[sebbie]

Once a guy gets through puberty, there are many new sensations to be discovered and savored. Dylan was no exception in this regard, nor, for that matter was Josh’s situation different either. At the same time, guys routinely become very aware of the fact that what they are doing with themselves should to the maximum degree possible be private. In this regard, everyone around a guy poses a risky threat that what is going on will in some way be discovered and revealed to others in a potentially embarrassing way, whether the person or persons doing the discovering is a parent, a sibling, or, perish the thought, a peer friend and classmate. Worse, what if the person the guy thought was a friend is not really a friend or is simply struggling with his own urges in this department?

Guys face an interesting dilemma: They are just learning how to enjoy their own bodies immensely, but they are terrified that someone else—anyone else—will, perhaps accidentally discover what they are doing to themselves. The old stories about guys going blind from doing this or losing their ability to successfully participate in sports do not help matters at all either. These old stories, considered obsolete and silly now, may still have some elements of truth to the,

Then there are the peers who tell you that if you do this alone in private you therefore must be gay since a female is not present when you are feeling and messing around this way. Sexual orientation uncertainty somehow gets messed together withal of this. The dilemma a guy faces is very real. How can something that is so much fun be so fraught with such complicated issues, anyway?

What was a guy like Dylan at that age supposed to do, anyway? For 99 percent of guys that age, abstinence from “self abuse” is completely out of the question. It’s is just too much interesting fun to ignore. But there are serious questions: What if I like doing this so much that I never become that interested in finding a partner? Does my fascination with doing this mean that deep down I am really gay not straight? What else might my fascination with doing it by myself might mean?

And there is no one to talk to. Surely my dad never did this by himself. After all, he found mom, didn’t he? And what if my brothers and sisters find out, or, perish the thought, one of my classmates, and maybe one who thinks I am a wimp, athletically or otherwise. There are lots of issues floating around, issues that cannot be simply and readily resolved.

So, of the 99 percent of guys who are doing it, maybe 98 percent of the guys go into a mode where they carefully lay plans to keep this part of themselves in complete secrecy. What does this have to do with Dylan at that age? Well, Dylan learned quickly that if you are going to engage in solo sex, a snug-fitting item of clothing certainly helps to get the sensations going, and just thinking about the option of getting into a snug-fitting clothing item tends to set the entire wonderful process off. But a guy 13 or 14 years of age is not going to be able to orders snug-fitting stuff from on-line retailers and get it delivered. Instead, what do you have that would achieve some of the same sensations to start to occur in the groin area that would not attract attention.

And that is where the pairs of tighty whiteys that Dylan had outgrown come in come in, well, the ones he had almost outgrown. Two pair still in the back of a dresser drawer in his room. Why not just wear a pair of those to bed and sleep in them overnight. Dylan can even pull something else over them if he wants, like a loose-fitting pair of boxer shorts, and then see what happens during the night as his penis responds to the newly-confined space. Interesting,..at a young age way interesting.

And so it goes. The techniques guys use for pleasuring themselves at a very early age somehow get attached to a guy’s brain as if they were glued in place, and periodically guys want to relive those moments in time as adults that were so enjoyable when they were struggling with all of this when they were just past puberty. And that is what Dylan is doing right now, reliving the wonderful moments that he first discovered were really fun when he was only 13 or so. Many, perhaps most guys would like to relive these early moments of discovery if given the opportunity to do so, even as an adult.

Dylan is now 20, and he has got a raft of new items that can make him feel horny in an instant, and he is very fond of the various items he now has. Plus he has this understanding roommate who knows what Dylan likes and has been enjoying some of the same stuff.

What stuff? Well, a lot of it is connected to clothing worn for sports, including sports that neither Dylan nor Josh ever participated in either in high school or now in college. Take the various experiments with the swimming briefs of various sizes as the “classic” example of all of this, but there are many others. The straps come to mind almost immediately, and then ahhhh, the fun with a strap with a cup barely big enough to contain a guy’s flaccid penis let alone one that is even a little-bit erect. And the compression gear both top and bottom, and the clingy feel all over as the material fits really snug against a guy’s body, holding a strap and cup firmly in place at the groin.

And what about a wrestling singlet in a neat color that can only be worn over the shoulders with the singlet putting serious upward pressure on the groin area? And what about slipping over a pair of extremely snug jeans while WEARING The singlet, maybe with a strap and cup underneath. The singlet will appear to be just a sleeveless top tucked into a guy’s super skinny jeans.

Lots of stuff to try. But still how did I manage to pleasure myself when I was much younger and was fearful that anyone else would find out what I was doing to and with myself? And why is redoing that with an undersized pair of tighty whiteys still so much fun even with all of these other available options? Still lots of tough questions to be answered!

To be continued…