[sebbie]

Basic steps in self pleasuring

1. Select one of your favorite swim briefs from your collection. Choose one that fits snuggly and if your penis points up in the pouch, presses firmly against the cloth pouch. A brief with an oversized pouch will not work as well. Try to find yourself one that applies enough pressure so that your penis even if flaccid or nearly so will still stay pointed up toward the waistband on its own. Though what is about to happen to you alone should be enough to get you at least a bit hard (or more).

2. Make sure the very tip of your penis is pressed firmly against the slick cloth pouch

3. Now dig out your hand held vibrator and apply it to your penis underside starting at the base and working your way to the tip.

4. Be careful around the glans area. It is really fun to touch but a bit too much attention there can cause you to go into uncontrollable ejaculatory spasms in a hurry. If you start to sense that you are nearing that point, you need to quickly back off and move the vibrator to some other place on your body to cool things down a little. You will be dealing with these sensations over and over as you go though these steps so learn when you need to stop.

5. Meanwhile, watching the precum form in crystal clear droplets through the suit is great fun, and if you can keep your penis in approximately the same position you should be able to make some really big ones quickly.

6. I like to apply the vibrator in all sorts of places once I get going. Penis up, moving the vibrator along both sides all along the penis as well, which produces slightly different sensations from the underside massage. Its fun to research this and see exactly how much precum is produced by each area

7. Keep trying various places, At some point you will say you have gotten to the stage where if I continue this any longer I am going to ejaculate. Once that thought occurs to you its time to stop without ejaculating.

8. Pull off the brief, apply a bit of lube (gel soap works fine at least for solo sex) and crawl into your penis pump you bought for $20 on ebay.

9. Try using the vacuum pump to take you to a degree of size and hardness beyond where you got yourself in the brief and using the vibrator.

10. The sensations you get will feel a bit different from what the vibrator gave you. Different but interesting as well. For starters you can’t touch your now elongated penis as its inside the polycarbonate tube. Your penis will look, well, big and red, which is always an interesting place to be.

11. I like to raise and lower the vacuum multiple times. There is a quick vacuum release valve on every pump. As the vacuum increases from pumping you will grow noticeably with every pump stroke. You will get a little smaller with each vacuum release, but if you keep doing this repeatedly you should end up bigger and bigger with each cycle. It’s very difficult to go into an ejaculatory spasm while still in the pump. Guys have been known to do it but the real point is to get you hard enough so you can ejaculate if you want once the pump is off.

12. In prepping the pump the trick is to put a small silicone ring over the sleeve that can be popped right onto your penis as you remove the pump.

13. Remove the pump and sleeve leaving the silicone ring in place. At this point your penis will feel really neat and it’s time to apply a gel soap to your entire penis.

14. Now it is time to see if you can make yourself still harder using your hand and fingers on your lubed up penis. If you feel ready to ejaculate, just stop playing with yourself and cool down a bit before restarting. This is a variation of the classic sex therapist’s exercise for helping guys cope with premature ejaculation

15. What you do next is your choice. The orgasm you could have right now will be really powerful I’m sure, but you could just stop before you quite get to that point and pick up where you left off by repeating the steps the next night.

16. A stunt guys do is to see how many days they can go getting themselves almost to ejaculating but then stopping. Some guys run contests of this sort with themselves. Each night you don’t ejaculate it will become more and more difficult to keep from ejaculating the next night, but that is part of the fun.

17. The guys who can keep from ejaculating after doing this, say, for a full week, claim that the orgasm that does occur finally is right up there with the best they have ever experienced. But that is all up to you. And all of this is clean safe fun without a sex partner. Or maybe with!