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California Dolphin,
I cant quite understand your first paragraphe please precise.
Allso your second paragraphe, but if its what I think what it means:
I am pecfectly at ease in my speedos.
I neverhave bene to a gay bar, night club, or gay beach resort or pool,if I ever go I wont hesitate one single minute to wear the most skimpy suit or shorts I have.
I would wear my speedos at any beach , pool or at any water sports facility gay or not.
But I would certainly not take part in any gay parade contortionning my body while spreading my legs, doing sexual natured gestures.
This being sead the reason is simply because I respect non gay spectators , plus gay spectators that hesitate to wear there speedos exactly because of what they see, allso because of kids that may watch the parade seeng things that they certainly should not see
And because my beleaf is that there is outher ways to promote homosexuality and contrubute so that may generaly be accepted as human beings so that all in general will accepte that being gay is just a way of life like any outher.And gays and heteros... canperfectly live in harmony together with respect and dignity.
lets admit it those that do such things in gay parades are cetainly not helping the cause.
This is not a question of being a religious fanatic like the traditionnalist fondamentalist we so often see in the USA, or being any kind of pudish exagerated person , its just common sense showing respect for people that are different then us and if the gay people want outher people to treat them with rrespect and dignity well they should give examples by not demonstrating exorbitant demonstrations in there parades but its perfectly ok in there own environments of course.
You quote JOHN 8-7 IN THE BIBLE, He who has not sin cast the first stone .... what does that have to do with this.
Put it all in a nut shell, speedos atr ok, its ok to wear them, its ok to like them, its ok to ... have fun in them but at the right time and places.