Hmmm I interpreted the "All business" as being someone who was not wearing brief swimw4ear in an obvious effort to cruise for a sexual partner. One of the problems swim briefs have is a lot of the public associates the style with gay guys interested in displaying the bumps and bulges of what they have in an effort to find a sexual partner. The appearance of gay guys wearing tiny swim briefs in gay pride parades reinforces the stereotype that this is the type of recreational wear associated with guys who are looking for a male partner for casual sex. Part of the problem of wider acceptance of brief swimwear for all guys regardless of sexual orientation is for the populatiuon at large to somehow get this association out of their collective heads. But gay guys' fascination with seeing other guys wearing minimal swimwear will probably always remain. It's just the gay version of straight men's fascination and turn-ons with seeing women (See Kate Upton photos posted on this site) also in skimpy, tight-fitting and revealing clothing. A lot of initial sexual arousal for all guys regardless of orientation is all about seeing all sorts of different bumps and bulges of the anatomy pressing up against tight fitting garb, and thinking about what the person in the garb must be feeling sexually at the very moment wearing that.
For a lot of gay guys its wildly erotic just to even think about another guy pulling on a tiny swim brief and then getting aroused enough so he starts to precum in it showing a wet quarter-sized spot at the very tip of where his penis is positioned in the brief, and then finding an actual and willing male partner interested in doing just that in real life is really over the top. To my way of thinking, from a gay-guy perspective this is all as normal as sunshine, just the gay version of a straight guys interest in seeing a female partner wearing tiny lingere or a little bikini and then thinking about how she might be turned on by the situation at hand as well. Sexual arousal gay and straight is a lot about fantasizing what must be going on with respect to what the partner must also be feeling sexually moment by moment, and that is part of what makes experiences with a partner superior to solo sex. Knowing that your partner is experiencing something at least as pleasant as what you are experiencing yourself is a huge turn-on. If this weren't true humans would likely never be motivated to find partners.
So the association between sexual arousal and skimpy Lycra clothing that reveals bumps and bulges will always remain.
Sebbie
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