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Originally Posted by area51tazz
Confidence is a HUGE factor...as long as you're not creepy, and you're confident in yourself and can make them laugh, you're golden.  |
You hit the nail on the head! If a guy has on a speedo and can walk down the beach with the self confidence it shows. The guys that come to the beach with shorts over their speedo, looks to see if anyone else is wearing one, then sit on their towel and slide the shorts off (while sitting) says that he is insecure in his body and surroundings. The guy that walks down the beach with the attitude that he is at the beach, he is wearing a swimsuit - as expected - and is secure enough not to care or be intimidated by what others think is someone that people will notice not just for what he is wearing, but also his attitude. Confidence is the key.