What to wear?

[MaryAnderson]

I love to wear swimsuits so whenever there would be a trip with my friends, we always have this kind of enjoyment.

Last time, We’d be spending our days relaxing, swimming, and beach hopping with most attractive beachwear “Swimsuit”.

Mostly the people hate for swimsuits shopping but from a long time I was looking for the attractive swimsuit and finally I got it from http://www.vidasoleil.com/

You will get the swimsuits for everyone whether she will be of 30’s or 50’s.

[sebbie]

Yah but where is the stuff for guys, who are 99 percent of the members of this site?

[swim suit eddie]

I had an appointment with the dermatologist, when my doctor found a cancerous mole in my lower right leg. Iv'e never had to deal with such a frightful medical situation. I felt very nervous and somewhat scared going there, but to offset my anxieties, I wore my favorite snug and warm clothes, soft button up flannel shirt, with my favorite snug denim overalls and leotard, tights and Speedo style microfiber briefs underneath and of course a change of loose clothing and baggy underwear to wear after my treatment. It was a very cool October day, I arrived at the specialist's, office that afternoon feeling fearful of what will happen to me, yet glad I was glad to be wearing wearing my warm and snug outfit, while still dressed. After waiting a while and filling out a lot of forms, I handed them to the receptionist, when called in by the nurse. She took me to a large examination room with a lot of new technical equipment. The doctor then came into the examination room, as I sat on the exam table, a very pretty female doctor. She explained what will be done starting with a complete body scan for any other malignet moles, then cutting out any possible remaining infection. It'll take a few hours and you'll have to be completely undressed through the process and covered by a gown. The nurse then came back with the big white gown, when both her and the doctor said I could take my time undressing, as I'm the last patient for the day. I was helped off the exam table by the nurse, seeing me in my warm and snug clothes. I was so nervous and blushing somewhat, when asked what I had on under the overalls, as all my clothes have to come off. Between the secure feeling of the snug overalls and leotards underneath, then the nurse offering to help me undress if needed, gave me an erection, not yet not noticable under all my warm clothes. I did accept her offer to help me in a shy like manner. The doctor stayed in the examination room preparing and setting up the highly technical medical equipment, as the nurse partially closed the privacy curtain surrounding me. My anxiety was so high now, despite the nurse and doctor reassuring me not to be so fearful. It will not be as bad as I fear and will be fine after the examination and treatment, then having me take off my sneakers and socks,covering my feet still encased in the tights underneath. There I stood,like a sad little boy about to loose his warm and snug security blanket, closing my eyes and crossing my legs, hearing snaps opening , bib and straps on the snug overalls being unfastened by the nurse. She told me not to be embarrassed or ashamed being naked and hard, as this a normal happening for a man going through a medical exam. I did feel a little better, as she gently unbuttoned my flannel shirt with the overalls shoulder straps and bib dangling at my waist with the overalls still snug in my lowers. She was very professional and gentle with me and now I began enjoying being undressed by her. Yes, the doctor was still in the room, glancing every so often to see how the nurse and I were progressing, getting me ready for examination and leg surgery. Now the nurse guided me onto the exam table, where I would be totally naked, for at least one hour, while the doctor and nurse did the proceedure on me. Now she pulled off my shirt, gently folding it and placing it on a chair. I was feeling very aroused, knowing my snug clothes will be off me very soon. The nurse stepped asked how I was feeling, again reassuring me to to be so fearful. She then finished unbuttoning the overalls side buttons, lifting my leotard clad body, lower torso, pulling and tugging them down and off me. it certainly tickled and did make me feel some what less fearful of what was about to happen, but I still couldn't finish undressing, so she continued undressing me. Now the last extra snug and secure last protective clothing was coming off, leotard, tights and Speedo style briefs. It was a long and slow process, getting them off, but she didn't mind, being the medical surgery will take her and the doctor a lot more time and care. I have to admit, I did like having all my clothes being taken off, especially my leotard, tights and the Speedo briefs, with her getting totally naked for the operation. The doctor looked back again,then came over to the exam table, as the nurse peeled off my last protective layers, tights and briefs, then covering me in the gown, looking like tent city. Once, I was naked, laying on the exam table, I did savor having my favorite snug outfit taken off piece by piece, while the doctor would examine all my body for any other possible cancer bearing moles. Soon the pain reducing needle took effect and Wasn't feeling any real pain and really relaxed now, but still glad I wore my favorite snug clothes to the dermatologist. I wasn't happy wearing my baggy clothes home, yet wearing and having my warm snug overalls and leotards with sexy Speedo style briefs having to come off, certainly made a long day at a doctor's office go a lot better.

[sebbie]

et’s face reality here. 19-year old college guys, dorm roommates, talk about a lot of stuff. As anyone who lived under the circumstances of a college dorm. There is a wide variation with respect to how roommates fare living with each other. I guess the young college women face a lot of the same issues and concerns, but for guys, the struggle to find a workable way of navigating through the process with a male roommate frequently seems even more difficult.

Male buddies are oftentimes very good friends, and they talk about a lot of stuff and share information about what they know or have recently learned. This sharing of information is particularly important for teen boys just past puberty, when they suddenly become very interested in understanding anatomical details that they had little interest in prior to reaching puberty. For most young guys this involves uncovering the details of female anatomy and in particular the details of how sex works with a female partner.

A classic “coming-of-age” movie from the the 1970s is one called “Summer of ‘42” where Hermie, a young teen boy, encounters and then falls for a much older woman, a woman who lost her husband in World War II. A lot of the movie follows Hermie and his male buddies as they together learn about female anatomy and how to have sex with a woman from old books they secreted away. The “climax” of the movie is when Hermie actually has sex with the older woman.

Coming-of-age movies involving young teen guys who think they are gay are far rarer, and I am not aware of any movies that deal with that topic in the same way coming of age movies exist involving straight males. Gay teens obviously learn stuff about other guys in some manner, but the entire path is less clear and perhaps more complicated than the one depicted involving coming-of-age encounters for straight males.

So, where things get complicated for teen males irrespective of whether they think they are straight or gay has to do with the fact that while guys talk about a lot of stuff with their male buddies, the discussions usually center on some third party, presumably a female, as it did in the “Summer of 42” movie.

This means that any talk about what happens to a guy as he becomes aroused and how a guy responds sexually is off limits unless that discussion focuses on what is happening during a sexual encounter with a female partner, and guys vary a lot even on how they treat this.

In this regard, some guys are braggadocios, that is, when they have a sexual encounter with a female, they like to brag about it to their male friends. Even male adults who should be old enough to know better still do this, which is more than a little odd for sure.

A basic problem with the bragging is that whatever the guy said ends up circling back to the girl involved, and at that point all hell breaks loose. A guy quickly learns that if he has any sincere feelings for the girl then need to keep his mouth completely shut on what happened in the encounter, and that includes a completely closed mouth even to his closest male buddies.

Encounters involving other males for guy with, shall we say, have gay leanings get even trickier, because if that information should ever get back to a straight male, it sets the guy up for teasing, bullying, and worse. But the entire set of rules here are really complicated here in part because teen males learn a lot of stuff from their buddies, but the entire topic of what happens to a guy involved either in solo sex or in having some sort of an encounter with a male partner his age are strictly off-limits topics.

Now we circle back to Josh and Dylan and the activities going on right now in the dorm room. Josh and Dylan are both 19, and should know a lot more about sex in all its forms than they did as young teen boys. Further, in college, the general threats of being teased and bullied are less than they would have been as a young teen. For any number of reasons, Josh is not the kind of guy who is going to dash out into the hallway and tell any guy who might listen to him all the details of what he observed in the dorm room. At some level, Dylan fully understands that too. So, if this is a secret event, the secret is safe between the two.

Still, there are tons of unanswered questions. Let me raise the issues one by one. First, initially taken aback by the sound of Josh’s key in the dorm room lock, Dylan has quickly gotten to the point where there is something that he sort of likes about the idea of having Josh there watching him jerk off and observing the nuances of what he is doing to himself at every moment. Take note that Dylan did not suddenly stop stroking himself from base to glans (nor, for that matter, suddenly lose his erection) the moment Josh wandered into the room. This brings up thoughts that maybe many guys, however actively they attempt to hide their masturbation, might in fact find it arousing to being accidentally “discovered.” But, of course, that depends by whom.

Second, with Josh standing there, the sexual sensations, indeed the stiff erection itself, seems to be getting stronger and stronger, which is particularly interesting because Dylan has been riding along at near the point of ejaculation all morning long. Dylan has been having the “advanced course” in ejaculatory control for sure.

Third, Josh had always thought he would be “turned off” by seeing another guy his age erect and masturbating, and this turn-off was simply part of the whole deal of being a straight guy. But aren’t straight guys supposed to only be turned on in encounters with women? Indeed, when a guy finds a female partner, he is suppose to discard or simply leave all of his psychosexual interest in solo sex behind and never engage in solo sex again. Or, maybe not! Josh is not so sure at this point. But that is not how Josh feels right now at all, definitely not.

Fourth, Josh is having issues of his own right now and these issues are centered in his groin area. Josh just observing Dylan is feeling the tell-tale rumblings of sexual arousal himself, rumblings that cannot be ignored. At some level, Josh is thinking that would be a lot of fun to be in Dylan’s shoes right noy, except that Dylan is not wearing any shoes. Josh is trying to determine what exactly is causing his body to respond the way it is. Part of could be that skimpy thong Dylan is wearing, putting pressure on his perineum, and pushing Dylan’s penis and balls both up and forward. By Dylan has never tried on a thong, so he has no first-hand experience with these sensations. Josh at some point has already decided that he wants to try wearing a thong too, but that is not where he is this morning.

For Josh, what’s scarier still is the idea that he seems to like to watch Josh jerk off, and this gets more and more fun to watch as Dylan gets closer and closer to shooting. At some level, Josh understands this.

But what does all of what is going on this morning suggest for the subject of the sexuality of Dylan and of Josh? Can they both still think of themselves as perfectly straight? Josh and Dylan are both wondering about the same “crazy question.” Of the college guys in the dorm, how many would be turned off by what is happening versus turned on? Does being turned on at all mean that deep down, at some level, you are a gay guy? This is a good question for sure, and a question where there is no easy or simple response.

To be continued…

[Schoolspeedo]

Originally Posted by sebbie

Let me suppose that you want to learn more about how your body reacts to situations that are (largely) outside your conscious control. Let me assume that you own at least a half-dozen swim briefs of various sizes. A basic stunt involves taking these out of the drawer, examining each one and checking its condition.

Next, it is fun to line these up in order, from least skimpy/confining to most skimpy/confining. It is always interesting to include in the group a new suit, one you have recently purchased but have not yet tried on.
Then, what you are going to do is try on each suit in private, but in front of a mirror, starting with the least confining of the suits you have selected for the experiment, and only gradually moving toward the more restrictive-and confining suits. In my case, the least confining suits often have a 32- or even 34- inch waist, and I gradually work my way down to something with a 24- or 26- inch waist.


As you try on each suit, do more than simply stare at yourself in the mirror. Examine exactly how each suit fits you, and what position for your penis in each suit looks best and feels best for you. How does your penis feel when confined in each successive suit? Also, as you pull yourself into each suit, are you starting to feel the tightening sensation that typically occurs at the very beginning of each erection. As you pull each successive suit in position, are you starting to
get bigger? Explore different locations for your penis. Does one of the suits just feel better and more exciting than others?

Unless you are completely brain dead, the process of getting out of and then into a successively smaller suit is probably going to result in significant precumming, perhaps profusely. Take mental notes of all of this. Specifically, what was the suit that first got you there? Are we talking dime-sized precum spots, quarter-sized, or even larger? Take mental notes!


It will get increasingly difficult to try on, examine and adjust each successive suit. By the time you make it to the sixth suit in the row, you will probably be longing and clamoring more and more to have a full-scale orgasm. That is fine and to be expected as you near the end of the sequence of suits. Just take note that messing around like this probably not only taught you some things you did not know about your body and how it responds to what initially.


This is a great way to enjoy yourself and your suit collection when you are alone, but the same iea might work even better with a partner who is attempting to do the same thing in sequence. As you do this there is something hugely erotic about the simple realization that there is someone else near you who is experiencing much the same most interesting sensations and feelings.


Sebbie

I'm with you on this one. Nothing more erotic for me than to slip into a tiny swim bikini and I frequently go into my swimwear drawer and pose around in front of a mirror with various suits. As you say by the time I've slipped into the 4th or 5th suit that my penis is well firm and causing an obscene bulge. Most suits are of very slight Lycra or spandex and reveal most detail of the head and shaft. Some are so skimpy that the fabric is stretched to the limit. I love wearing as brief as I dare in public even though the fabric doesn't really hide the form, especially in front a female friend(of my wife and I) when using her hot tub. She has nice long nails and the thought of them brushing against my bikini keeps my semi.

[sebbie]

I appreciate your kind comments. For me the main issue in continuing to write here is coming up with story lines that my readers can personally relate to...both the dilemmas and the fun.

Again, I appreciate hearing from you and what you enjoy doing.

Sebbie