[sebbie]

Guys, straight, gay, or residing somewhere in that huge central plain in between, truly love the sensation of their penises being contained within a snug-fitting place. I suppose this is one of the major keys to understanding the physiological and biological basis for the core of partner sex, but in the absence of partner sex, practically any situation that gets a guy into this place and space will do.

A lot of guys grow up thinking that the faster that they can get to orgasm, somehow, the more “masculine” that they will seem to their partner. A basic problem with this idea is that it is quite the opposite of what is necessary for maximum enjoyment with a partner. The key to maximum sexual pleasure for guys is to train yourselves to be able to maintain the highest possible degree of arousal such that you can still hold off ejaculating until you for certain really do want to end the sex. This is not an easy thing for most guys to learn how to do for a variety of reasons.

The issues begin shortly after puberty, when a guy begins to learn some of the nuances of how to masturbate, but then learns the techniques for getting off in the shortest possible period of time for fear of “getting caught” It doesn’t matter who “discovers” what they are doing, parents, siblings, peers at school, the lesson that is always learned is that if a guy is going to play with himself, he needs to get to the ejaculation part as quickly as possible. This coupled with the fact that young guys are almost invariably uncertain as to what they are doing is “normal” or not, or whether such activity indicates, perhaps that the guy is gay and not really that interested in girls that much or at all.

All of this is terrifying to the male teen. Fun, perhaps exciting, extraordinarily special, but in many ways terrifying as well. Think about what Bill and Joe are doing right now, and take notice of how things have changed for both of them, relative to the place they were at in high school. For starters, both of them have been getting huge lessons in the pure enjoyment of staying somewhat aroused for an extended period of time without ejaculating, with their cups providing the tool for not quite being able to get off like they would have in just plain ordinary masturbation.

Second, they are both enjoying this knowing full well that the other guy in the room is doing the same thing to himself as well. In part, they have both at least to a degree worked through their fear of masturbating at the same time or place as another guy and the prospect of being teased, bullied or labeled a sissy gay jerk-off or whatever it is that teen males do or say to other teen males that invariably makes this situation for young teens so difficult. Bill and Joe are doing this largely because what they are doing is terrifically enjoyable, and they are not even thinking about attempting to apply sexual orientation on each other because of that. What end could possibly be served in labeling the activity as being gay or anything else that might be considered by some to be not totally normal?

Bill and Joe are both learning how to get the most out of their own bodies without in any way causing inadvertent issues with others. As they start to fall asleep, things are going to get more interesting still not less interesting as their penises cycle normally during the night between tumescence and flaccidity. Joe’s and Bill’s brains, even while sleeping, are interconnected to the ongoing processes occurring in the groin area. They are both probably going to start to dream, and the contents of the dreams will likely include erotic components. The physical pressure of the cups bearing down on their penises, and the cycles of tumescence and flaccidity will likely create an erotic plot to the dreams they will both be experiencing.

It is really interesting how all of what has been happening is interconnected, and the wet dreams will likely find ways of weaving conscious thought together with whatever is happening in the subconscious. Exactly how all of this plays out remains to be seen. For now, I wish Bill and Joe only the best as their respective journeys continue forward from here.

……To be continued