This could very easily go off-topic pretty rapidly but I'll try to avoid digressing! This is something I've read a lot about over the years. The first point is - if anyone thinks they've figured out how women are wired they're very much mistaken - that's impossible. Even women don't know that! The second is this - not all women who go to watch male strippers are all sitting there damp. Their reasons for going are multifold - some see it as a form of inflicting humiliation on the stripper (even if he interprets it as as an act of worship and ego massage), some go to show their peers that they're "in with the crowd" (how many solo women go to the shows?), and some go because they are genuinely turned on (though in my experience the more highly-sexed a women is the harder she is to live with). I think these are the smaller subset of all women, which is why most women's reaction to skimpy swimwear on guys is either negative or neutral. We men are simple creatures - we have an almost universal view of what the ideal women looks like, what we would do with her if we had the chance, etc. But in this regard, and I'm sorry to say this, but collectively-speaking women are all over the place. Very few are cock-hungry whores, good cooks and scintillating company. Perhaps that's a good thing as it keeps life interesting!
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