I am along the lines of D67. I think it is natural to have some curiosity about things we don't really understand, sexuality certainly being one of those. When a guy says he is curious with regard to sexuality, I take it to mean he has some openness to explore the sexuality of whichever identity he is curious about. Generally, this means a guy is str8 with a desire to explore gay sexuality (does that make him bi?, not sure). The depth of exploration is interesting. For some, it might just be to learn more, not actually try anything. For others it might mean deeper levels of exploration. I think many guys who say they are curious really have no intention of ever actually trying anything. Some, however, might have some attraction to the same gender, and are more willing to see where that takes them. While it is more common to hear curious from a str8 to gay perspective, I also think there is a degree of curious that goes the other way, although many guys who are gay tried some level of str8 activity before accepting their gay identity.
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