What to wear?

[sebbie]

Tony and Donovan are obviously far more athletic than Bill and Joe, both being regular members of the College stationary rowing team. They both have more athletic builds than Joe and Bill, with broader shoulders, well developed lats that give their chests that wonderful and much-admired triangular shape and six-pack abdominal muscles.

Part of this relates to the fact that rowing is such a wonderful full-body workout, even better than swimming, perhaps. Certainly better than treadmill running and stationary bike riding. The only sport that I think might be better than rowing in this regard is men’s gymnastics, and that one is out of range for the vast majority of guys, even guys in college.

A basic issue is that if you are going to spend time working out, why not pick something that also gets you as quickly as possible to the body shape you are after, and rowing certainly fits the bill in this regard even if it is done only on a stationary machine.

A little “problem” is that rowing on a stationary machine can quickly get a little boring, and especially if done on workouts involving 30-minute sets. This is little different from a 30-minute ride on a stationary bike or 30-minute run on a treadmill in this regard.

So, the trick to making the rowing machine work is to find a way to make each stroke on the rowing machine more enjoyable and less boring. This is where the choice of what to wear for the workout becomes important.

I’ve already indicated on several occasions that most guys past puberty quickly learn how to get aroused, hard and to an orgasm under circumstances where there is a real fear that if they take too long they will be “discovered” jacking off by a sibling, a peer or even one of their parents. By their late teens most guys get very wary of any situation that appears to be even the start of the arousal, hard-on, ejaculation sequence. This WAS pretty much where Bill and Joe were when they entered college, but the past few months have been a learning experience for both Bill and Joe in all sorts of different ways, stuff they are coming to terms with outside of the college classroom.

Tony and Donovan are a little older and a little smarter about these sorts of things. Both Tony and Donovan realize something that guys find difficult to even comprehend in their early teens.. That is, the sensation of arousal need not necessarily immediately lead into an erection or an orgasm. Smart guys can “mess around” with the arousal sensation and make that sensation last for literally hours, if they want to. The trick is to get your mind and body aroused but not so aroused that the full-blown erection becomes the next step.

Messing around with this is something every guy should learn how to do, because in so doing his life will be improved in all sorts of ways in or out of a relationship with a partner. The entire subject is written up in the sex manuals under titles such as chapters dealing with “developing ejaculatory control” such that the guy acquires at least some degree of mind control over when in the process he has an orgasm. Interestingly, getting an erection and getting an orgasm are distinct events, and its possible to get an erection but not have an orgasm and its possible to have an orgasm without having an erection as well, and there are tricks for learning how to do this.

Arousal without an erection or an orgasm is the third part of this puzzle, the part of the puzzle that Tony and Donovan have become masters, and this is interlinked with their interest in college level competitive rowing.

Arousal is a not-to-be missed experience involving both the mind and the body. Arousal is a really fun experience for both the brain and groin area of the body. I suppose that a guy could get aroused by doing things like watching porn, but a more positive way on doing this is to make arousal an integral part of your gym workout.

So, Tony and Donovan are choosing clothing items that will help to get them aroused while working out on the stationary rowing machine. But exactly WHAT clothing items? Well the obvious one is the Lycra® wrestling singlets that “just happen” to fit snug and really tight in the groin area, and tug at the groin area with each rowing stroke.

Underneath, Tony and Donovan have admitted that they are wearing thong underwear, underwear that has an elastic band that cuts between the cheeks of their butts with every rowing stroke. The sensation on the rowing machine is, well, interesting to say the least.

What I haven’t told you yet is that Tony and Donovan are wearing something else between the Wrestling singlets and the thongs, in this case black Adidas with the triple white slashes and about 1 ½ inch sides. Interestingly, the brief’s fit right OVER the thong underwear and no one is the wiser at all.

Tony and Donovan have been known after the stationary rower workouts to strip off their singlets and jump right into the gym pool to cool off, dressed only in their tiny Adidas swim briefs (with their thong underwear cupping their male body parts underneath while protecting their swim brief from pre-cum “stains”.

How does a guy know whether he has found the correct combination of clothing for his personal situation? Well, that is where it becomes important for the guy to pay close attention to what is happening to him pre-cum wise. If you can feel a wet spot of pre-cum forming at the tip of your penis, you have likely found the spot you will want to be in for your workout to speed by.

Tony and Donovan’s respective workouts on the stationary rowing machines, lasting 30 minutes, sped by. They were completely “in the groove” and each stroke was enjoyable fun for some reason not difficult or boring at all…

Joe and Bill still have much to learn…and Dylan, quietly watching, and thinking about himself, his body, and what the other guys are all wearing.

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe learned a lot when they were at the student gym. They enjoyed the “breeziness” of Tony and Donovan and how they seemed to be so comfortable in their own skins, well their own skins covered in wrestling singlets. But what to do now?

Bill and Joe both knew that wrestling singlets were not something easily found at the big box sporting goods store. But Tony and Donovan made an interesting suggestion. Wrestling singlets could be easily ordered on line on Amazon®. Tony and Donovan were both wearing the asics® brand, and that gave Bill and Joe a place to start looking.

But there was one problem. In order to make an on-line purchase, a credit card was needed. But, no problem at all, as Bill had one. Bill could place the order and get the other guys to cover their items using cash.

Dylan wanted in. Dylan wanted some of the same stuff Bill and Joe had plus a wrestling singlet. The asics wrestling singlets came in black, crimson red, royal blue and forest green, and cost $38 USD each. But, what size? Well the whole idea was to wear these quite snug, and maybe down size just a bit. Bill, Joe and Dylan were all about the same size, typically about a men’s Medium. But if these were going to fit snug and tight, why not try downsizing to a Small instead? Tony and Donovan said they undersized a bit. Good idea! Joe went for the royal blue, Bill the Crimson red, and Dylan the Forest green

Dylan also wanted some of the other items that Joe and Bill had, namely compression shorts, tee, and, of course a strap and cup. But those were easily found on the on-line Web site. Dylan found some great- looking Tesla-branded compression shorts for $13 in a variety of colors. Dylan picked the electric green ones in Small. The matching Tesla compression tee was only $10. Then Dylan wanted a strap and cup as well, and he finally settled on the ProForce male supporter and cup set ($12). Sizing these is always tricky, but Dylan settled on the adult “small” for the best combination of fit and feel.

Plus, Dylan wanted to get a Swim brief as well, something he had never owned before. What came up was the Desmit Fashion swim brief ($11) . He ordered the men’s US small in the blue/geen color combination. Bill and Joe each ordered one of these, too.

Finally there was the thong underwear for under the singlets. Desmit also makes a men’s cotton micro thong ($6) that should be perfect in size Small. One for each of the three of them.

This is quite an order! Making an on-line order for stuff like this is always interesting mostly because of getting the sizing and fit right. Obviously, the right fit is a little different concept than it is for ordinary clothing, in part because the properly fitting clothing should be somewhat arousing…and that says snug fit, snugger than a guy might ordinarily wear during the day.

But even in making their selections, the guys’ bodies should be telling them whether or not they have gotten each item right or not. With the correct selection, each guy should be producing a drop or two of pre-cum. If that happens, the selection is probably right!

The order has now been placed, and should arrive in 4-5 days.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

It’s been a few days since Bill, Joe and Dylan placed their Amazon order. I thought some links would be useful so that you can see exactly what each of them ordered. If you want, you can then order something similar. Dylan, Bill and Joe are getting anxious for their package to arrive. I think you know what that means, in this case.

asics red wrestling singlet (Bill)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Unrestr...stling+singlet

asics blue wrestling singlet (Joe)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Solid-M...stling+singlet

asics green wrestling singlet (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Unrestr...stling+singlet

Tesla Compression short (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/TM-S17-BKRZ_M...pression+short

Tesla Compression Tee (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/TM-R13-GRKZ_X...ompression+tee



ProForce strap and cup (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/ProForce-Male...etic+supporter

Desmit fashion swim brief (Bill, Joe and Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/DESMIIT-Mens-...mit+swim+brief

Desmit thong underwear for under asics singlet (Bill, Joe and Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/DESMIIT-Mens-...hong+underwear

To be continued…

[sebbie]

The three 19-year olds Bill, Joe and Dylan body-wise and mentally are at the age that they are probably most sensitive both psychologically and physically to snug-fitting clothing of the kinds in the big order. This is in part due to the fact that none of them were put into a situation where they were expected to wear any of this stuff, stuff that basically is tied to certain sports pursued by males. Obviously, this is less of a big deal for students who wore this sort of stuff when they were younger. At that age, the guys who do not get to do this often wonder how their own bodies would deal with such a situation, and whether or not they would be able to tolerate the situation without some sort of perhaps “embarrassing” incident happening.

Dylan, in particular, is in the most difficult spot of the three of them. Bill and Joe have their experiences already wearing the compression gear, straps and cups, not only for the gym but during that wild and zany night they both had in the dorm room sleeping wearing the gear during that wild-and crazy dream.

Bill and Joe are having a major psychological impact on Dylan, even though they have openly discussed very little about what exactly has been going on. Dylan sees Joe and Bill in their straps, cups and compression gear and deep down admires very much how they look, while at tyhe same time secretly wondering how Dylan’s own mind and body would respond top being in a similar situation to that.

Then there is all the other stuff that looks and potentially feels interesting too, starting with the wrestling singlets, then the tiny Desmit swimming briefs, and those crazy underwear thongs that are going to make the wrestling singlets even more erotic and fun.

Dylan has not been able to keep his mind on his classes, as his mind keeps wandering over into the territory of thinking over and over about how his body could respond once he gets the order and is able to try the stuff on. Dylan has decided that the “safest” thing to do will be to quietly pick up his items and go to his own room, to try everything on in private.

Bill and Joe, having already been more open with each other about both of their bodies, both realize that part of the interesting fun will be to try getting into the stuff while the other guy is present to watch exactly what happens.

Dylan’s body is responding to all of these thoughts and issues even as he sits in his classes at school. Interestingly, as he sorts through all of this, he can feel a slight tensing in his groin area about where the zipper on his Levis 511 jeans runs. He can feel a distinct dampness on his white underwear briefs too, which seems to be getting bigger the more his mind wanders off in this direction. Dylan is hoping that the spot doesn’t get too big and show through as a quarter-sized damp area right on his Levis jeans.

To be continued....

[sebbie]

Dylan in particular now faces quite a dilemma. He is now clueless as to how his body (and brain) might respond to the new items he just ordered on Amazon. That may actually overstate the situation Dylan is about to face, if only by a little bit. Dylan passed through the early years of post-pubescence much like every other guy did, gradually learning how to appreciate the various sensations and feelings that might emanate from the groin area and resulting in a sensation of euphoria in the brain. Initially at least, guys are at least somewhat mystified as how their brains and bodies can be so interconnected in such interesting and potentially wonderful ways.

Guys that age generally understand that what they are feeling and enjoying has something to do with sex and relationships, but this too remains something of a mystery as exactly how this all fits together. But, of course, at age 14 or 15, the opportunities and advisability of actually engaging in penis-vagina sex with a female partner are not only limited but clearly not advisable. But guys still enjoy the feelings and sensations that are happening to them, even if sex with a partner is not involved.

Not surprisingly, guys soon learn that there are techniques and ways of manipulating themselves to produce these wonderful feelings and sensations even in the absence of a sexual partner. There is, of course, plain ordinary male masturbation, stroking and rubbing your penis to the point whereby it gets big and hard and leads to a wonderful, full-scale orgasm. By the time a guy reaches about 15, most guys have got this technique down pretty well. It is only somewhat later that guys begin to appreciate the idea that a quick masturbation to orgasm is not really all there is, indeed there is more, a whole lot more. Yes, interesting situations available to guys who are not into some sort of a sexual relationship with a partner.

Dylan has known from before puberty that his groin area was quite sensitive when it is touched by anything. Snug-fitting items of clothing that fit tight in the groin area have always been something of a sexual turn-on for Dylan, but this will be the first time that Dylan will get to experiment with this on his own, and away from his parents.

Dylan does not know at this point exactly what his body is going to do when the order arrives and he gets the opportunity to “try on” each of the purchases. Will he go immediately into a firm erection, or not? The various items Dylan selected to purchase will each pose a different “situation” to deal with. In the case of the little Desmit swim briefs will Dylan be able to fit himself into the not very roomy pouch/ How will Dylan position himself?
The strap and cup pose a different dilemma. How will Dylan’s penis respond to a situation of being inside a not-very-roomy had cup with the strap bearing down on him at the same time?

Then there is the thong. How will that feel with the snug elastic strap coursing between the cheeks of his butt? Then what happens if you are pulling over the wrestling singlet over the thong? A correctly-fitting pair of men’s thong underwear pushes the anatomy up and forward. The Singlet presses downward, making the penis appear something like a “button” in profile. That should be interesting for Dylan, to say the least.

Finally, there are those wild green compression tees and shorts Dylan ordered . These might be the most difficult for Dylan’s brain and body to cope with at all.

But coping with all of this is what Dylan somehow must do. Dylan’s mind has been wandering in his classes just thinking about the situations he is about to get himself into once the order arrives. And his body has been responding to the daydreams about all of this. Dylan has been pre-cumming just thinking about all of this, a lot, more than Dylan thought he was even capable of producing.

What fun, just thinking about all of this!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

The big, soft package finally arrives, and Bill and Joe call Dylan to their room in order to open the package and divide the stuff. Dylan has several different items in the package, namely the ProForce strap and cup, the Tesla Compression shorts and Tee in a bright lime green, that little Desmit bi-color swimming brief, the Desmit thong underwear, and, of course, the asics wrestling singlet in forest green. Recall that there are three asics singlets in the package, one in royal blue, a second in crimson red, and Dylan’s forest green one.

The guys decide to divide the stuff according to how they each made their order, and then simply take their time to try everything on “to see how it fits”. This is a particularly “exciting” time for Dylan, who has never owned this kind of stuff before. To be sure, he thought about it, but until he got to college, he had never really had the “opportunity” to act on his interests.

So, Dylan takes his stuff and decides to head back to his room. As you have probably determined by now, the combination of items is going to put a lot of “pressure” on Dylan, some psychological and some physical.

What is really going on here. Once he got past puberty, of course Dylan had experience jerking off. (What guy doesn’t at that age?) But Dylan, like nearly every other guy his age, faced the usual “barriers” to trying stuff. What guys normally learn is how to jerk off in a hurry, that is, go from flaccid penis to orgasm as fast as possible, lest someone ( a sibling, a parent or a peer) discover what you are up to. Now, however, Dylan has a degree of privacy. Dylan’s roommate, John, had gone home for the weekend and Dylan had the room to himself. Dylan looked at all of this as an excellent opportunity to try out some stuff he had always wondered about but never had the opportunity.

So Dylan now has all these items each of with present some real possibilities for fun. So what of this list has got Dylan hooked to try? That is certainly an interesting question to try and answer. But remember, not being a high school athlete, Dylan never had the opportunity to get himself inside a strap, let alone a strap with a hard cup. Dylan had always wondered how the other guys “dealt” with these, the basic question being what happens if you get a hard-on inside the cup, and the cup is not spacious enough to contain you erect? Most guys have certainly at least thought about that one. Its tough to even think about that problem without pre-cumming at least a little. And Dylan has been thinking about that problem ever since he placed the order in fact. Now the strap and cup is right in front of him, waiting to be tried on.Dylan is getting more and more excited.

So, what does Dylan do first? He finds the scissors in his desk drawer and cuts into the clear plastic casing that currently confines the strap and cup. The strap and cup are separate, and some snaps hold the pouch for the cup closed. He loosens the snaps and slips the cup into its correct place in the pouch.

Dylan realizes now that it is time for him to strip down naked and to put the strap and cup on his groin. Dylan’s penis realizes that is where Dylan is too, and the response is a few drops of clear, gooey pre-cum. Dylan is now feeling a clear tingling and tightening sensation right at the base of his penis, too, although he has not really grown any, or at most, only a little. Dylan psychologically is very much aware that his penis is going to soon be in a quite confined space, and what is bugging him is the possibility that the walls of his penis is soon going to be in direct contact with the pouch containing the cup. What happens if, well, Dylan “grows” inside the cup? What does it feel like if the penis walls come in contact with the pouch containing the hard cup? The usual “response” to such direct physical contact, Dylan knows, is for a penis to respond by getting bigger around and longer. But what if the cup doesn’t provide enough room for growth? Quite a dilemma to be sure.

Dylan manages to pull on the cupped strap and get it into position. What an interesting sensation. Psychologically Dylan is very much aware that the strap and cup are there, yes, very much psychologically. But physically he is aware too..he can feel the cup bearing down on the top and sides of his penis. Wow! The net result is a very pleasant “tingly” sensation, different from anything Dylan has ever experienced just doing “normal” jerking off. Dylan doesn’t feel ready to go into a full-scale orgasm, yet he knows he is pre-cumming, profusely. He can feel the inside of the cup getting damp right at the tip of his penis.

This is actually quite a special treat for Dylan, both physically and psychologically. Dylan now realizes that he could be in this “condition” inside the strap and cup for a long period of time, maybe hours. This is certainly not some two-minute jerk-off session for sure. Dylan loves it. Dylan is quite aroused but his penis is still well below the point where it would need to be in order to go into a full-scale orgasm. Something of a predicament of sorts, but a way fun predicament to be in.

But, what next? Dylan decides that what he really wants to do is to pull the asics forest green wrestling singlet over the top of the strap and cup. That should only add to the delicious “agony” Dylan is in.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

“Whew, that cup and strap fits snug” Dylan thinks to himself. Growing up, Dylan had never had the opportunity to be in a strap before, let alone a little hard cup. For Dylan, the sensations he is experiencing are all new, fun but a bit terrifying at the same time.

Dylan is obviously quite aroused, and his brain is sending strong signals that some interesting stuff is happening in his groin area. But his penis is basically confined inside the strap and cup. Dylan would love to rub and stroke himself like he did when he got these feelings in high school, but the interesting part is that the strap and cup acts like a barrier to prevent him from making any direct finger content with his penis as he would very much like to do. But, meanwhile, Dylan’s penis seems to somehow “know” that it is in a confined space, and his penis has expanded to the point where Dylan can sense that it is taking advantage of all of the space that is available inside the strap and cup and somehow “knows” that it is pressing against the walls of the cup.

This is a fascinating predicament for Dylan to be in for the first time. Under ordinary circumstances, Dylan would stroke himself and quickly get to a strong orgasm, but given where he is at, he cannot do this. But his body keeps telling his brain that he is aroused, really aroused, although not quite strongly enough to get off. Dylan is mentally “surfing along” just under an orgasm. This is fun, crazy fun maybe, but way fun for Dylan to experience. Wow! How long can Dylan’s body take this situation? I guess Dylan will find out.

What next? Keep in mind that Dylan is just trying on the stuff he got in his Amazon order, and all he has gotten to so far is just that ProForce strap and cup. But there is more stuff, a lot more stuff. Stuff that Dylan thinks could get even more interesting to put on.

What next? Dylan decides that next he would like to try on his new forest green asics wrestling singlet. He takes the tags off and starts to put it on.

The singlet fits tight too, really tight and snug. The size Dylan got certainly does not leave him any extra room. He pulls the singlet up around his waist and tries to pull the shoulder straps over his shoulders. This is not that easy. The material stretches, but this is heavy-duty stretch material, and does not have much give to it, especially so with a brand new singlet.

What is going on here? Well, a wrestling singlet is made for, well, wrestling. The whole idea is to have a snug-and tight fit so that your wrestling opponent does not have any even slightly loose cloth in the singlet that he can grab during the match. A loose-fitting singlet would defeat the purpose for the sport.

But remember that Dylan is pulling the singlet over his ProForce strap and cup, and then trying to get the shoulder straps in place.

The pressure from the strap and cup alone has been tough enough for Dylan to deal with. But getting the straps over his shoulders poses yet another problem, as in order to do that the singlet needs to be pulled up really snug in the groin area. Good for wrestling, but getting into the singlet will put upward pressure right in the groin area as well, as in right where the cup is now bearing down on Dylan’s penis. Not only that, this is heavy duty stretch material, and once the singlet is in place with the shoulder straps in the proper position, the singlet itself is going to bear down on the strap and cup, pressing it even more snugly against Dylan’s groin area.

Guys who wear straps and cups for sports are aware of the issues Dylan has been experiencing. With something looser-fitting, say a baseball uniform, its common to see guys quietly grab their cups to re-position them a bit in an effort to improve comfort. The problem with this strategy, of course, is that if your penis is already pressing against the cup walls, any movement of the cup is probably going to “encourage” the penis to grow a bit, making matters worse instead of better for the guy who is struggling.

Not to worry! Once Dylan struggled but successfully got into his new singlet, the cup and strap is pressing so snugly against his groin that Dylan can hardly move it with his hand at all.

But Dylan is still aroused, way aroused. Dylan is pre-cumming profusely now, with the pre-cum collecting inside the pouch containing the cup. Dylan can feel the accumulating wetness. Dylan finds the sensation of all that gooey pre-cum that is forming to be interesting to say the least. Its part of the overall sensation of feeling aroused but not ejaculating.

At some point Dylan will have had enough, and will want to quickly pull off the singlet, strap and cup and then stroke himself to a really powerful orgasm. The pressure to do this is building inside of Dylan’s head and body. But for now, Dylan is having too much fun for it to all be over and he discovers all these new sensations and feelings that are suddenly available to him. Dylan now is beginning to appreciate what Bill and Joe have been doing, and what Tony and Donovan were up to is coming into focus for Dylan too.

To be continued…