My choice of suit for last night was that really tiny little yellow Seobean I had purchased at Christmas. Good lord its tiny and tight-fitting, its the smallest thing I have in my suit wardrobe. I immedisately went into a mode of involuntarily discharging a small urine stream just thinking about how I would feel getting myself into it. (When you lose your prostate, you also lose the muscles that shut off urine flow when you get aroused, and any urine left in your badder just streams out. There is another muscle that controls urine flow from the bladder that shuts this off under anything but sexual arousal conditions) Interestingly, when I get aroused like that, this is the only time when I have a "leakage" like that. Pretty much, in the old days I would be seeping lots of precum at this point instead. I am starting to learn how to deal with this. Keep a towel or two handy One partial solution is to just let it go for awhile before putting on the suit. Then I will be dry or nearly so.
Once I got into the suit, a tiny drop of precum appeared to form at the tip of my penis, staining the suit.
At that point I started up the electric vibrator, with my penis positioned "up in the little suit" Even only slightly hard, the sensations were nothing short of physicaly and psychologically amazing. The problem is that I think I pushed everything a little too fast. It was only a minute or so when I went into an intense dry orgasm. This orgasm was quite dry, with no more urine leakage.
Next time I try, I want to slow everything down a bit, partly in hopes of getting a little stronger erection in more time before I go off into orgasm. If I can slow things down I am convinced the orgasm will be even more intense. And I do want to try this again and soon.
On the plus side, I'm learning specific ways to still have a lot of fun even without a prostate. My penis still feels great only a little bit hard with the vibrator attacking it on the underside, I'm gradually learning new applied techniques to deal with the initial urine leakage problem.
What I did last evening was pretty intense and focused, but interesting research for me. Hitting the underside of your penis with a vibrator when your penis is positioned up in a tiny little suit like the Seobean is about as intense as it gets, and a good thing to try to see what happens even if you still have an intact prostate.
I recognize that sexual arousal is a very individualized thing. In particular not everyone enjoys getting off in a tiny suit as much as I do. How this all would work with a partner, I don't know. In that situation there would be some tricky curves to negotiateI am sure.
But, did I enoy myself sexually post surgery? Absolutely! This is wild and crazy fun to see exactly what your body is capable of absorbing even when a few key parts are missing.
Disclaimer: With my comments here I do not wish to gross any of you out.The urology surgeon doing the prostate removal tries to do a good job of explaining exactly what the side effects will be relative to how things operated prior to surgery. And the patient normally lacks the nerve to provide specific details on how he was getting off pre-surgery anyway.
In my case, I did manage to pass along a copy of my Amazon book "Understanding Male Sexuality" to the surgeon before the surgery, however, so he kinda knew some of the stuff I am into.
Having an intense orgasm is a huge gift to being human, and I highly recommend running some self-experiments to see what your body is capable of doing for you. What you learn can also intensify partner sex. Even in my situation, I am having great fun.
David Sebringsil "Sebbie"
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