The great thing about going to a gay sauna is that you can be naked, get hard and no one will mind.
Practically everywhere else you go you risk being spotted, identified and embarrassed should you get an erection, however spontaneously.
I know young men who are afraid to shower naked after their speedo swimming sessions with their training squads, because they know that as soon as they strip off and stand under the warm water things will come to a head.
A musician friend invented phoba-phoba-phobia in song he wrote, it is scared of being scared of being scared. In many ways trying not to get aroused, while thinking about not getting aroused, while standing naked in a shower with your back to your naked mates is like phoba-phoba-phobia, and very arousing, and causes the victim to run for his towel.
I always used to get aroused trying on speedos in shops, and would still be hard when fully dressed at the till. I knew something was going "wrong" with sportswear when the longer and baggier shorts failed to excite me in the shop changing rooms.
If you do get into a habit of getting aroused at the thought of being caught with an erection it is probably time to go to a gay sauna, go naked in the steam room, get hard, let other guys see and enjoy seeing your naked body and excited manhood. If you don't want it to go any further you can say "No thanks" should they approach you, but try to stand your ground and don't run away this time.
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