Speedo partners

[speedomeup]

I am a gay man in his 30s living in SoCal. I must not be looking properly but I have never met a man I have dated in the past that was supportive of my swim brief/thong/Lycra interests. Truthfully, it wasn’t a dealbreaker but the more I think about it, the more I believe it is the case now. I would love to have a romantic partner/husband interested and supportive of my swim brief/thong/ Lycra.

Question up for discussion: if you are single, is it a dealbreaker if your partner is not supportive of your speedo/thong/Lycra etc. If you are married, does your husband/wife support it? If not, why not and how do you cope?