I don't think it was what you were wearing as much as what you were doing. You were at the Y swim lessons with your son. Nothing impresses a women with children than seeing a father spending time with they kid. I assume you are in good shape, which would also appeal to a woman going through a divorce - especially if her ex is a beer swilling, football watching, big bellied couch potato. She probably appreciated you had the body for a speedo, but the fact you were spending time with your son was the real appeal. Be yourself and offer "play dates" with your kids. Great way to know her and figure if she wants more than a casual friendship
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