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Totally agree that the conduct at many gay parades is out of line, just as it is at many str8 events (Mardi Gras is a great example). However, while I realize that lots of over the top gays (the ones I actually think of as the f----t word) love to turn my swim suit of choice into a sex object, I frankly don't give a crap and just keep wearing the suits I like. To the point of an earlier post, not out of line, not to simply get hooked up (although getting checked ou is nice) or laid, and not intentionally in the wrong place.
Although I will admit to wearing my triathlon Speedo (the kind with the Speedo on the butt) and tri top into a Dunkin Donuts once after a triathlon when I just did not feel like screwing around to get changed. The race, however, was right nearby, and it was very celar by the numbers all over my arms and legs that I had just raced. No one seemed to care and I got a few questions on how the race went, and one nice compliment on how fit I was... that from a guy!
Any way, just wear what you want, enjoy it, and don't give this gay thing another thought.... and also forget the whole speedo friendly beach crap.. if there is water consider it speedo friendly.
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