[sebbie]

A Feature not a bug (of being a guy)

Many guys seem to regard the idea that a guy can feel horny and unwittingly begin an erection as if it were a problem that guys unfortunately have. Given that getting an erection can occur in unexpected instances where a guy would strongly prefer not to have one a lot of guys long for better mind control. Indeed, many guys would like to be able to quickly and reliably will what is happening to shut down anything that is going on down there should the situation lead to something potentially embarrassing taking place.

Unfortunately, that is not how the male body works. Guys generally have limited control over situations such as this. It is almost as if the guy has another mind in control of what is going on down there moment by moment, another mind that is often disconnected from the brain, but still communicates with the actual brain on occasion.

Think, for example, about the basic process of putting on a swim brief for the first time. The guy might say to himself “I would be enthusiastic about wearing one of these IF I were certain that if I simply put the brief on my body this will not result in me getting an erection and everyone will notice as one of the problems in wearing a swim brief is that everyone can see not only the outline but also the state of my arousal just by looking at me. Besides, just the thought of slick and snug-fitting material over my penis makes me feel psychologically horny just thinking about it. Not only will everyone see my bulge I will probably start to drip creating little dime-sized damp spots on just the wrong places! the consequences of all of this are simply too scary to consider.

Still, there are some parts of this that draw me in. An interesting question is that I see especially divers show up on the boards and platforms wearing tiny swim briefs. How have they managed to deal with all of this? One answer is that for the divers, wearing a swim brief is part of what they do, so no big deal, at least after getting “used” to being in a swim brief. Still, a lot of guys probably admire divers, perhaps not so much for the quality of the dives, but for being willing and able to appear in a tight-fitting swim brief in full public view.

Over the years, I have purchased many garments because the specifics of the design would likely make me feel horny. I was not buying them because I thought that they would NOT trigger me in that regard—quite the opposite. This is taking masturbation in private to a whole new level, and I love setting up these situations. I like to try different things and see how my body responds to what becomes a predicament of sorts.

I was digging into the corner of a dresser drawer this morning and found a most interesting piece I had completely forgotten I had. It looked mostly like a jock strap, one with a narrow ¾ inch wide elastic as a waist band. It also has what initially first appears to be a pouch to hold a cup. The pouch snaps to the waist band with three metal snaps. That front pouch is connected to the waist band at the back not with leg straps but with a single short-and-narrow band of elastic. Strap meets thong and this garment was born. Not loose fitting at all. To work this narrow, short and not that stretchy elastic back will need to cinch up deep between my glutes.

I quickly discover that the pouch is not a sack that will contain a cup like an ordinary strap designed to hold the cup. But I have a little Franklin cup that seems about the right size and the pouch has elastic around the edges, so it will hold the cup pressing the bare hard plastic firmly against my penis. The feel of the hard plastic cup pressing directly on my penis might be way fun.

To hold everything in place I cover all of this with a pair of white Jockey flyless briefs I found in the same drawer dig. That gets covered with a pair of interesting compression shorts andtopped off with my black PUMA sweat pants.

That thong back is really fun as it is so short the only way this can work is for the hard, cold cup to press down firmly on my penis. I am enjoying everything that is happening down there as I write this. Lots of new and fun sensation. I had never worn a cup before without the cup being fully encased in the cloth in the pouch. I am liking this a lot, today.

Any guy can try doing the stuff that I do to, with and by myself. If me just writing about this gets you going, I am pleased as well. There are lots of physically and psychologically interesting places on the male body to explore and I keep discovering new and interesting garments and methods on a regular basis, this morning being one of an illustration of what is possible.

Sebbie