If wearing speedos brings you pleasure then you should wear them.
Since even slim, well toned guys face prejudice for wearing speedos in public you have to be strong enough to deal with prejudice both for wearing speedos and for your size. This may include people pointing cameras at you.
If all the big guys, skinny guys, old guys, children and the disabled were to stop wearing speedos, allowing only film stars and super model types to wear them then speedos would become extinct. For who would be vain enough to consider themselves super model material?
The quiet coastal areas where you feel able to wear your speedos are liable to be beautiful and allow you to commune with nature and to contemplate infinity.
Take the opportunity to walk, even run on the sand and to swim a little longer and harder each time you go.
(Never swim without someone to observe should you get into difficulty, try the buddy system).
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