Items I have enjoyed
In all my years, I have engaged in a lot of self-pleasuring. However, I have never put together a detailed list of these items. So, here is my basic list.
Swim Briefs Speedo, Tyr, Aqux, SeoBean etc
Swim Jammers from Speedo, Tyr and Others
Swim Thongs Speedo and others
Athletic Supporters from Bike, Duke and others, cupped and without cups
Underwear Thongs from a wide variety of manufacturers including Jockey, Joe Boxer, Verona, Pappi, 2(xist) etc
Tighty Whitey Underwear, way undersized (kids sizes) from Hanes and Fruit of the Loom
Compression Shorts of various lengths and sizes and Tees from Starter, Tesla etc
Compression tights from Tesla, Russell Athletic and others.
Wrestling/Rowing Singlets from asics, Russell and others
Non-clothing items
Faux “Magic Wand” vibrator
estim device using two AAA batteries
vacuum penis pumps of various styles
water-based gel lubricants
gel shower soap.
All of the above items can readily be employed in solo self-pleasuring that goes way beyond what a guy gets from a simple manual jerk-off, and they might also be useful if you have an interested and willing sexual partner interested in mutual pleasure, but especially so for both of you when with a male partner. Every guy should try the Magic Wand, the estim device and the vacuum pump if for no other reason, as an “educational” activity. The real focus here is finding ways to find safe ways to enjoy yourself in the absence of having a partner for sex, as in getting the most pleasure from engaging in masturbation
Living alone, my great “treat” in life has been to be able to regularly use all of this without any fear of being embarrassed by being discovered” and other single guys may not have it so easy in this regard. Still, I have greatly enjoyed my activities over the years and I always get a big kick out of sharing some of these ideas with others. Some of these ideas may not end up making you feel horny, but there are probably several items on this list that you will find that you like a lot specifically as aids to self-pleasuring. I tend to change off and vary my activities day-by-day and week-by-week, but there is always something on the list that feels really good and is worth the effort I make.
I would be happy to answer detailed questions about employing any of these for sexual pleasure either in a private message or here.
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