The Magic Wand, Part 3
I have been playing with my magic wand, and I got to thinking about something interesting. I probably would have not gotten into doing this had I not watched some erotic porn videos, typically in something that might be called a master-and-slave format. Generally, in one of these videos, the so-called slave is bound wrists and ankles flat on a bed so he cannot move, or in particular, touch himself erotically. In many of these videos, the slave is clad in a swim brief, though a more confining wrestling singlet is also a possibility.
The master, of course is a trusted partner (most often male) whose job is to see if he can get the slave aroused as much as possible, without (but getting the slave just under the point of) ejaculation using a variety of means, maybe starting with plain old masturbating him. So these are edging videos as well. And, of course, some of the slaves in the videos are very good at delaying orgasm while appearing to the camera as being fully erect.
But, the magic wand plays a critical role in a lot of these videos. The magic wand has a number of settings, ranging from a basic steady vibration with an interesting and unique buzzing sound, to all sorts of other sounds at other setting ranging from a fast-slow sequence to a low speed growl, sometimes in start-stop mode where the vibrations run for a second or two and then come to a dead stop, repeatedly. The fun part about this is that just by hearing the sound, I can pretty much tell what setting the vibrator is on.
Think about this part. Getting aroused is a curious mix of the psychological and the physical. To illustrate, I presume guys read the stuff I write simply because the details I make clear about a situation are arousing from a psycological perspective, and for me writing is more fun if I am led to believe that my readers are getting turned on by what I am writing. Weird stuff, the psychological!
OK so what does that have to do with the Magic Wand. It turns out that the sounds the stupid thing makes are so unique and interesting that, once I get familiar with what the wand feels like, say, doing a “massage” of my penis in the various settings while I am clad in a swim brief or singlet, I associate the arousal with the sound the wand is making—say a low-pitched growl that repeatedly starts and stops.
This is a “Pavlov’s Dog” kind of situation. In the videos the guy bound to the bed is in a situation where he knows the partner is going to try to get him really aroused in a variety of ways, with the “game” ending when the guy being aroused can no longer hold back from ejaculating. From the perspective of the bound guy, he wants to sustain a firm-and-fun arousal for as long as possible facing everything the partner has in the arousal “arsenal.” This is classic edging under extreme circumstances and is fun for both the bound guy and his partner (who often is getting aroused himself while doing this).
The Pavlov’s dog part is really interesting. At some point the partner turns on the magic wand. The bound slave is not brain-dead. He recognizes the unique sounds of the wand instantly and knows that merely touching his penis beneath the swim brief pouch is going to be both really fun but also may cause him to go into “I can no longer keep from ejaculating mode” quickly. Turns out that merely hearing the growl of the wand off in the distance itself is highly arousing. This is the psychological part of edging at its best as the guy anticipates what os to come based on the sound.
Then there are all these settings that each produce unique vibration patterns with each associated with a unique sound as well. This is all a key part of arousal, but also is an advanced class in the nuances of the edging technique.
The videos around this theme are popular in part because probably nearly every guy would find being the slave or even the master would be an extraordinarily fun place to be. And coping with simply the sounds of that massage unit becomes integral to the entire edging experience. My only advice is that you may need to practice solo using the wand before you turn the control of the wand over to another person. For the average guy new to the magic wand, it can lead you into an orgasm so quickly that you are not even fully erect when it happens and these quick orgasms are not nearly as much fun as they would have been had you already gotten yourself fully erect by edging for a period of time, and learning how to edge for long periods of time without ejaculating is a skill only gained with practice. Adding a Magic Wand to those creates a whole new set of issues and problems with premature ejaculation to overcome. Thankfully, the efforts you make to improve your edging skills in the presence of a magic wand are really interesting and enjoyable on their own. You won’t get as good at accomplishing this as many of the guys in the videos, but maybe that is not the point. Will you too get hard just hearing the unique buzz of an operating wand? You will not know until you run some experiments. Me, I am climbing the walls psychologically this morning just thinking about all of this and what I have learned and written here.
So, have fun! The Magic wand is a $20 investment. I presume my readers already have a suitable swim brief!
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