[sebbie]

Bill and Joe are fooling around with something that is really interesting, and learning things that could be important and useful to both of them in their entire adult lives. One of these things is learning more about exactly what makes them feel, in slang, “feel horny”.

A lot of guys would say that they already completely understand the answer to that. My only response to that is to say ah sure, that is what YOU think!” Even guys just past puberty know that what happens is just a heck of a lot more complicated than that, involving all sorts of weird feelings and sensation that seem to happen at what are seen as “inopportune” circumstances, times and places.

By the time a guy reaches young adulthood, say the 18 or 19 as is the case for Bill and Joe, they have already come to grips with a lot of this. I suspect that every guy, buried in his brain somewhere, has an indelible mental “list” of things that happened involving them and the actions of their penises, often “inadvertently” and the circumstances, place and time when each event happened. At the top of this list are situations where an erection occurred in a public or semi-public place (such as a gym locker room with other guys wandering around) which in turn leads to a full-scale uncontrollable ejaculation complete with a big wet semen stain. For a teen guy, this has to be nearly the most embarrassing event ever and gets etched into the mind forever.

But, by the time a guy gets to be 18 or 19, he has probably learned at least something about ejaculatory control so that these kinds of out-of-control events occur far less frequently, if at all. Bill and Joe at this point in their lives, certainly know SOMETHING about ejaculatory control, that is, delaying a full-scale orgasm until they are in a good “situation” to get off, in the early teen years, with a degree of privacy, or “with a favorite girl”.

Learning ejaculatory control is, well, I’ve often thought, is about as interesting as it gets. This is due in part to the opposing forces at work. It has always seemed to me that the more the mind wants to tell the body that I really do not want to ejaculate right now because this is not an appropriate time or place, the more the body keeps telling the mind “but I really NEED to!” “but I really NEED to!” These opposing forces, the mental effort by the guy to delay orgasm counterbalanced by the building physical sensation on needing to drive many guys absolutely bananas, and are the real source of terror about a guy’s sexual being. It is as if the penis is playing a game of its own with the mind, and the penis is playing to win.

Let us think about Bill and Joe’s situation at their current age versus what would have likely happened had they done the same thing at, say, age12 or 13. Had I been 12 or 13 and been “required” to wear the gear that Bill and Joe are wearing, I would have likely gone into a full-scale erection and orgasm lightning fast. I’m not sure that I would have even been able to get myself into the cup, strap and compression gear at that age before that happened. Think about the gear and the situation. In retrospect, at that age, had I known what I know now, I would have silently been clamoring to get the same gear anyway. That is what is loopy about sexual turn-ons at that age. A guy wants to avoid these situations while quietly seeking them out at the same time. How weird!

But Bill and Joe are obviously young adults and in complete control of their bodies. Yah sure! They both were able to get into their gear and make the short walk to the gym without going into an orgasm. Now they have to confront the various gym machines, not to mention encountering Dylan who seems more than a little “interested” in what the guys are wearing. But more about Dylan and Dylan’s possible “hang-ups” later. For now, Dylan is simply a quiet “observer” of all of this.

Now Bill and Joe are contemplating getting on the stationary bike. The strap and cup are obviously held tightly against the groin with the cup fitting snugly around the top of the penis. Now, with each cycle of the pedals on the bike, that same cup cannot remain stationary. Instead, it is going to have to slide, if even by only a small amount, in relation to the penis securely contained within. Just the THOUGHT of this happening can be a turn-on, without the physical sensation of the cup moving back and forth along the penis. Of course, there will be some physical sensation from all of this as well.

Penises do what penises do. When the penis senses this movement surrounding it, generally there is a response which involves a clear tensing up sensation with increased blood flow which means that the penis is going to gradually press more firmly against the walls of the cup. These sensations all work together, making each cycle of the bike wheel more and more pleasant.

It is at least very difficult, if not impossible, to go into a full-blown orgasm while confined inside of the cup. Part of the problem is that the physical sensations from the cup walls are very subtle. Maybe more important is that there is just not enough room to get into a full-blown erection. Still, the urge to ejaculate keeps building with each pedal cycle. The entire workout can be very enjoyable, to say the least.

….To be continued