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Originally Posted by TX_Micro
I am 63 and grew up in a large family with what I consider typical sexual repression and body shaming. I am now past most of that or maybe because of that I am a bit of a naturist and in addition to the practicality and comfort of bikini swimwear, I have what some might consider have a mild fetish for revealing swimwear, thongs, and g-strings. At the beach or pool, I prefer to wear minimal attire although only where acceptable. I would not wear a thong at a family beach.
What I struggle with is “coming out” to family and friends about my wearing minimal attire. I am quite comfortable at a nude or thong friendly beach with strangers but not with siblings and friends. So far I only wear thongs with my significant other.
So to get to my question, what is your experience is being open about wearing minimal swimwear?
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I started on swim team at age 13 so we had to wear "speedos". I'm not into super skimpy (but I do like to show off my bulge, lol). Having that background, it gave me the excuse to wear competition "speedo" type suits which I still enjoy. After college I joined a masters group and continue to wear them.
I'm not sure without the swim team experience that I would have been able to be comfortable wearing them. I do recall a few times my mother telling me to wear a "regular" bathing suit when going to the beach with the family. I protested and usually my dad said it was ok to wear the team suit.