Are you ashamed of your speedo fetish

[Byron]

No, no - I was suggesting ME as off topic as I didn't answer on speedos.

Now I have a correction to make:
DE needs to sort out his website as my link produced only "ooops".
Darren is therefore to be found by clicking "9 comments" on this URL
instead (under the long haired guy):

http://www.aussiegayguy.com/

[Byron]

OK - apology now to Dave on G strings:
direct link should have been http://www.aussiegayguy.com/speedo/t...edos/#comments

[louis]

HEY NO OFFENCE I GUESS THE OFF TOPIC COULD OF BENE MEANT BOTH WAYS OR MY MIND IS LIKE ONLY ON A ONE WAY STREET LOL.
GUYS ON BYRONS FIRST SGGESTED SITE SCROOL DOWN -ON THE LEFT SIDE OF YOUR SCREEN CLICK ON SPEEDOS SPEEDO SEX, THE SUITS ARE NOT QUITE OFF BUT MMMMMMMM..... JUST THE THOUGHT THAT THE SPEEDOS ARE PARTIALLY ON IS (OFF) FUN LICKIN GOOD. JUST LIKE kENTUCKY FRIED CHICKEN.

[SwimTeamSpeedo]

Not sure if I call it a fetish or an attraction, but I really don't think much about it. I like wearing hot swim siuts and work hard to look good in them.

[Byron]

Also on that site (tag- red) is a good looking guy with dog tags and wearing a sexy brief red/black swirl pattern suit.
(Seems familiar however - has it been posted previously ?)

[Byron]

Those who do think something about it are often guys with a faith conflict - but good to see that the APA shows some common sense on associated issues:

http://turnipstyle.com/psychologists...aight-therapy/

[SwimTeamSpeedo]

What? Not sure what the point is of the APA post, but the picture is pretty nice.

[Byron]

Good - the pic is your compensation for having a post where you would inevitably not see the point * - which is that the APA are thankfully expressing a contemporary view on "deviant" behaviour.

Fetishes and sexual orientation are associated issues as I said and cause guilt and shame to some according to the severity of a religious faith or other beliefs in which they may have been brought up.

The abhorrences of an earlier generation resulted in some pretty awful "cures" being administered for unacceptable "diseases" and so the proclamation of some corrective professional philosophy has been
long overdue to replace the inhumane and senseless strictures which belong in the past - but which can be found all too often in the present unfortunately (the mere fact of Louis asking in a post "are you ashamed?" surely proves the point).

*as with Torchwatch

[Crail]

STS - I like that approach - you may model for me any time :: silly grin ::

[California Dolphin]

First of all, Louis's comment is actually on topic and a good question.

Most people do have "Fetishes" - that is an erotic/sexual fascination with material objects that are related to the male/female body in one way or another and as long as you're not illegally exploiting or endangering anyone, there's nothing to be ashamed about.

I came from a "conservative" family and their thoughts about sexuality were quite restrictive and very prudish to say the least. When I was an early teenager (in the 1960s and 70s), my erotic and sexual thoughts were "All over the road" (both Str8 and Gay) and I was very confused about the true future of my sexuality.

I recall my fascination with taking swimming/W-Polo in my high school P.E. class and I would often J.O. in bed while thinking about being in the pool with 20 other guys almost naked. Despite the pleasurable thoughts and sensations, I was also very uncomfortable with my J.O. to those fanatsies.

However since the internet came along, I was able to share and explore my ideas with others and I now consider myself to be "normal" with regard to my place on the sexuality spectrum.

Getting back on topic, speedos and bikinis have always been at the top of the list of Gay and Str8 fetishes.

Here's a list of my horniest fetishes in order of preference:
Swimming or playing W-Polo in the nude
Swimming or playing W-polo in a speedo
Japanese (in the nude) communal baths or hot tubs
Feet, legs, butts, navels, nipples, necks
Short athletic shorts, tees, and sneakers
Jeans, tees, and sneakers
And possibly something else I haven't discovered yet!!!

CD