Thanks, STS for posting your times. What you are doing is actually only a slight variation on what is fairly standard "training" by sex therapists for guys in relationships who claim to suffer from premature ejaculation.It's a great idea to hone your skills in this department that way. If you have ever wondered exactly what sex therapists try to teach, this is a key.
Your numbers look great and you obiously have already honed your skills at this. You have also proven that it would not be impossible to do a video like that in a single long take.
This video is instructional for both solo and partner sex in all sorts of ways. Let me elaborate on what I saw going on here.
Part of the key for these guys, I think, is that they seem to have a good idea when they are getting close to ejaculating, and they start focusing on other body parts using the oil to cool things down just a little. I'm not quite certain how they are signaling each other, but the video is worth taking another look at to see if they are sending each other specific perhaps noverbal cues. With a willing partner, it should be possible to develop a signaling technique that could potentially be very helpful to both partners. Couples can poentially develop signaling skills in this regard. Plus all of this reinforces the notion that good sex is not just about what is going on with the genitals, but instead a total body experience.
This video is at least as interesting for what the guys did NOT do versus what they DID do. First, note that they basically kept their suits on through the entire video. The suits didn't get tossed at some point, as would typically happen in most porn where the guys initially start in a tiny suit.
Second, this video is really a safe-sex instructional manual with respect to having low-zero risk fun with a partner. At some point I expected them to engage in full-scale oral and anal intercourse, but that did not happen...they were close, but take careful note as to how the two guys avoided exchanging bodily fluids. The mouth-penis contact mainly involved licking the side of a very erect penis.And just when you thought that the first guy was close to a rear entry of the second guy, the first guy ends up sticking his very erect penis inside the waistband of the other guy's suit.
When the guys do ejaculate at the end of the videoi, its more of a mutual masturbation j/o session as opposed to anything that involves exchange of bodily fluids. After being aroused for as long as they were, they both must really be flying on a sexual high at the point where the semen appears. Just thinking about where these guys must be psychologically and what they must be experiencing in their brains at this point gets me going. I've long advocated these long arousal sessions as a useful prelude to some of the greatest ejaculation experiences ever, and these guys really illustrate my point exactly, and that this can all be totally safe from an STD perspective. Like I say, this is an instructional manual for gay guys interesting in having great fun but safely.
For those of you that have been somehow concerned that a fondness for Speedos represents a sexual fetish, take note in this video as to how the super tight speedos support and increase the fun they are having, and how the really tight fit enhances the pleasure, but this is basically a supplemental turn-on rather than the main focus. The main focus remains on their own each other's bodies but the suits add an important element to the overall excitement level.
Finally, this video could be instructional for straight couples interested in learning more about having exciting partner sex. A lot of straight guys are so focused on getting themselves as quickly as possible into their partner, they end up ejaculating quickly and miss out on all the other fun that is possible in a lengthy arousal period. The mutual body massage thing would work as well in straight sex as in gay sex if not better (it's actally fun to see gay partners so interested in engaging in full body massage). And if the female partner could learn from all of this...straight guys would go totally bananas if they could get their female partners to help them maintain an erection like this for a lengthy time period without quite going off. And there are techniques that the male parner needs to learn with respect to finger massages on the female that we obviously don't get to see demonstrated here. These are the specific techniques that separates the 1 or 2 percent of the guys who are "great lovers" from the other 98 persent who are just so-so in the making love department. This is the key to opening the door to a sexual experience that goes way beyond what most guys think is even possible.
The best part is that you can begin to hone skills alone, at home, and once you have mastered these on a solo basis then later find a partner who is willing to learn and practice improving their skills along with you.
Have (safe) fun! What a great ride!
Sebbie
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