Men get erections when they think about their cocks, worrying that you will gat an erection if you are seen naked or in swim briefs will make you think about your cock and give you an erection.
Being caught with an erection at school can ruin your reputation and make you the target of bullying so by the time we leave school we have learned to try and hide any sign of sexual stimulation (except on a one to one basis).
When we start wearing swim briefs, bikinis, thongs or even go naked in front other people we known that those watching will notice a semi or full erection.
Men who wear skimpy swimwear or go naked themselves will sympathise with those who are shy about showing their bodies through fear of erection and can't undress and leave the locker room because the fear of being seen erect is sexually stimulating causing the erection they fear.
If you get stuck in this Catch 22 situation, then consider going somewhere like a gay sauna where naked men are seen and approved of with erections, get used to being seen both hard and soft and can be more relaxed about your body's condition. You don't have to go any further than this if you are not inclined to, everything that happens in a sauna should be consensual, so just say "No thanks" to anyone that gets too close.
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