feeling feminine in a speedo

[California Dolphin]

I wish people (both men and women) would get over the hang up that men in speedos and short shorts = Gay.

And don't give me the absurd explanation that the stigma came from Gay Parades that featured men in speedos.

Speedos were worn by STR8 men and boys decades before there were Gay parades so the Gays didn't "adopt" any symbol that didn't already exist as normal.

As for the "Feminine" aspect, that's a matter of the wearer's self perception. Complete or 95% nudity isn't a gender specific fetish. Many guys like speedos and nudity simply because it's arousing and in many cases, there's no other connotation associated with doing it.