[sebbie]

Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are deep into beginning to understand some things about being male that are way interesting, if seldom discussed by anyone. These discoveries relate directly to how guys work as human beings, body and mind. This is complicated stuff we are dealing with here, and not easily or readily understood.

Around puberty, nearly every guy learns that touching his penis can provide some interesting sensations that are enjoyable to experience at a very deep level. Most guys have at that stage have little if any understanding with respect to what exactly is going on in their minds and bodies, except to say that they realize in some vague way that what they are experiencing is somehow related to relationships and sex. Beyond that, these are merely pleasant feelings to be appreciated and enjoyed.

Soon, a guy learns that the sensations become more exciting if the guy is even a little erect, and all of this leads to masturbation experiments of various sorts. Guys spend a lot of time agonizing over all of this. Am I normal? Can or should I tell anyone about what I am doing? Weighty questions like that. These questions quickly evolve into embarrassment in varying degrees in particular because the other guys my age seem to behave as if what is happening to me should only happen in the presence of a female about my age. But here I am having these really sweet, sensational feelings all alone, with luck, in privacy.

So most guys quickly develop a series of schemes that allow them to enjoy themselves without making anyone aware of what is going on, not their parents, and certainly not siblings or friends. But life is becoming more complex, way more complex, in a host of different ways. Guys wander around terrified that they are going to get an erection, or worse, a full-scale orgasm in an inopportune time or place, an inopportune time or place being any instance where someone else is around. This primal fear strikes total terror for most guys this age. They know they aren’t old enough to deal with the implications of having sex with a female, yet these feeling and emotions keep bombarding them.

Somehow, most guys somehow do survive their high school years, but if survey data are to be believed the majority of high school students have not had partner sex with anyone, either male or female.

So what of Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh? As my readers have probably figured out by now, the four of them are college freshman who have not as yet had partner sex with anyone else, either. Still, the fact that they are all a little older does not mean that their bodies aren’t still being bombarded with sexual feelings of various sorts. To be sure, most guys by that age, including our four here, probably discovered some time ago that there are situations where these sexual feelings can emerge in situations whereby a sexual partner is not present.

Guys often have what I would call a “love-hate” relationship with snug-fitting articles of clothing. Most guys probably discover at a quite early age that certain items of clothing can quickly lead to sexual sensations. This, of course, varies from one guy to the next, and for whatever reason some guys seem to be able to “handle” snug-fitting clothing items with fewer “issues” than others. Or so they claim. Some guys like to claim that they only get turned on in the presence of a female partner, and what am I am saying here is not applicable to them.

Still, think about this. Did you get sexually aroused at all the first time you were put into a situation where you would be wearing what appeared to be a too small swim brief? (A snug fit is essential to swim well!), a jock strap with or without a cup? Snug-fitting compression gear? A wrestling singlet? Thong underwear designed to be worn by males? Really snug fitting jeans that fit tight in the groin and buttocks? Not every guy might “respond" to all of these items, but is there something on this list that both terrifies you but at the same time turns you on? Are you going to avoid the item or items, or seek them out as secret-and-safe sources of pleasure?

This is interesting to think about for sure. Would most males be able to somehow “handle’ any of these items without any sort of sexual “response”? Or are the males who claim that they can deal with all of this without any response at all simply lying to their peers?

So now we have Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh walking to the school gym, with each trying to act as if nothing more is going on inside their 19-year old minds and bodies. Each guy is wearing stuff that at some level he finds to be arousing. That alone is interesting. But each guy is also fully aware of the situation each of the other guys is in as well in this regard. Clad in the gear I am wearing, how do I feel about seeing the three other guys I am walking with “suffering” as I am “suffering”? Are the other guys experiencing the same things my own body is experiencing right now. As one of the guys, I’m more or less climbing the walls. I’m obviously not ejaculating, but I am precumming profusely under my gear.

Given that Bill, Joe, and Dylan are all wearing straps with cups, they should be able to continue to pre cum without any external indication. But what of Josh? If Josh is precumming too, isn’t it just a matter of time before he starts to ooze right through the forest green singlet? How will Josh deal with that for goodness sake?

And what does this all have to do with the sexuality of each of the guys? Precumming inside a cup or a thong is great fun, enjoyable and sometimes even exciting? But isn’t part of the psychological fun the implicit knowledge that there are three other guys with you who are likely enjoying the exact same thing you are enjoying? The fact that males are present when all of this is happening is now part of the pleasure, not something to be feared and avoided. Or so it seems? But does that also mean that the four of them perhaps[s aren’t as straight as they once thought they were, despite each of them having no direct sexual contact with any of the others.

Interesting questions all, but tough questions too, to try and answer, really tough questions to deal with. These are not the kinds of questions answered in books written on human sexuality for sure.

To be continued….