[sebbie]

Tips and Techniques for Enjoying Your Male Body

Today I want to combine and share with you some specific techniques for focusing on enjoying your male body. I am providing these with a specific focus on accomplishing this for single males who do not have a sexual partner. However, many of the techniques I suggest might work their ways in a relationship situation as well, but if you fall into that category, I leave this up to you. I enjoy “teaching others these techniques almost as much as I enjoy experimenting with them myself.

As my readers all know by now, I am big into edging—taking myself to a high arousal level without and sustaining that level for an extended period of time (but delaying orgasm as long as possible). I find it interesting that many of the porn Website videos are of guys doing the same thing or something very similar. Some of the video guys claim to have gone for two weeks or longer without having an orgasm, though they probably have not stayed feeling horny for a solid two weeks. Still, as the younger guys all know, going without having an orgasm becomes progressively more difficult as the wait grows longer.

I just returned from a two-week long trip, and ended up having little free time to focus on my sexual being. I was so distracted that there was no time for me to focus on that. Besides, most of the stuff I enjoy using in my edging activities was not with me—the estim device, the vacuum pump, my lubricants—I was not even carrying my penis rings, though I did have a couple straps, thongs and a swim brief or two—so all was not lost.

Last night I got down to doing some serious playing with myself. Psychologically, I was feeling horny as all get out—all I wanted to think about was getting hard. That is a good place to be after being “deprived” for two weeks.

Interestingly, the first thing I was anxious to do was to put on my little estim device. This is that little $20 eBay gizmo. I have just a basic model, which as two outputs, one for a pair of adjustable silicone rings and another for a modestly sized butt plug. The two outputs can be used together or individually. The two silicone rings go around the base of my penis and over my glans, with adjustable current flow levels and patterns between the two. On occasion I have also used the butt plug, but electrical stimulation there is probably a good deal more fun for guys who still have a prostate.

I discovered something last night I had not realized before, however. The butt plug can be used as a perineum stimulator. If you have been unconvinced that your perineum is sexually active, merely touching this area with an operating butt plug should convince you otherwise. This current actually makes the stimulation from the silicone rings on the penis feel, well, more interesting. Working the two together will cause you to “focus” down there and that will soon be all you will want to think about. Best $20 I ever spent on eBay!

The whole idea is to get really horny doing this until you think you are on the verge of having an orgasm. Coming out of this dual stimulation, I was already “firm” shall I say. This is terrific fun, because next, well…

Its time to suck my penis into the vacuum pump, already rigged with one of those “mean” blue silicone penis rings I was talking about in my previous post. I have discovered something interesting about vacuum pumps—they do not work very well if you are not already psychologically feeling horny (aroused). Better still if you have a nice start to an intense hard-on before you suck yourself in. And after that estim on the perineum in conjunction with the silicone estim rings, I was already feeling (and looking) great down there...this was well worth the two week wait. I got into the pump and quickly sucked myself into an even harder and more aroused state. I was just enjoying my situation immensely at that point. The pump had some lube around the sheath opening which my penis liked very much as well.

I snapped on the blue ring from the pump sheath to the base of my penis and removed the pump. I had not been this hard and aroused in many weeks. Next, I took one of the clear beaded silicone penis rings and snapped it over my glans. Those beads on that clear ring feel really interesting on the glans, and touching yourself leads to all sorts of interesting and pleasant sensations in what is now a “hot button” area. Time for some more lube on the shaft as well—crawling up the walls with sheer delight at this point, but wait….

Time to pull on one of my best swim briefs—a snug one with Blue SEOBEAN letters across the front, and point my beaded, ringed and hard penis upward in the brief. If those beads felt good on the glans before, they feel really good there now in the confines of the swim brief. All of these ideas suddenly come together, and I am horny as all get out but still edging. The swim brief then comes off and I lube my erection with shower gel soap, because I am about to crawl into a warm tub of water still wearing the rings and the erection. How long can I go? I finally did have an orgasm after I got into the tub but that was anticlimactic. The real fun of all of this was the sequence of events leading to the orgasm. Hence all the edging porn videos.

Previously I have discussed using a magic wand style vibrator to stimulate the perineum instead of the electrified butt plug. This works as well. A decent vacuum pump for engaging in this is also a $20 item on eBay. There are gobs of different models for about that on eBay. Message me and I can help you navigate through the choices. I assume that my readers here already have an appropriate swim brief that they are fond of for engaging in the part that involves penis-up in swimwear, with hard-on activity. Many of you regard yourself as already an expert3 in doing that, but have you tried this, blue-and-clear beaded rings on?

Enjoy!