[sebbie]

A collection of “stuff” like Dylan owns can be really fun in all sorts of different ways. Like so many other guys, Dylan is very fond of being just a little aroused, but also maintaining a degree of arousal over long periods of time. Getting the arousal level to the point where it is just right so that it can be successfully sustained over a long period of time even while being engaged in other activities, say, going to class or working out, is the tricky part. How does a guy stay in a semi-aroused state over a long period of time?

Every guy probably knows the exact sensation Dylan is after, that feeling of tightness or tenseness in the groin area and really, in the lower part of the penis that suggests that something is happening there, but not too much of a sensation, at least not enough so that the guy starts to feel compelled to soon ejaculate. The exact sensation is great fun, but also quite subtle. I call it “riding the wave” the wave being sensations that radiate throughout the body when a guy is sexually excited, even just a little bit excited.

What does Dylan’s collection of gear have to do with all of this fun stuff? Isn’t a guy “supposed to go through a series of steps starting with a subtle but still quite pleasant sexual arousal, which quickly leads into something that is, well, “bigger and better”? Well, yes, and, surprisingly, no.

Once arousal is underway, stuff can move in very different directions, and one of these directions does not push forward into a stiffer penis that is accompanied almost invariably by an ever greater urge to ejaculate until ejaculation comes off. What I am talking about is slower and also sweeter. It might not lead anywhere that is harder and stiffer, at least not for some time. And maintaining that semi state is where Dylan’s gear can prove to be, well, quite useful.

College students are often very busy. They are learning new stuff and doing tough and difficult things. For a guy, enjoying one’s own body sometimes gets pushed back even though it is a very enjoyable thing to do. For example, Dylan certainly enjoyed that session where he masturbated with Josh watching him do it right there in the room. But that is not something a College student would or could do in public. What Dylan and Josh were doing is reserved for quieter, private times.

Still, every guy has moments in his life where his groin area feels quite pleasant even if he is not an actively-engaged masturbator. Should a guy just ignore these remarkably pleasant sensations or perhaps even try and help them along?

Everyone reading this knows that Dylan has no qualms whatsoever about enjoying his own body, even if this involves no one else. This is not a bad thing to do, indeed it is a good thing to be able to do this on a regular basis without feeling uncertainty or guilty about it whatsoever. I guess every guy in some manner greatly enjoys masturbation, but the real differences lie in a guy’s ability to feel OK about this. Maybe an infatuation with masturbation is ultimately bad. What if I get to like it too much, in which case I never get motivated to seek out a partner for sex? Is this bad for me? Will I end up being a loner? These are all interesting questions for sure, and maybe too deep to consider for now.

Dylan is a busy guy. He goes to class every day and is doing well, grade wise. He has gotten interested in working out at the gym too, something he never really got into when he was in high school.

Dylan has long been into snug-fitting clothing. This started even before he went through puberty. He loved how snug fitting cotton briefs made his groin area feel. As he grew, he liked to wear jeans and underwear that was nearly too small for him any more. As a senior in high school he graduated to even snugger-fitting skinny jeans.. More and more he liked how all the clothes fit to his groin and to a certain degree emphasized his manhood in the mirror.

This all led to the session where with Bill and Joe he placed the order for that Amazon gear: a strap and a cup, a pair of thong underwear, a skimpy little swim brief, a compression tee and jammer, and a snug-fitting wrestling singlet. It’s occurred to Dylan that any of this gear COULD be worn to class under his skinny jeans and maybe under a sweatshirt on top, and further, any of this gear might keep him going, semi-aroused, even as class is proceeding. He needs to be careful to not get too aroused, just aroused enough to keep the pleasant sensations feeding his brain during the lecture. Picking WHAT to wear to class under the jeans and sweatshirt could pose a bit of a dilemma, but that should be quickly resolved.

How much is just enough arousal, but not too much? Well any guy realizes that is where the drops of pre cum or ooze come in. These ordinarily are tiny enough not to leak and stain into a denim jean. But guys are normally quickly aware of when they are in oozing mode, because they will feel the definite sensation of moistness forming right at the penis tip and on whatever the undergarment happens to be.

Dylan knows. He can’t not know, because he has already been playing this wearing the underwear thong under his skinny jeans to class, and further, he made it through class and back to his dorm without completely going off. That came later, with Josh in the room.

What will Dylan try next to wear to class? Will he still be able to make it through class without embarrassing himself? Dylan is drawn to trying this because it is so much fun. But, what will Dylan try doing to himself and his body next?

To be continued….