[sebbie]

I have been thinking about solo male sexuality, and how it competes with the various types of partner sex, A traditionalist view holds that guys growing up masturbate by themselves until they reach a certain age and then they are somehow supposed to find a female partner which means that having now discovered the wonders of the female body, they immediately completely give up their interest in any form of sex by themselves. And the female takes on the role of becoming the sole source of sexual pleasure for the male. The whole idea of uncovering new and thrilling methods of solo male "self abuse" is completely off limits once the heterosexual relationship is underway.

Of course, generally these assumption are utter nonsense. Sex for one highly enjoyable even if a guy is not with a female partner. Men know that. Females do too but admitting that a guy can have solo sex experiences that are also fun for many women is something they simply avoid thinking about

For me, generally I sense that gay guys are often more tolerant of solo sex activities and gay men might even like to share techniques and ideas of what could be called mutual masturbation based on enjoyable solo sex activities each has done in the past. Sex is not only about oral and anal intercourse, but is way more than that involving things done solo activities that are adaptable in a partner setting. The range of possibilities I uncover involving new to me solo sex activities that are very thrilling is wide (see post above), and I keep coming up with new ideas and techniques that are simple and more than worth trying. (the post above employing an inexpensive estim device and a Speedo.) I am not exactly certain how the technique described compares with various forms of partner sex, but as a pure pleasure method of enjoying one's own body, what I am doing ranks at or near the top of the list of ideas I have tried for solo sex.

I woke up at 3 AM last night thinking about all of this and what I wrote yesterday. Are there other techniques that could be even more fun? For example, what if...

Any of my readers know that my fondness for straps and cups is comparable to my fondness for a snug and tight-fitting swim brief. And my guess is that guys who are scared of being strapped and cupped are scared for the essentially the same reason that they are scared of wearing a swim brief. The whole idea of having your penis confined inside a snug cup is similar to having it confined inside the pouch of a snug-fitting swim brief. Fun, but this COULD lead to , well, "you know".

Me, at my age, my fear of trying something new has abated, and I like to plow right ahead but in private, of course.

I have had lots of neat erotic experiences wearing an old school strap and cup sometimes over a thong and maybe beneath some tight compression shorts.

However, the combination that occurred to me in the middle of the night is what would happen if I took out my first estim device, now back working, with the thinner, tighter fitting cinch up rings and wore that while wearing a nice Duke old school strap and cup so the electrical pulses are taking place under the cup. My penis is stuck finding a way to cope not only with the pressure of the snug-fitting cup, but with the electrical pulses at the same time not to mention the locked in tension the compression shorts provide. Teh cinch up rings make more sense than the big rings. Both fit tight on my penis and sense they are much smaller, fully inside the cup.

This morning as prep I am wearing the strap and cup I will use for the experiment to take place in the next night or two. For sheer erotic pleasure how does this compare with the pleasure I found wearing the AQUX brief over the big ring estim device. As sexual experiences go the one I wrote about in the previous post was way, way up there.

Then for added fun, once I have this stuff working, what about having a magic wand vibrator touching the cup tp make it vibrate as the estim device pulses little patterns of current. Can partner sex possibly be more fun than that? I already know that just touching a magic wand vibrator head to a snug cup is way fun, and combining that with the estim pulses is going to triple the pleasure at minimum,

All the best as you think about what I just wrote, as the anticipation of the unknown is part of the fun,

Sebbie