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Originally Posted by Torchwatch
With any minimal swimwear you buy you should first wear them around the house and try them in the shower to see what happens when they get wet.
When going to the beach take a range of swimwear that will cope with all eventualities.
If you want to go minimal go somewhere quiet where only a few people will see you and they can choose to avoid or join you. It's probably best not to force yourself upon a crowd in a swim suit that even you consider to be indecent.
In the moments after you strip down to your new super bulge displaying pouch you are liable to feel self conscious, it may be a thrill. Lie down, relax, feel the sand beneath you and the sunshine and breeze above.Now that you are calm and relaxed it's time to evaluate how you feel about your swimwear, go for a walk or maybe even a paddle.
Consider how the few people around react, do they change course to get a better look or do they run away screaming? A good reaction is to be totally ignored, however sexy you feel in your skin tight pouch it's possible no one else will care.
On a nice day on a beautiful beach while I'm wearing something skimpy I sometimes wonder if it can get any better than this.
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All good advice, thank you. I’m relatively new to wearing thongs and g-strings to tan and swim. For me, trying it out at home by the pool is a good test as to how it looks when wet and how it may appear to others. It also lets me know if I have to constantly adjust the suit, which is annoying. A few selfies of my suits also helps me. As for getting the courage to wear around others, I found a cold adult beverage helped me with my initial shyness when stepdaughter was at the pool too. After a summer of doing that, I found that my initial shyness has faded.