[sebbie]

The necessity to clean up the dorm room after Dylan’s powerful ejaculation while wearing the thong underwear has turned into something of a conversation starter between Dylan and Josh. Dylan is learning some things about himself and how his body responds to different situations it finds itself in for sure. But Josh too in just observing Dylan as Dylan pleasures himself has learned some new things about himself and how his mind and body interact.

I guess that most guys end up being more than a little bit unnerved by the whole situation of getting to observe another guy in self-pleasuring and especially right into ejaculatory mode, as Dylan just did. But wait a second. On line, there are tons of videos that are easily found (and usually free) that show guys masturbating to ejaculation. In this day and age, a male college student would have to be a technology fool to not have uncovered and watched some of these.

But what does this all mean? Is any guy who does this gay not straight? What about the guys who watch these but still claim to be arrow straight? Are they just not being truthful to themselves about their gay or perhaps bisexual feelings. In short, what is going on here? Further, according to sex surveys, a lot of guys who claim to be straight admit to the fact that at some point in their lives, often as a teenager, they engaged in either male mutual masturbation or a so-called circle jerk involving more than two guys their age. Sex therapists usually say that if these represent basically isolated events, they mean almost nothing in terms of whether a guy will ultimately turn out to be straight or gay. In short, a young guy’s interest in seeing other young guys engage in masturbation is not a good predictor of whether or not a guy is ultimately straight or gay.

But then, all of this hinges on an outdated and largely discounted view of sexuality, that guys easily fit into only two rigid categories either entirely straight or entirely gay. No one who is serious about that subject sees sexuality is such simple, rigid terms any more. Whatever the implication of Josh being OK with even being in the dorm room when Dylan was pleasuring himself, too much should not be implied.


Dylan was clearly enjoying himself and so was Josh as an observer. No one caught a VD or was otherwise harmed in any way in the process. As a young teen, had this happened to Dylan, Dylan would have worried a lot about being teased and bullied, but both of them are now college students.

In trying to determine what is going on in Dylan’s head, Josh is also trying to figure out what is going on in his own mind and body.

The conversation goes something like this:

Dylan: “I see now why some guys like to wear thong underwear. The design is really fun to wear.”

Josh: “I noticed that!”

Dylan: “It’s really a combination of interesting stuff all hitting me all at once, the snug fit of the pouch, the upward pressure just behind my balls, and the feel of the elastic back cutting my butt. The combination overwhelms”

Josh: “That is fun? I’m being serious now.”

Dylan: “I know that you are. Well, at first I was apprehensive. I put on the thong and it felt uncomfortable in various places. But, strangely enough, my attention was drawn to my groin area, and the funny part is that almost immediately I started to feel tense, and before I even realized it, I was starting to get hard. But I needed to go to class. I pulled on my skinny jeans and sneakers and headed off to class. I thought the skinny jeans would settle me down some, but they didn’t help one bit. . In fact, they made matters worse. I spent the entire class period thinking about how good I felt in my groin area…Not sure what the lecture was about as my attention was not on the class.”

Josh: “Really? So this has been going on for some time?”

Dylan, looking sullen and staring at his feet: “Unfortunately, yes.”

Josh: “I’m beginning to feel sorry for you and the dilemma you got yourself into.”

Dylan: I ”I’m congratulating myself for making it through the entire class and then walking back to the dorm without ejaculating. But by the time I got to the dorm room I knew that I was desperate to get off, so I quickly stripped off the skinny jeans and started stroking the underside of my penis still inside the thong pouch. I thought I would have some time to do this before you got back from class. That is when you wandered in, back to the dorm for a class that let out early. But I was too far along to stop.”

Josh: “I am beginning to understand how this all happened now.”

Dylan: “I guess at this point that I need to confess to you that I have had this “thing” for various kinds of clothing, especially stuff that fits really snug in the groin. You can see the jeans I like to wear, but there is more.”

Josh: “If getting off this way is that much fun, what really is the harm enjoying your clothing items?”

Dylan:” I used to think that I was the only guy who did this, but then I ran into Bill and Joe, and then Tony and Donovan. All four of them were choosing clothing items that could be errr… erotic at least under some circumstances. So what I do to myself can’t be that uncommon for a lot of guys my age. I keep noticing that more and more bricks-and-mortar retail stores are stocking items that might work, and that guys must be buying it or it would not be in the stores. You can find stuff on line, but, interestingly, also in department stores, even places like Wal mart”

Josh: “You have got my attention. My mind is starting to wander into the same places yours has been. Maybe we need to go on a shopping trip to some stores just to see what is out there, just for fun.”

Dylan: “You got it. I might find some new stuff that I would enjoy wearing too!”

To be continued…