Ever been called out?

[California Dolphin]

I don't see anything derogatory about her comment or awkward about the situation.

I've been wearing short cut off jeans out in public for 3 years and a couple of guys commented about how the liked them. No criticism either.

Furthermore, I'm noticing a lot of guys (at least 1/2 or more) out jogging in 1970's style running shorts.

[ReservedEnthusiast]

I'm with California Dolphin on this one! It just sounds like she was saying y'all were cute/handsome but was trying to assure you that it wasn't simply BECAUSE OF your speedos.

Actually it's been the opposite for me. The only time someone's commented on me wearing a speedo was when my swimmer friend encouraged me to just wear my speedo anyway even though I didn't feel confident in it yet.

[Jbrief22]

Thanks guys. Makes sense. I think it was my Italian Catholic guilt/mentality getting to me. A lot of the reasons why I've become so comfortable wearing speedos is because I thought nobody cared or noticed me.

I think I need to change my mindset. It's not a matter of them not caring, rather not caring of their opinion. It's still not going to stop me from wearing what I love!