning. But then there will be all those starchy-like yellowish stains on his boxers, so Dylan will have to be careful in figuring out a way to somehow discard the stained boxers into his laundry bag (an old pillowcase) and get into a fresh pair somehow without alerting Josh to what happened.

Ahh,…the real problems facing male college frosh males living in twin-bed dorm rooms are not simple at all. More of this great fun with self-pleasuring intermingled with terror.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

This is the first time either Bill or Joe has ever worn male thong underwear. For that matter, this is the first time either of them has ever worn a wrestling singlet. A situation like this always sets up maybe a bit of apprehension for guys. More bluntly put, some guys might be scared to death. No, not really. But normally guys do get a little apprehensive when they are getting into clothing items that will fit tight in the groin area and also snugly around their genitals. This is quite normal in a situation like this where everything is new and snug.

As I have indicated in various ways in past posts, every brand of thong fits a little differently. This is also true for specific sizes within the various brands. The fit and feel of the thong mostly depends on three factors. I have already mentioned in detail that exactly how the cord or band that makes up the rear of the thong is attached to the pouch greatly affects the feel. How the thong is constructed there can either give a strong” kick” in the perineum area, or a much more subtle kick. The strong kick is the most fun, but a thong that does this might feel somewhat uncomfortable at first, before everything settles down a bit.

The length and specific design of the back also determines how the thong is going to fit and feel. The narrower and shorter the back, the more likely it is to quickly ride between the butt cheeks. For thongs with a short and narrow back, when walking, the feel is something like the feel of a feather being passed over your butt crack. This may or may not take some getting used to, as it is not a sensation guys ordinarily feel. If you do not feel you are getting enough of a kick in the perineum, try pulling the thong upward and cinching the back so it disappears completely between the buttocks. That should do it.

The size and shape of the pouch matters too with respect to the fit and feel as well, but not as much as the first two factors. Getting the pouch into the proper position is sometimes a bit of a struggle for guys. The pouch is in the proper position when both of your balls and your penis are inside of this. Check to make sure this is happening.

Going to bed wearing a thong, as Bill and Joe are doing, is a unique and interesting experience because all the sensations tend to be more intense at night, when your mind isn’t distracted. By this time, most guys are likely pre-cumming, usually a lot of pre-cum and guys like to watch the individual droplets as they slowly form.

Bill and Joe are doubling the fun by adding the wrestling singlets to the mix. Thongs generally press the male anatomy upward and forward, even as the wrestling singlet bears down on the same area. The guy’s anatomy is very obvious with this, although not in an obscene-looking way. The bulge will look almost like a large circular button, certainly there in front. Unless, of course, the guy at this point already is getting a hard-on. Then these observations are off.

What is happening under the covers in Bill and Joe’s situation is not entirely clear at this point. Maybe they are still flaccid with large quantities of pre-cum. Maybe they are both helping things along and at least starting to get hard. Whatever they are both experiencing right now should be quite pleasant, to say the least. A guy can easily get hopelessly “hooked” on doing this, or something similar. Guys quickly discover that they do not want to go to bed unless they have set up a situation that they can enjoy in this manner.

What if their peers see them in this garb? The correct answer should be “so what!” You see how it went with Dylan at the gym for sure.

Practically every guy has the potential to enjoy themselves in a manner similar to what Bill and Joe are doing right now. A lot of these guys either don’t know about this stuff, or, to the extent that they do, are scared or perhaps too embarrassed to try. That is unfortunate, and somewhat sad.

To be continued…