For Dylan, the past affects current events
 

Dylan has been pondering everything that has happened to him from the point in time when he was very young. His initial discovery of and experiments with the sensitivity of his body (and mind) to snug-fitting clothing, experiment frequently done on the sly.

To be sure, turning these thoughts over and over in Dylan’s mind was not “helping” his current situation, clad in the ProForce athletic supporter and cup and forest green asics wrestling singlet at all. As these thoughts go over and over in Dylan’s mind, the tension in his groin area seems to be building. Dylan is now firmly aware of the walls of the cup bearing down on the top and both sides of his penis. How can something that is on the verge of being painful also be so much fun.

The mere knowledge of the cup being there makes Dylan horny. Horny enough to feel increasingly strong urges to get off. These urges to get off radiate through Dylan’s body almost like miniature bolts of lightning. For a brief moment, they come on strong, and then just as suddenly subside a little to the point where Dylan thinks he can cope for at least a little while longer without ejaculating. A tough dilemma for Dylan’s young mind and body to be in, for certain, but an interesting place to be, too, psychologically and physically. Dylan is also realizing that he is having the time of his life as his young mind and body is forced to cope with the situation such as it is.

Dylan has now grown about as big as he can be given that the cup limits to a significant degree the space available to grow. He has filled all of the available area to grow, and any additional growth will just cause the cup to bear down harder on his penis. Dylan can cope with all of this for a few minutes, but soon he decides that he needs a little relief from the situation he is facing.

Dylan now realizes that the only way he can get some momentary relief is to pull down the asics singlet, exposing the strap and cup. He can then pull the strap pouch and cup outward, away from his groin, and releasing some of the pressure that bearing down on his penis from the cup and strap.

Dylan does this, with the idea of releasing his penis from its confinement for a minute or so to provide some relief. But then Dylan wants to get himself right back inside the strap and cup and see if he can cope with this along with the singlet a while longer still without going into a full-blown ejaculation. This is certainly an interesting experiment to see how much tension and pressure he can stand but still without ejaculating. Dylan is starting to wonder what his limits are in this regard. He has already discovered that it is possible to stay horny and at least semi-hard while continuing to delay going into an orgasm much longer than he realized.

But, soon the time comes for Dylan to get back into the strap, cup and singlet. During its freedom from confinement, Dylan’s penis got a little harder and bigger than was possible when it was inside the cup. As Dylan releases the cup once again, after having pulled the cup and pouch away from his body for some moments, the elastic of the wide waist band snaps back tightly against his groin quickly. Pangs of immense pleasure, almost pain, radiates through Dylan’s entire body as his penis has to readjust to the confines of the strap and cup bearing down once again. “What a wild sensation!” Dylan thinks. It is immensely pleasant but at the same time on the verge of being almost painful. Dylan’s penis is revolting against the whole idea of being back inside such a confined space. Pulling the singlet back into place simply adds more tension to the entire situation.

Dylan now fully realizes that he will not be able to hold off ejaculating for much longer. There is just too much happening down there. His situation right now is driving him bananas, making him want more and more to get off.

To be continued…

Dylan etc
 

Sebby, just wanted to let you know that I've been following this story. It's really good. Do you think Dylan wants to have the other guys seem him in his gear?

Dylan is really struggling with his gear and what is happening to him in private...first things first!

The tension builds as Dylan enjoys himself
 

By the time guys turn 16, most guys have been experimenting with self-pleasuring for three or four years, and are moving more and more into the idea of engaging in partner sex. This may come as a shock to many parents, but it is true. These passing years become increasingly difficult for a lot of guys to successfully navigate, in large measure because the guy is physically and sexually mature, but generally not in any situation that would make sex with a partner acceptable behavior at all.

For guys who think of themselves as straight, the whole idea of regularly being able to engage in partner sex with a girl presents a lot of problems and issues. There is, of course, the emotional attachment issue and the whole notion that girls generally are more into emotional attachment first with physical sex coming later. Of course, a lot of guys are not wired that way either emotionally or physically, but even if they were there would still be a host of knotty issues to resolve at that age in order to get to the partner sex part.

I have often thought about the same question as it would apply to the typical 16-year old male who has been thinking about the possibility that he might be gay. The whole navigation process for this 16-year old is every bit as difficult for the 16-year old who is considering the possibility that he might be gay as it is for the guy who believes he is straight. The first step in this process is definitely not having partner sex with another guy, any more than the first step for a 16-year old straight guy is to rush out and have partner sex with a girl. There are messy emotional issues to deal with regardless of the gender the guy is pursuing. For the potentially gay guy, this gets all messed together first with the issues of self-acceptance but then the question of possibly coming out to peers, parents and siblings, and how doing so might affect one’s daily life and future plans.

Then there is another problem that not every 16-year old guy neatly fits into one box or another of being either straight or gay. A lot of guys fall somewhere in between the two categories. Look at Bill and Joe to see what I mean here. Both consider themselves to be straight, and have a sexual interest in women. But for two completely straight guys, they have been certainly having a lot of fun in the company of each other in their dorm room, even though what they have been doing with each other in the dorm room has not involved any direct physical connection (aka gay sex) with each other. Are Bill and Joe both really straight arrows, or could things be a lot more complicated that both had realized? Does Bill get turned on just by realizing Joe is turned on? Does Joe get turned on when he realizes that Bill is enjoying himself? If this is happening, what does this mean for their sexuality? This is a most interesting issue that will be developed further in coming chapters.

Dylan, of course, is the quiet one and, if you haven’t guessed yet, something of a loner. Dylan has never engaged in partner sex with anyone. Not that he hasn’t thought about it for sure. Does it come as any surprise that Dylan has always been somewhat confused about his own sexuality? Dylan has never admitted that he was confused about this, even fully to himself.

Seeing Joe and Bill wandering down the dorm hall that night wearing their straps, cups and compression gear set off some bells in Dylan’s head. This started Dylan’s thought process to go in some new and interesting ways. The whole process was reinforced when he ran into Bill and Joe wearing their gear at the gym, and then had the conversation with Tony and Donovan who were clad in their rowing gear of choice, essentially a really snug wrestling singlet and men’s thong underwear. Then coming back from the gym, Bill and Joe hatched this scheme to order wrestling singlets, thong underwear and maybe some other stuff on line. Dylan at that moment in time knew he had to have in as well.

But Dylan is still this quiet, somewhat confused loner that Dylan has always been. One big advantage to sophisticated self-pleasuring techniques is that generally they ramp up the fun index safely without having to confront all of the complicated emotional and physical issues related to partner sex in any form either with a woman or with a guy. That is a huge advantage and is not to be discounted. Dylan can still very much enjoy his body without having to confront stuff he would rather not have to confront right now. What Dylan is doing with himself is absolutely perfect for a shy and somewhat confused loner.

And wow is Dylan having fun. This is the most fun Dylan has ever had pleasuring himself, by far. At the end of the previous chapter I left Dylan in a situation where he was nearly “climbing the walls” desperate to get off because of the pressure bearing down on his penis from the strap, cup and singlet.

“Wow this stuff is tight” Dylan keeps saying over and over, under his breath. Dylan’s brain is now telling him louder and louder that he needs to get off and bring this to a conclusion. Dylan knows that he has been experiencing the most exciting self-pleasuring sequence he has ever been in.

“What is all this stuff about guys knowing everything there is to know at age 16 about masturbating?” Dylan thinks to himself.”

Dylan can stand it no longer. He rips down the singlet and pulls off the strap and cup, with the inside of the pouch now being nearly completely soaked in an ocean of pre-cum. Dylan had no idea that he was able to pre-cum in that quantity. But all the evidence is right there.

Dylan presses on his balls with the tips of his fingers, and discovers that even his balls are sensitive to the touch and feeling really good. Not surprisingly, Dylan’s penis is now very long and very hard. Dylan can hardly believe what he is seeing down there. Dylan can’t resist. He starts stroking his penis from base to glans using only a facial tissue as a barrier. Dylan notices that the underside of the tip of his penis, the glans area, is now extremely sensitive to his fingertips, and producing some fascinating sensations now.

Once the glans of a fully-hardened penis gets fondled, a powerful orgasm is only moments away. Dylan starts shooting a creamy cum with powerful muscular contractions that go way beyond what has ever happened to him before. He tries to “control” these powerful bursts of cum by covering the tip of his penis, but some still escapes and shoots way across the room (Good Dylan’s roommate, Joshua, went home for the weekend!).

“Wow that was fun!” Dylan says to himself. Dylan knew he had managed to take self-pleasuring to a whole new level for sure. Maybe finding a partner for sex isn’t quite the priority it was, at least not for now.

To be continued…

The aftermath
 

It took Dylan awhile to come down from where he was only a couple minutes ago, both psychologically and physically. Dylan felt really drained now, both literally and figuratively. Dylan kept rolling over and over in his head the events that had transpired, from that first encounter seeing Bill and Joe in the Dorm hallway in their gear, to all of the stuff that had transpired since then, with each of the events seemingly playing a role that ultimately led to the most powerful orgasm Dylan had ever had.

And the orgasm happened not in some partner sex contact, either straight or gay, but while Dylan was just there alone in his dorm room. This is not how any book that Dylan had ever read on the subject portrayed how it was supposed to be. The books Dylan read said that solo sex, aka “masturbation” was something little kids, like kids maybe 12 or 13 years old, did when their parents and siblings weren’t looking to have a little fun until they were old enough for a real emotional relationship with a sexual partner. These books always portrayed masturbation in any form as an inferior alternative to “real” sex, something done maybe by young boys during and immediately after puberty, and maybe older boys who were socially challenged with respect to relating to others, nerdy older boys who were not capable of making successful emotional binds with a real person.

Then there are the teen-age stories and bullying that link masturbation with a young boy being gay. If a guy is discovered masturbating by a peer male, he is frequently teased and bullied as being a gay jerk-off. No guy at 13 or 14 wants to be labeled this way in school, and hence the secrecy young guys have about their masturbation habits, despite the fact that increasingly practically every young male deep down believes that practically all of his male buds are probably doing the same thing on the sly. Why? Because it is simply too much fun to NOT be doing it! Young guys just don’t exchange any information about this practice because there are too many personal risks involved, and any exchange of information would reveal too much personal information.

A guy often thinks about what would happen if, perhaps accidentally, he discovered a male friend jerking off. This becomes a particular issue for two males in a double dorm room. Clearly, no college student is going to be able to make it through 4 years of college without ever getting off. That is unrealistic. College men like to convey the impression that they are having regular sex with female dates on Friday and Saturday nights, and that this sexual release is more than enough for them. And perhaps some of them are accomplishing this, but 95 percent likely are not. That would be a lot of partner sex, and only a small percentage of college males are prepared to get that involved with a female partner at that stage in their lives.

So, college males must be masturbating too, and probably a lot. It is simply unrealistic to think otherwise, unless you assume that college males are brain-dead or that 19-year old guys universally do not love jerking off.

What exactly is going on in each dorm room containing two males is not exactly clear. I suppose one possibility is that both guys masturbate surreptitiously under the covers in the middle of the night, but is it even possible to keep secret what a guy is up to if his roommate is in a bed only a few feet away? This in an interesting puzzle to try and unravel for sure. The solution might be very well different in each of the dorm rooms as the roommates cope with their urges in the face of not having significant privacy.

In our story, so far we have seen two ideas. Dylan waited till his roommate Joshua (Josh) went home for the weekend and then took advantage of the dorm room privacy. But Josh will be back to the Dorm room in time for Monday’s classes. Is Dylan going to reveal anything about what he has been doing? And what if Josh should accidentally see one or more of Dylan’s “play items.” How will Dylan answer the obvious questions? Did Dylan get all the cum stains washed off the dorm room floor?

Bill and Joe have long been in a much different situation. Bill knows what Joe likes to do and Joe is well aware of at least some of what Bill enjoys doing. That situation alone is almost incomprehensible for male high school buddies where secrecy is the key to survival. We can assume also that Bill and Joe are each more than a little turned on by this realization, and further, that neither of them are opposed to seeing the other in an obvious state of arousal. But what makes this really interesting is that both Bill and Joe think of themselves as straight. Determining the meaning of all of this for both Bill and Joe is an interesting puzzle.

Then there is Tony and Donovan, the rowing team members. Bill, Joe and Dylan have been thinking that there was at least a possibility that Tony and Donovan are also a gay couple. Tony and Donovan share an enthusiasm for exercise, physical fitness, and in general looking really good in tight-fitting clothing, and their rowing team membership enhances that. From Bill and Joe’s perspective, physically, Tony and Donovan are everything Bill and Joe would like to be. But in addition, Tony and Donovan also seem completely at ease and casual with each other and their bulging muscles and groin areas. This ease has affected Dylan to a degree as well.

And what of my readers? Why are you still reading these chapters, anyway? As mature audience literature goes, there has not been a single instance of sex with a partner. There is a rule somewhere that says every piece of adult literature should include a partner-focused sexual encounter described in detail every 5-7 pages. This is not that at all. Mainly this story is about guys who are struggling with new adulthood in an assortment of ways. To the extent that my writing is successful, I suspect it is because of two things. First, I’m covering complicated issues for guys that have almost never been addressed elsewhere. Secondly, my fervent hope is that in reading all of this, you will get to experience some of the sensations my characters are experiencing in your own minds and bodies, but particularly in your own groin area. If I accomplish this, I am successful, and the story must continue.

To be continued…

Bill and Joe try on their new thongs
 

Just like Dylan, Bill and Joe are excited about and interested in trying on the stuff they got in the big Amazon order. Unlike Dylan, however, Bill and Joe have already had some active experience with trying on and then wearing snug-fitting clothing (remember the long dream sequence wearing the compression gear, straps and cups many chapters back. If you do not remember these chapters, they are good for you to read before following the continuing story now.)

Men’s thong underwear has always been something of a mystery item for Bill and Joe. Bill and Joe, of course, both knew that thongs were very popular with women their age and even with many of the girls in high school. Bill and Joe would have to be brain-dead to not realize this.

But for men, thong underwear was something of a 180 degree U-turn. Guys in high school almost uniformly had abandoned even white cotton briefs in favor of loose-fitting patterned boxers. Tighty whiteys were for the little boys. But little boys who started out in colorful Superman-patterned cotton briefs soon abandoned them too in favor of Superman patterned boxers. This is a little weird, because as any 6-year old knows, Superman did NOT wear boxers, but instead really snug-fitting red briefs on the OUTSIDE of equally snug-fitting royal blue tights and top with the big-S superman logo. If a guy wants to play like Superman, boxer briefs are NOT what a guy should be wearing for sure.

Anyhow, Superman did not wear a thong either, but a lot of small boys learned about the basics of adult male anatomy by observing Superman’s male bulge in the super-tight red briefs.

In the case of men and from the unique male anatomy, thong underwear is, well, interesting in an assortment of ways, presuming the guy can get his head around the notion that a thong was not designed for a young woman but are also interesting as men’s apparel, or that only gay men would ever be caught wearing a thong designed to the male anatomy.

Every pair of thong underwear fits and feels a little different, and finding the correct-fitting thong underwear can take a bit of research. The male anatomy is better suited to a thong than is the female anatomy. Guys often are squeamish about having the rear band of the thong cut between their butt cheeks, but for guys, getting one’s head around that is a big part of the fun. Thongs are made with three basic designs. The most readily available ones typically use a wider band of elastic that is designed, more or less, to ride over the butt crack, not between the butt cheeks. These are popular in large measure because the thong doesn’t feel that much different from standard briefs, except of course, that the guy’s butt cheeks are bare.

The second design males the thong back out of a narrow round elastic cord, sometimes still covered in cloth. These thongs are definitely designed so that the round cord cuts between the butt cheeks, brushing against the anal area. With this design, the guy will never forget he is wearing something unique. The cord disappears as it cuts between the butt cheeks, and as the guy moves around and walks, there is a feather touch-like feeling in the anal area that perhaps is sexually arousing for guys, though some guys don’t realize this could happen until they get themselves into the thong and start moving around.

The third design makes the back from a narrow band of elastic, not cord, maybe only a quarter-inch wide. This version is also designed to cut between the butt cheeks and disappear in between in the lower part of the butt. To me, this design provides the best overall experience for the wearer, in part because the band presses firmly and less gently in the anal area than a light cord would.

Sizing matters as well. A size SM thong is going to have a shorter band or cord of elastic than a larger thong, and the small size will cut more firmly between the butt cheeks providing a more interesting and exciting overall experience.

But there is another thing going on here as well. The band making up the back of the thong is obviously connected to the front pouch in some way. Oftentimes there is also some double or triple stitching here, which creates something of a lump right where the elastic attaches to the pouch.

The location of where these stitches occur with respect to the male anatomy is very interesting, because it hits exactly the spot in the male anatomy known as the perineum. The perineum is directly behind the scrotum, between the scrotum and the anus. The slang term for this area is the taint. The perineum is a really interesting spot for guys. First of all, a ton of nerves terminate there, making the area extremely sensitive to touch and pressure. But also, in guys the taint is directly below the prostate gland. Anything that puts pressure on or massages the prostate is sexually exciting in unique ways, sensations a guy is likely not to forget any time soon.

So, put the combination of the male anatomy with a slightly undersized thong (so the almost too-short band cuts deeply between the butt cheeks while brushing firmly against the anal area) along with an bit of sewing that happens right at the taint, pressing upward and providing an indirect prostate massage right where all the nerve endings terminate, and you have a real recipe for fun. Think about what Tony and Donovan are experiencing wearing thongs under singlets while working out on a stationary rowing machine, and you will start to better understand what is going on with them and with their workouts.

Bill and Joe know nothing of all of what I have just told you. Unless a guy is somehow sexually brain-dead, the combination of the anal touch and the upward pressure on the perineum should be more than stimulating enough to cause pre-cum to flow in copious amounts even if the guy is not yet significantly hard just getting into the thong.

So, Bill and Joe begin by getting into their new thongs and that is exactly what happens. The upward pressure of the thong from directly behind the scrotum tends to push the male anatomy upward and forward. This means that when Bill and Joe top their thongs with the wrestling singlets they just got, their penises, even only slightly erect, are going to show as a bump in the front of the singlet. But both Bill and Joe already are oozing pre-cum, so they should not only quickly see a bump in an interesting place in their new Crimson red (Bill) and Navy blue (Joe) singlets, but at the very center of the bump should be a growing spot of pre-cum, first just a really-neat, viscous, crystal-like clear drop or two that guys normally delight in making, but quickly morphing into a wet area that is quarter-sized, then half-dollar sized, and even silver dollar sized. Any guy would have to be brain-dead sexually to not start oozing after getting into a thong for the first time.

Bill and Joe say absolutely nothing to each other. What is happening right now is obvious to both of them. It’s best to just keep quiet and enjoy the moment and the tremendously pleasant sensations their bodies are giving both of them, while increasingly recognizing now that part of the fun is very much linked to the realization of what the other guy is experiencing and doing. Some of life’s experiences are just too pleasant for words and talk. This is a great moment in time for both Bill and Joe. Dylan will learn about all of this too, but in his own time. Bill and Joe now think they understand at least partly why Tony and Donovan seemed so happy and full of life at the gym a few days ago. The male body is really, really fun in all sorts of ways. Something new and exciting every day.

To be continued….

This could get more interesting…
 

Bill and Joe are both enjoying themselves, immensely. The new gear has resulted in an entirely different set of sensations for both of them, sensations that before they got into the gear they did not realize were possible. For starters, the upward pressure of the thong at the point where the pouch meets the rear of the elastic band that makes up the rear of the thong is, well, interesting to say the least.

Bill and Joe are not that knowledgeable about the nuances of male anatomy, in particular, they have been used to leaving the impression with their friends that they knew a lot about everything there was to know, but, as it turns out, some rather interesting parts got left out. For example, most 19-year old guys are probably only vaguely aware that their prostates are sensitive to touch and that this sensitivity can be sexually exciting coming from a very different place in the anatomy than the penis. They probably know that a lot of older guys are squeamish about having a physical that involves a digital prostate exam (these instances where guys have to do this play over and over on TV comedies) but the real reason for the squeamishness is less clear, that the guy undergoing a physical, having his prostate digitally examined, might also ejaculate in the doctor’s office almost instantly. Thankfully, physicals that include a digital prostate exam are rare for 19-year old guys. That is something that is a long way off.

Then there is the entire subject of gay butt sex and the nuances of that. At age 19, a lot of guys who think of themselves as straight are still wondering if this can possibly be comparable to having sex with a woman. What can be fun about that? But of course, the key here is the sexually-exciting prostate massage since the prostate is located directly beside the rectum. Hence the reason the digital prostate exam works, at least to a certain degree.

Now what Bill and Joe are doing is a little different. Obviously these two seemingly straight guys are not engaging in butt sex. But they are both wearing these skimpy thongs that are putting a lot of direct upward pressure in the perineum, rubbing externally right up against the prostate. For guys who haven’t discovered this yet, sexually this can turn out to be quite interesting, and doubly so with the wrestling singlet in place.

In this situation, guys usually do not immediately become way erect. The various pressures and sensations can be subtle at best, at least initially. This is like a lot of sexual feelings and sensations—they sneak up on you and take their own time about capturing your full attention. The usual response is only to get slightly erect, but to quietly start oozing crystalline clear drops of pre-cum. These droplets are usually viscous enough to stay as drops—growing up at that age I always thought they were fun to watch form as individual droplets. If the guy has a singlet over the top of the thong, the drops are so viscous that if the guy is careful, they will continue to form as funny-looking individual clear droplets on the outside of the singlet. And depending on exactly where the guy is psychologically, this process can continue, almost indefinitely.

Bill says to Joe “Wouldn’t it be fun to wear this gear to bed?” Joe says nothing, but nods approvingly. Keep in mind that part of the fun here for Bill is enjoying not only what is happening to his own body as the pre-cum oozes, but also at the same time getting to observe close up what is happening to Joe as he undergoes a situation with the same pressures and sensations. Of course, Joe is oozing pre-cum rather heavily by now too, and Joe is having fun just observing Bill and watching exactly how Bill is coping with the situation at hand as well.

Could this be considered a gay sexual encounter between Bill and Joe? That is certainly an interesting question, and not a question that can be resolved in a few sentences. Bill and Joe are certainly both enjoying themselves and what they are experiencing, and part of the enjoyment is directly related to observing close up what is happening to the other. Dylan would love to be where either Bill or Joe are right now but for now he is too shy and uncertain. Does this mean that Bill and Joe are gay and only masquerading as straight guys? Do both Bill and Joe still think they would be having more fun if they were in direct sexual contact with a female (in which case they could still with straight faces claim to be straight)? If part of the fun for Bill and Joe is just watching each other struggle do they both still fit on the far straight end of the scale?

And is this all “normal” or not? Maybe this entire situation is merely a fetish that Bill and Joe both happen to have. Some sexual psychologists might label this as such given that the clothing items are stimulating the sexual responses. But this is not fantasy or in any way imaginary. The pressures and sensations Bill and Joe are feeling are quite real even though specific items of clothing are involved. If this is indeed some sort of fetish, then a lot of guys must “suffer” with the same “problem.”

More generally, how many guys out there would not have any sexual reaction if they were given an opportunity to be in Bill’s or Joe’s situation right now? How many guys out there would perhaps secretly delight in being able to be in exactly that situation right now? There is still a lot about male sexuality that a lot of the researchers apparently understand hardly at all.

Meanwhile, Bill and Joe need to pee and this need to get down the hallway to the bathroom. Both of them now have silver-dollar sized damp spots of pre-cum on their singlets. This will be tricky. First, they will need to navigate the hallway without anyone noticing the pre-cum stains. Then, once they get to the urinals, they will need to pull down their singlets and pull out their penises from the thong pouches. With the singlets down it will be perfectly clear to any guy walking by that their butts are, well, baby-butt bare as they stand at the urinals. Another “little” problem of a physical nature is that when a guy starts to pre-cum, the prostate immediately shuts off the urine flow, biologically necessary because any trace of urine in the urethra would immediately kill the sperm in the semen, not great for reproduction.

So, if Bill and Joe are pre-cumming profusely, as we know they have been, they are probably going to have to stand at the urinal for a while before they can have any hope of peeing, which increases the likelihood that some other guys are going to wander into the bathroom and see everything, bare butts, singlets, thongs and all.

Bill and Joe wander into the hallway, hoping that no one will be out there and in particular notice the pre-cum stains.

But who should suddenly pop out of a side hallway but Josh, Dylan’s roommate, just back from his weekend home. And there are Bill and Joe both clad in cum-stained asics singlets, Bill’s crimson red and Joe’s blue. Josh is a more outgoing, friendly sort, and he greets Bill and Joe in a very friendly manner, pretending not to even notice the damp spots of pre-cum. Of course, Josh did notice. He just didn’t say anything.

Bill and Joe have not yet made it to the urinals, let alone to bed. However, they both have been enjoying themselves (and each other) a lot.

To be continued..

Bill and Joe’s dilemma
 

As any heterosexual guy has come to realize at age 19, navigating the path to penis-vagina sex with a female can be difficult. There are all sorts of bumps in the road, starting with the notion that sex with a female is most often tied not only to emotional attachment (bad enough alone for a lot of guys) but to, (horror of horrors), long-term commitment! And, not surprisingly, most 19-year olds are not ready to get into big time emotional attachments let alone commitments that at least in the story books are supposed to last forever (remember the “until death do you part” stuff). All of this is just scary for most (dare I say nearly all) 19-year old guys.

Let’s say it right now. A lot of women, maybe most, are wired very differently when it comes to sex than the guys are wired. Generally speaking, the women worth getting serious about from the standpoint of emotional and perhaps permanent commitment are most often the ones that see sex as the logical last- step in a process that begins with emotional attachment.

Guys usually are wired differently. The hormones are flowing and the tension in the groin area is happening. Guys sometimes (often?) see this tension not as simply a very enjoyable experience but as a “medical condition” that needs to be dealt with one way or another. They often think that the best and most socially-acceptable way to deal with this is real sex with a woman, but for a host of reasons, this may not either be possible or even desirable in the larger scheme of things, given where the guy is school-wise (a freshman in college) or otherwise (a reluctance to make a long-term emotional commitment).

Let’s be blunt here. For guys who think of themselves as straight, this is frequently not a happy time, sex-wise.

What about the guys who think of themselves as gay, and attracted to other men their age? Isn’t casual sex with another guy considered the norm for gay guys? Another guy is not going to be wired like the typical woman is wired, where everything seems connected to making a firm emotional commitment first and the sex part comes later, maybe far later. Gay guys in theory are all about casual (aka one-night) sex without emotional bonds or commitments. Or are they? Maybe this is one of those great myths that heterosexual guys generally believe.

Let’s think back: In the pre-HIV days, prior to the 80s, maybe the casual sex thing was indeed the norm for gay men, and the long term commitment thing was more-nearly the exception than the rule. As everyone knows, HIV changed the behavior of gay guys with respect to casual sex in major ways. Casual sex by definition was not sex with a guy who you have first gone through a detailed list of all the previous sexual partners. Casual gay sex involving methods in which bodily fluids were exchanged became potentially life-threatening sex, and interest in coming up with ways that were safe(r) became a new key element. For starters, no one got HIV when engaging in a solo jerk-off session nor by watching another guy jerk himself off. Problem solved! Well, at least sort of problem solved. What I am getting at here is the idea that gay guys suddenly became interested in engaging in activities that at once were sexually exciting to them and yet posed no risks.

I suppose we could debate the issue of whether the safe activities are as enjoyable as the risky ones, but let me leave that topic alone for now. Perhaps you can decide that one for yourself as you read the story line relating to Bill and Joe, Tony and Donovan, Dylan and (now) Josh.

Other forces are at work too. Politically the whole gay movement has evolved to the point where the major theme is “gay couples, male or female, are no different than straight couples other than gay couples have same-sex partners.” Gay couples find each other, establish emotional bonds, make commitments, get married, take on employment in every imaginable field, raise kids, and in general do everything that a straight couple would do. Acceptance of gays in the larger society largely hinges on the notion that we are no different from you. In particular, we do not engage in casual sex in public restrooms. All of those old gay stereotypes from the 1950s about gays and sex are flat-out wrong or at least completely obsolete.

All of this is endlessly fascinating commentary, and worthy of more discussion, but for now let me circle back to the 19-year olds Bill and Joe, and the situation they currently face. Bill and Joe have discovered a bunch of stuff that a lot of 19-year olds would be clueless about. First off, both Bill and Joe love snug-fitting clothing, clothing that seems to get them aroused in a bunch of different ways. Would this be common among 19-year olds, or more nearly some sort of abnormal “fetish” Bill and Joe both just happen to have? I do not know for certain, but I think that what Bill and Joe discovered is probably very commonplace for guys and quite normal. The issues are two-fold, however. If a guy were to be open and admit to this, he might be teased or bullied, called a fag, or whatever. So most guys are not even willing to entertain the possibility in their own minds for fear of what the possible consequences might be. College life is more open than what it was like living with your parents and in high school, but still a lot of college students would still be very uneasy about admitting what they like to themselves let alone their male friends, particular what they like that involves solo sex activity involving anything they think could be interpreted by others as abnormal.

Somehow, without saying much to each other, Bill and Joe have managed to at least to a degree worked their respective ways around this. Bill and Joe are not ready to make emotional commitments to anyone, having nearly four years of college to navigate first. But that doesn’t mean that they can somehow deep-six their sexual feelings and sensations for that amount of time. So the activity involving the clothing items at this point serves a very useful purpose and release given the limits on the other options right now, and where other options might quickly go.

The third part of the puzzle, however, gets trickier. What if I, a guy, gets aroused watching you, a guy, get aroused perhaps with the aid of the snug-fitting clothing items such as those that have been described? Does that make me gay, or at least have a gay side to my personality?

What if YOU suddenly discover that YOUR arousal gets more intense with the realization that I am watching you do this? Does that mean that YOU are somehow gay and now disinterested in ever having sex with a female partner? Or what? Is this just a curious form of male bonding, or is there something more complicated going on here? If I enjoy watching you struggle with your sensations inside the thong and singlet, and similarly, you think it is fun to watch me struggle with the same feelings and sensations, exactly where does that leave the situation between you and me right now?

Maybe part of the problem is that the thongs and singlets are actually working TOO WELL and are therefore too good of a substitute for the sensations of real penis-vagina sex, in if this is true isn’t that going to eventually mean the end of reproduction (and the human race)? Maybe I shouldn’t even think about that for now.

So, as we leave this chapter, Bill and Joe have wandered down the hall in their thongs and singlets, and into the process had an encounter with Josh, Dylan’s roommate. Josh thought what they were wearing was, well, interesting for sure, but did not say anything that would indicate a degree of surprise.

Bill and Joe are now at the urinals, attempting to pee, which because of basic biology is not that easy to if they have been pre-cumming profusely very recently. The singlets have to come off the shoulders, and the singlets have to come off the shoulders and get pulled down so the pouch and their butts are exposed. Then the penises have to come out of the cotton thong pouches. Then a guy waits, sometimes a long time. If any other guy wanders into the bathroom right now, he is going to see two bare butted guys standing beside each other at the urinals, attempting to pee. Whoever wanders in might get the wrong idea about what is happening. But Bill and Joe both seem to think that is also part of the fun they are having with themselves (and with each other).

To be continued….

Lots of stuff going on here…
 

Lots of interesting stuff going on here. Bill and Joe have discovered that if you are a guy who is pre-cumming, its tough to get a urine stream started. This is more than just having a “bashful kidney”. Given the arousal and all the pre-cum, Bill and Joe’s bodies are telling them that a stream of urine right now would really mess things up. The male body has a lot of different self-protects built in, almost like a modern automobile. And of course, very important in the scheme of things is the idea of maintaining the species into future generations. So with a common pipe for urine and sperm/semen, a system had to be made that would ensure the sperm emerged healthy and ready to go. This is it!

If you wait long enough at the urinal, things will probably switch back, but there are Bill and Joe, bare-butted, singlets dropped to their knees, waiting for something to happen.

Then there is Josh, who just got back to the dorm after a weekend home. Dylan is in their room. Josh has just encountered Bill and Joe in the hallway, both of them wearing their wrestling singlets (with thongs under). Josh greets Bill and Joe warmly but thinks what he just saw is a little, well, weird.

Josh pops into the dorm room and says to Dylan. “I just saw Bill and Joe in the hallway. They both looked great, but they were both wearing colorful wrestling singlets. Bill’s was red and Joe’s was navy blue.”

The really interesting question is how Dylan will decide to respond to what Josh has just said.

There are two options: Option A is to say nothing about his own gear that he has been experimenting with this weekend, as in his in forest green singlet, strap and cup.

Option B is to say to Josh. “Oh, I bought one of those too, but mine is a dark green color.”

If Dylan goes with Option A, then he has the additional problem of trying to hide the gear from John, and Josh will likely eventually see something on Dylan’s side of the room. The strap and cup is more easily hidden in the bottom of the in-closet dresser drawer, but eventually Josh is probably going to see the wrestling singlet Dylan bought, if buy accident.

But Dylan knows that if he responds with option B, Josh is probably going to start asking some questions. A question might be as simple as “What gives, Dylan?”

At this point Dylan gets to think up an answer. Obviously, there are various ways to handle this. Dylan is too shy to tell Josh anything about what exactly he has been doing all weekend long. Nope, a more believable answer goes something like this.

“Joe, Bill and I have started going to the student gym for exercise. Some of the guys there are wearing singlets as gym wear. Bill, Joe and I thought this was not a bad idea, so we each ordered one on Amazon. Mine is dark green. Josh, you need to join us at the gym. It has been fun, and we are meeting some guys who are better athletes than we are!”

Josh thinks this response is at least plausible. Dylan avoids having to go into what could be embarrassing details of his messing around all weekend long. The explanation for the wrestling singlets may not be completely satisfactory, but at least it is a start.

To be continued….

The night begins...
 

Dylan and Josh have both crawled into bed. Dylan especially felt particularly “drained” and beat for some odd reason, but Josh was tired too, after his trip home and long (250-mile) car ride back to campus. Both Josh and Dylan are wearing their sleepwear of choice, plaid, loose-fitting cotton boxers, Dylan’s in a medium Blue and Josh in various shades of gray.

Strangely enough, Dylan is still wide awake, and in his mind he seems to be replaying the events that took place over the weekend. Dylan really enjoyed himself inside the strap and cup and wearing the singlet over. Guys generally don’t easily forget this kind of enjoyment, for some strange reason. I think the reason this stuff gets “glued” into a guy’s brain might have something to do with basic biology. What makes this situation a little different, however, is that in this case, attraction to another person is not an element.

Dylan keeps thinking to himself that if Josh weren’t in the bed in the room right beside him, already he would be up getting into the strap, cup and singlet and see how long he could “tolerate” another round of self-pleasuring. Dylan finds this thought a little weird, but also arousing. The fact that he can’t just get up and do this right now is in itself strangely arousing, and as this stuff rolls over and over in Dylan’s mind, Dylan is starting to feel that pleasant tension in his groin area and particular at the base of his penis. Dylan doesn’t quite know what exactly to make of this. Dylan has had erotic fantasies in the past that led to the same sensations happening, but never quite this way. What is happening now to Dylan is that the erotic fantasy is based on his own self-pleasuring that happened only a few hours ago. The events of the recent past are having an impact all over again on Dylan’s brain and body.

As all of this happens, Dylan goes into a very natural but nearly autonomous response. At first he just touches his penis by simply pressing his fingertips on the underside at the base. “Yup, I am starting to get a little hard” Dylan says to himself, even though he is only wearing loose-fitting boxer shorts. Fortunately, Dylan’s “activity” is hidden under the bed covers, and Josh, if he is awake at all, cannot see what Dylan is doing to himself. The situation Dylan was in with the strap, cup and singlet keeps getting replayed over and over in his mind, almost as if it were a short YouTube ® video that somehow repeats endlessly. As this happens, Dylan starts to grow and get harder and harder. Dylan is now helping the process along in that what started out as just light fingertip pressing has morphed into what at first is gentle stroking. The stroking quickens a little as the tension in Dylan’s penis becomes greater. Dylan keeps thinking to himself that the strap, cup and singlet are fun even when a guy is NOT wearing them, because the events morph into such a neat self-pleasuring fantasy.

Dylan is confused too. Do these events have anything to do with Dylan’s sexual orientation? Is what Dylan is doing to himself and his penis right now the trademark behavior of a gay-leaning jerk-off, or if nearly ANY guy were placed into the same sequence of events over the weekend would end up in basically the same place right now. Dylan has no idea, except to say that this is a concern that pops into Dylan’s mind.

Dylan also wonders that if the strap, cup and singlet were that much fun, what about the other items he bought? What about those Desmiit® swim briefs? What will happen if Dylan gets into those and then “covers up” with the bright lime green Tesla® compression shorts? These accumulating thoughts are too much for Dylan’s young brain (and body) to handle. Dylan just touches the underside of the glans of his now really-hard penis and he starts to shoot semen in a series of powerful contractions. “I hope Josh is fast asleep” Dylan says to himself. “I hope I don’t need to pee after this” he says, realizing that he can hardly jump up and head down the hall to the bathroom right now, given that his boxer shorts are now covered with semen. Dylan, of course, has masturbated to ejaculation in bed before. Any young teen learns techniques for hiding this early on in life. But this ejaculation was really powerful and heavy, creating quite a mess for sure. Hiding what happened from Josh is going to be difficult, if not impossible.

Meanwhile, Bill and Joe have now both made it back from the hall bathroom and into the room. They are both thinking about continuing to wear their singlets and neat-fitting thongs to bed. Pressures and tensions down there which are readily manageable during the day when there are distractions quickly become more powerful at night, when the brain tends to want to focus on the sensations coming from the groin area. That is part of what makes life so interesting for guys.

To be continued…

Dylan's big dilemma
 

For many if not most guys, the first year of college is a huge learning experience in all sorts of ways, and it goes without saying that not everything a 19-year old guy learns happens inside the classroom. Out on their own for the first time, most college freshmen are delighted to have some additional freedom to do things that they would have not felt comfortable doing when living with their parents and siblings.

We all know what is traditionally on this list. College freshmen frequently get into a lot of trouble with teen-age drinking, DWI etc etc, plus things like sex with maybe not entirely willing females. A lot of this can quickly turn into stuff that ends up being illegal and results in a lot of issues and problems.

But Dylan, as you might have already expected, is none of this. Dylan is the shy, quiet type, and would never even think about getting involved in doing anything that would get himself into trouble with the law. Dylan is basically a “nice kid”, sometimes called a “sweet young man”. He is so laid back in terms of his behavior that he sometimes almost just blends into the background. He was famous for NOT engaging in the stuff in high school that the “rowdier” kids did, and his behavior in this regard has not significantly changed once he got to college. Dylan is still a sweet young man, affable, but not even that talkative.

Having said that, this does not mean that Dylan also lacks the drives and urges the other college guys have. Dylan has often felt the urge to beat off, sometimes in what would be considered unexpected times and places, but as a high school student, Dylan quickly learned that he needed to be able to control his “base instincts.”

Now in College, however, Dylan is starting to feel a bit more open about all of this. Dylan is not in any sort of a partner relationship though he is starting to think that this is something that he would eventually like to at least try to engage in at some point. As a consequence, Dylan has no reputation as a ladies’ man, but neither does he have any sort of reputation as a guy’s man, either or that he is somehow attracted to guys. Sexual orientation-wise, Dylan just blends into the background.

As I have suggested before, Dylan has long been aroused just thinking about the possibility of wearing snug-fitting clothing, and the idea of making the Amazon® order was in some ways a real break though for Dylan’s shyness. This was something he would have never tried doing had he still been living at home. And Dylan himself did not know exactly where this would lead. He soon found out.

Need I also mention one more time that the college living arrangements in freshmen dorms usually involve twin rooms, and oftentimes a guy does not know who his male roommate is going to be until they both move in. Two male roommates, living together in very tight quarters, can easily have drastically different habits, behaviors and views. (Would a college knowingly pair two gay guys in the same dorm room if they knew both of the guys were gay males?) Could two sexually-involved gay males get a double room in a men’s dorm without question, and sexually cohabit as roommates? I see no reason how the system could prevent this from happening. A lot of this old system still assumes that every guy in the dorm is straight no matter how silly that is. The key point here is that college roommates frequently have no clue about the sexual orientation of the roommate until after school starts.

It goes without saying that Dylan thoroughly enjoyed himself over the weekend when Josh went back home. Dylan has discovered a whole bunch of stuff about himself and his body that turned out to be terrific fun. He has never before had so much fun pleasuring himself, and these special self-pleasuring moments ended up getting replayed in his brain over and over again, which in turn ended with another powerful under-the-covers orgasm in bed when he was not even wearing any of the special stuff in the Amazon® order, just thinking about the possibilities wearing some of this. Plus Dylan still has a bunch of other stuff in the order he has not yet even tried on, let alone played with.

As a learning experience, all of this has been moving at a very rapid pace for Dylan. The entire experience has been so much fun that deep down, Dylan thinks he would like to shout out what he did and exactly what happened. Well, maybe not stand up and explain all of this in some public forum, but perhaps (????) share a little of this with his roommate Josh. Now Dylan and Josh are well-paired as roommates. Both good students, they are both quiet and somewhat shy with others, particularly with members of the opposite sex. Josh is a sweet guy too. The problem is that if Dylan starts to discuss any of what he has been up to with Josh, Josh might begin to take it the wrong way, especially perhaps start to assume that Dylan, at minimum, has a gay side, and that the discussion about singlets, jocks etc is the start of some sort of gay “come-on.” That is the real down side of having any sort of discussion. There are risks that it could all go quickly the wrong way, and college guys like to avoid roommate battles at least until late in the school year.

At the same time, Josh is not brain-dead. Ergo, he must engage in self-pleasuring (masturbation) too. Assuming this is true, Josh must be facing some of the same issues Dylan is dealing with in having a male roommate, and trying to maintain the “image” for Dylan’s benefit that he never ever masturbates. As the semester drags on, this gets tougher and tougher to do. But Dylan knows that he has taken all of this a step beyond where he thinks Josh is. Dylan has had this “thing” for snug-fitting clothing that goes all the way back to before puberty. Dylan is clueless as to whether this thing he has is widespread among 19-year old college roommates, and, if it isn’t, whether or not Josh would get uncomfortable knowing a little more about Dylan than he really wanted to know.

What a dilemma! Best to take this slow with Josh and proceed at a measured pace, if at all. What can Dylan comfortably share with Josh? Well, Josh already knows about Dylan’s forest green wrestling singlet and is, well, wondering what exactly is up with that. Josh is stumped. For starters, Josh knows Dylan is NOT a college wrestler.

Meanwhile, in the other dorm room, Joe and Bill have crawled into bed wearing their thongs and singlets. They are both having fun, and feeling pretty good. Bill knows that Joe in the bed a few feet away is enjoying himself clad that way. Joe knows that Bill in the bed a few feet away is also experiencing some pleasurable moments. The night is young. Can Bill and Joe make it through the night OK? More than OK? We will see.

To be continued…

Bill and Joe’s big dilemma…
 

Just as Dylan has issues, Bill and Joe have issues too. Bill and Joe have both crawled into bed wearing their new thongs and their new wrestling singlets, Bill’s in crimson red and Joe’s in navy blue. The new thongs feel really good to them, in large measure not so much because of the general snugness of the fit, but because for the first time, they are both experiencing exactly what significant upward pressure in the perineum area, that little spot right behind the scrotum, does to their bodies (and minds).

Exactly why that pressure in the thongs feels so good is not entirely clear, except to say that it must be a combination of all the nerve endings that terminate there that pleasantly respond to the pressure, plus the fact that the thong is putting indirect external pressure on the prostate gland located just inside. Bill and Joe had known nothing about this. The combination of these two events happening together is, well, interesting. Actually, the sensations are more than interesting. They are normally not strong enough to give a guy a firm erection right off, but the sensations are enormously satisfying in a host of other ways.

These sensations generated by the thong and the upward perineum pressure generally will quickly send a guy into a heavy pre-cum mode, despite the penis still being flaccid, or at best only semi-erect. And the pre-cumming will almost surely be profuse. Think not only dime-size spots of that crystal-clear, viscous, somewhat sticky fluid, but soon nickel-sized, then quarter-sized, then half-dollar-sized and even silver-dollar sized spots of pure pre-cum. Guys get fascinated with just watching the pre-cum accumulate in what are successive small but persistently accumulating individual droplets.

Bill and Joe both lie in bed pretending to be asleep, but at the same time having great fun with themselves. Further, Bill knows what is happening to Joe and Joe knows what is happening to Bill, and the mere knowledge that there is another guy in the bed a few feet away enjoying this in much the same way makes the entire sequence of events even more fun. All of this is a not-to-be-missed educational experience for 19-year old male college roommates housed in a freshman dorm.

The title of the story today indicated that Bill and Joe faced a dilemma, and they do, sort of. Let me explain in detail the specifics of the“problem.” Despite the snug fit of the thongs, their penises are much freer to move around than they were when they were contained in the straps and hard cups. Access is better. But remember, both Bill and Joe are wearing wrestling singlets that also fit snugly over the thongs, and these wrestling singlets cover their lower chests and are held in place via shoulder straps.

First off, as the pre-cum accumulates inside of the thong pouch, some of it is going to leak through, staining the singlet on the outside, right above the penis tip. This means a wet spot will soon be appearing on the outside of the singlet, a wet spot that will grow in size on the singlet as the pre-cum accumulates drop-by-drop.

Second, as all of this pre-cumming proceeds, at some point Bill and Joe are both going to feel increasing urges to stroke their penises from glans to base. This is tricky with the singlets in place. They can try stroking themselves from the outside of the singlet. Another approach would be to reach down inside the singlet and do the stroking from there. Keep in mind also that as all of this is happening the psychological pressure to go into full-scale ejaculation mode is building, and especially so if stroking is going on.

What then? I suppose Bill and Joe could ejaculate under the covers with the singlet still in place, but if these guys are now as horny as I think they are, this is going to leave a huge cum-stain on the singlet. Another approach would e to hop out of bed at some point, pull down the singlet shoulder straps, pull the singlet down and then ejaculate into the thong, or perhaps right into the air. But this is going to create a real mess, too.

Then there is the question of timing. Are both Joe and Bill going to get to the point whereby they can delay ejaculation no farther at about the same moment in time, or is one of them ahead of the other in this regard. Joe is thinking that it would be, well, interesting to watch Bill struggle doing this. Bill is thinking the same thing. What does this mean, for goodness sakes?

So, we leave Bill and Joe with a real dilemma. They had not expected to mess up their new singlets so soon after they got them, but for the turn of events as they discovered for themselves what Tony and Donovan were experiencing.

Meanwhile, back in Dylan and Josh’s room, we still have Dylan lying in bed in his damp, cum-stained boxers. This is, well, uncomfortable, but Dylan does not know quite what to do at this point. He could get up and slip on a clean pair, but that would awaken Josh, no doubt, who is now fast asleep. Alternately, he could just lie there and hope that the cum-stains dry by morning. But then there will be all those starchy-like yellowish stains on his boxers, so Dylan will have to be careful in figuring out a way to somehow discard the stained boxers into his laundry bag (an old pillowcase) and get into a fresh pair somehow without alerting Josh to what happened.

Ahh,…the real problems facing male college frosh males living in twin-bed dorm rooms are not simple at all. More of this great fun with self-pleasuring intermingled with terror.

To be continued…

Joe and Bill cope with male biology and science…
 

This is the first time either Bill or Joe has ever worn male thong underwear. For that matter, this is the first time either of them has ever worn a wrestling singlet. A situation like this always sets up maybe a bit of apprehension for guys. More bluntly put, some guys might be scared to death. No, not really. But normally guys do get a little apprehensive when they are getting into clothing items that will fit tight in the groin area and also snugly around their genitals. This is quite normal in a situation like this where everything is new and snug.

As I have indicated in various ways in past posts, every brand of thong fits a little differently. This is also true for specific sizes within the various brands. The fit and feel of the thong mostly depends on three factors. I have already mentioned in detail that exactly how the cord or band that makes up the rear of the thong is attached to the pouch greatly affects the feel. How the thong is constructed there can either give a strong” kick” in the perineum area, or a much more subtle kick. The strong kick is the most fun, but a thong that does this might feel somewhat uncomfortable at first, before everything settles down a bit.

The length and specific design of the back also determines how the thong is going to fit and feel. The narrower and shorter the back, the more likely it is to quickly ride between the butt cheeks. For thongs with a short and narrow back, when walking, the feel is something like the feel of a feather being passed over your butt crack. This may or may not take some getting used to, as it is not a sensation guys ordinarily feel. If you do not feel you are getting enough of a kick in the perineum, try pulling the thong upward and cinching the back so it disappears completely between the buttocks. That should do it.

The size and shape of the pouch matters too with respect to the fit and feel as well, but not as much as the first two factors. Getting the pouch into the proper position is sometimes a bit of a struggle for guys. The pouch is in the proper position when both of your balls and your penis are inside of this. Check to make sure this is happening.

Going to bed wearing a thong, as Bill and Joe are doing, is a unique and interesting experience because all the sensations tend to be more intense at night, when your mind isn’t distracted. By this time, most guys are likely pre-cumming, usually a lot of pre-cum and guys like to watch the individual droplets as they slowly form.

Bill and Joe are doubling the fun by adding the wrestling singlets to the mix. Thongs generally press the male anatomy upward and forward, even as the wrestling singlet bears down on the same area. The guy’s anatomy is very obvious with this, although not in an obscene-looking way. The bulge will look almost like a large circular button, certainly there in front. Unless, of course, the guy at this point already is getting a hard-on. Then these observations are off.

What is happening under the covers in Bill and Joe’s situation is not entirely clear at this point. Maybe they are still flaccid with large quantities of pre-cum. Maybe they are both helping things along and at least starting to get hard. Whatever they are both experiencing right now should be quite pleasant, to say the least. A guy can easily get hopelessly “hooked” on doing this, or something similar. Guys quickly discover that they do not want to go to bed unless they have set up a situation that they can enjoy in this manner.

What if their peers see them in this garb? The correct answer should be “so what!” You see how it went with Dylan at the gym for sure.

Practically every guy has the potential to enjoy themselves in a manner similar to what Bill and Joe are doing right now. A lot of these guys either don’t know about this stuff, or, to the extent that they do, are scared or perhaps too embarrassed to try. That is unfortunate, and somewhat sad.

To be continued…

Understanding ourselves…
 

Bill and Joe have both discovered several weeks ago that while orgasms are fun (they discovered that at puberty), the key to a really enjoyable orgasm is to remain aroused for as long as possible while resisting the ever-more-powerful physical and psychological urges to get off as soon as possible. These urges to ejaculate seem to come in a series of powerful waves, a sequence of events where the pressure to get off becomes almost unbearable, then backing off for a bit to a tolerable level, and then building the urges and pressures back up again right to the edge of going into a full-scale ejaculation.

For guys, it’s quite enjoyable to simply spend time practicing how to do this. Arousal, accompanied with drops of viscous pre-cum, can continue for an indefinite period of time, if a guy does not want to bring himself farther along than that. But, in that phase, there is always an intense psychological pressure to go farther, first, to get semi-erect, and then on to a full-scale erection.

The thongs and singlets that Bill and Joe are wearing are helpful in maintaining their bodies and minds at the what could be called the pre-cum level of arousal. From this point, of course, they can always ramp it up a little, just by lightly stroking their own penises with their fingers from base to tip. This should quickly send the erection process into high gear. Biologically, once the erection process gets fully underway, the pre-cumming will typically stop, and often rather abruptly.

Once the erection is underway, a guy needs to be really careful such to not go into a full-scale orgasm more rapidly than desired. There are particular techniques and approaches that Bill and Joe need to be aware of, and these techniques and approaches are not widely known.

First, penises are oval tubes that get hard from increased blood flow, but all parts of the penis are not equally sensitive to touch. If I were giving lessons on self-pleasuring to Bill and Joe, the first piece of information that I would share is that not all sides of the penis are equally sensitive to touch, and in particular the underside is most sensitive. So, if you want to get off quickly pay the most attention to the underside of your penis while stroking. But, if you want a longer experience (in more than one way!) , alternate your stroking between the underside, the top and the sides.

Some guys, probably Bill and Joe, think the way you get off is to stroke by gripping your penis all around by holding it with the palm of your hand, and then stroking from base to tip. This is something of a “traditional” masturbation method, but it is not the best technique, unless for some reason (as in your sister is calling that she needs to use the bathroom) you are forced into a situation where you need to get this over in a real hurry. Certainly these situations do arise, but being in a hurry here is not the best approach for enjoyable solo sex.

There are more complicated, but ultimately far more satisfying ways to pleasure yourself. Why should Bill and Joe learn about these, for goodness sakes? Isn’t the ultimate goal to find a mate to have sex with, and then maybe all this training on technique will be wasted.

Perhaps the most powerful and important part with respect to sex with a partner is communication. Not any old communication, mind you, but rather communication specific to what works for both of you sexually. Straight guys have a disadvantage here, because they are communicating with a female with very different plumbing and wiring. A lot of straight guys never quite figure this all out, and they muddle through life being sexually unhappy most of the time. This is all sad, but if you understand the nuances of what you like, that gives you a heads up on understanding the nuances of what she like, and if you and she are lucky,…very lucky,…sexual bliss.

Gay guys have an advantage here in that the basic plumbing and wiring are the same, or nearly so. If you discover something that is particularly enjoyable, at least there is a good possibility that your partner will enjoy the same thing, or at least something very similar. By each learning more about yourselves in this regard, you can also teach each other stuff the other one didn’t know, and once again perhaps find sexual happiness.

Then too, sometimes it’s nice to just be alone and to not have a partner around, and this is true whether you are straight or gay. A lot of women in straight relationships have a great deal of difficulty dealing with the basic idea that their man still enjoys solo sex in a relationship. Some nearly go to pieces if they accidently discover their man pleasing himself alone. I wish this were not true, but it is. The proper response for a women who discovers her male partner masturbating should be “May I help you?” and in particular to not run out of the room, crying. Just because a guy enjoys solo sex is not an indication that he does not love her or that she has been doing something wrong. After all, the guy pleasured himself regularly long before he met her.

Again, gay guys as partners have an advantage, in part because most gay guys would be far more tolerant of their other half engaging in solo sex. Indeed, in the initial stages of the relationship, watching the other guy pleasure himself while you pleasure yourself may be an important key to the relationship.

Too, none of the ideas Bill and Joe have been enjoying involve an exchange of bodily fluids. Heck, Bill and Joe have not even admitted that they enjoy being around each other, and certainly they have not admitted that watching each other masturbate and pre-cum is interesting fun. They both know that, of course, but their desire to maintain their images as perfectly straight guys inhibits all of this.

It is tough to tell how all of this is going to turn out, nor to tell what is going to happen with Dylan and Josh in the other dorm room. All of these guys have learned a lot of stuff they never knew when they were in high school.

To be continued…

Bill and Joe enjoy themselves all night long
 

It’s early morning now, and, believe it or not, Bill and Joe have spent the entire night enjoying themselves and their garb without getting quite to the point where they had to ejaculate, which would have then shut everything down for both of them. This has been an interesting night though for both of them.

For starters, sleep occurred only sporadically. It’s funny how that upward pressure from the thong on the perineum affects a guy’s sleep-wake patterns. At first a guy says to himself that his body cannot tolerate that sensation and still drift off to sleep, but then, somehow, it happens.

Now, most 19-year olds do not consider themselves to be experts in the entire subject of ejaculatory control. Part of this issue relates to the fact that as a young teenager guys quickly acquire the skills necessary to ejaculate quickly, getting to “the big, fun payoff” as fast as possible, in part because guys at that age are genuinely terrified of being discovered by friends or family members doing it, and the more time you take the greater the odds of being accidentally discovered.

So, what Bill and Joe are learning is how to develop ejaculatory control in the face of a combination of intense psychological and physical pressures to get off. Accomplishing this, delaying orgasm in the face of these intense feelings takes practice, lots of practice.

What exactly is going on here, and why is this so tough to do? When a guy is asleep, and particularly a 19-year old guy, penises still go through often multiple phases in which night-time erections take place, and then dissipate, sometimes without an orgasm, but often with. These nighttime cycles of erection and flaccidity are natural occurrences and any 19-year old has already experienced “wet dreams” many times over. These ejaculations are often accompanied by interesting dreams with a sexual theme, frequently involving other people of either sex. Straight guys often have wet dreams with a same-sex theme, though they seldom, if ever, admit to this. Gay guys probably occasionally have wet dreams with themes involving female partners too. Dreams can go anywhere in this regard.

So, Bill and Joe are lying in their twin dorm room beds, each clad in a thong which is putting a strong upward pressure on the perineum area. Their penises and balls are held closely to their bodies inside the thong pouch. Then over all of that they are wearing their new red or navy wrestling singlets. Just getting into all of this was not easy. Joe kind of quietly gulped as he felt the thong pressure on his perineum for the very first time. He had no clue before that his body was as sensitive as it is right there. Initially, he wanted to respond by stroking his penis from base to tip with his hand, but he thought the better of that idea. Joe uneasily had crawled into bed uncertain about what would happen.

Of course, what did happen is that both Bill and Joe quickly were as horny as all get out. They both really wanted to ejaculate but they thought the better of it. Now guys can drift off into somewhat of a troubled sleep, but they might only sleep for an hour or two, and then wake up still feeling very horny. These wake-sleep cycles happened to both Bill and Joe several times during the night. There was a degree of comfort for each of them in just knowing that the other guy there was struggling in the same situation down there.

But now it was early morning, and nearly time to get up and get ready to head off to class. Bill rises first. He pulls down his red singlet and notices it is quite damp where the tip of his penis had been. Bill thinks joe is still asleep, but Joe has one eye open, watching exactly what Bill is doing. Bill has now pulled off his thong and is standing there, completely nude, and semi-erect. Joe quietly smiles, as that is about the same way Joe is feeling too.

Now finally “free” of the pressure in the perineum from the thong, Bill examines what the inside of the thong pouch now looks like. It is now nearly covered with clear, viscous pre-cum fluid. Bill wonders if he could have ejaculated at some point during his sleep, and if so, there the inside of the pouch would be creamy-white, but the fluid is all clear and viscous. Bill still feels quite horny. He will have to deal with that in his classes today.

Suddenly Joe pops out of bed too, and he goes through the same steps tp prepare for class. Joe is thinking how amazing all of this has been. Joe is still quite horny too, and realizes now that this has been a real lesson in ejaculatory control. Joe’s thong pouch is filled with pre-cum stains as well. Joe wonders if he has just discovered something other guys his age already know.

To be continued….

Thongs can be fun, if a bit mean
 

Fortunately, Josh has an early (8 AM) class, by Dylan’s first class this morning does not happen until later. So Josh was up at 7 AM, and he headed right off to the hall men’s bathroom. That give’s Dylan a moment or two and hop out of his now heavily cum-stained plaid cotton boxers, and quickly get them into his pillow-case laundry bag.

Josh was thinking all night long about the stuff in his Amazon order. Part of this was reliving over and over again the experience of being inside the strap, cup and Forest Green asics wrestling singlet. “Wow was that fun! thought Dylan. “Bill and Joe certainly knew what to order.” Now Dylan’s mind is wandering over to the thought that perhaps Bill and Joe knew exactly what they were doing in placing the Amazon order, and that they were enjoying themselves in much the same way that Dylan had enjoyed himself.

Dylan’s thought was strangely erotic, and as he thought about all of his, he could feel a tell-tale drop or two of pre-cum forming right at the tip of his penis as he thought about Bill and Joe getting into a place where they could very well be enjoying themselves in the same way too. Dylan had never been quite aware of this sensation of little drops of pre-cum forming just because of a thought like this before. Indeed, he felt a little embarrassed when he realized that this was happening not because of thoughts relating to some female he had seen, but rather thoughts related to what Bill and Joe might be doing to themselves and how their bodies may be reacting.

For Dylan (and probably for a lot of other guys), this all seems a bit weird. Is this an indication that Dylan might not be as straight as he always thought he was? Dylan had always thought that men masturbate by looking at pictures and videos of naked females doing things, but never quite like this. Dylan thought this was all a little weird, and he had better keep it all to himself, lest this ultimately lead to the conclusion that his person had a hidden gay side. Dylan certainly started to wonder about what it meant if he was getting turned on just thinking about seeing other guys jerk off. What could that possibly mean, for goodness sakes? A heavy thought for a 19-year old for certain!

Are the other guys pre-cumming too every time they think about getting to see another male jerking off, or perhaps even thinking about another guy wanting to jerk off by getting into a strap, cup and singlet? What gives, anyway? How would Dylan ever be able to start to answer this question without raising it with other guys? And if Dylan asks the question, would any “apparently straight” guy answer the question truthfully, or would they just lie or laugh it all off. What a dilemma! Digging deep into the male sexuality psyche is difficult. Dylan is asking himself some of the same questions sexuality researchers would like to know the answers for, too.

Suddenly, Dylan hears the room door open, and Josh pops back into the room. He says he is going to have a coffee and a roll before his class and wonders if Dylan wants to come along. Dylan says “no”.

Dylan knows he will be alone in the room for now, as Josh will head from the cafeteria right off to class. Dylan has been thinking about the other items in his Amazon order. Dylan heads off to the bathroom to clean up for the morning. When he gets back, the room is empty, and Dylan, almost robotically, sorts through the other items in the Amazon order. He looks at the Desmiit® swim brief, the Tesla compression gear, but what really captures his attention is the Desmiit® thong. Dylan thinks to himself that there was probably some reason why Bill and Joe ordered the thongs.

Soon, Dylan has pulled off his tighty whities, and pulled the tags off the thong. Dylan is in the thong in an instant, but he notices that his balls are still outside the thong pouch. He says to himself “that can’t be right.” As he reaches down to reach under the pouch and work his balls inside along with his penis. There is barely enough room for both inside the pouch, but with a bit of struggling, he finally gets everything inside.

Suddenly the pressure of the thong on his perineum and cutting between his butt cheeks hits Dylan. This just feels uncomfortable at first, but this all suddenly morphs into the strangest and most wonderful set of sensations Dylan has ever experienced. Dylan pre-cums a little at first, but that soon stops and Dylan is now rapidly getting big and hard, very big and very hard, (remember, at 19, Dylan is at his peak, sexually). Dylan desperately wants to get off. He does not even need to stroke his penis to do this, every fingertip touch on any part of his penis feels terrific to Dylan. All those penis nerve endings have suddenly come alive, and moreover, his balls are very sensitive to the touch. Not to mention those wonderful sensations coming from the balls and from the thong back in Dylan’s anal area, a body part Dylan had never before thought about as being sexually “active” until this all in combination.

Dylan quickly reaches orgasm level inside the thong and cums from the combination of all these sensations bearing on his mind and body. He ejaculates a huge amount of cum (both the strength of the orgasm and the amount of cum was somewhat surprising to Dylan, since he had gotten off in his cotton boxers only hours ago). Huge fun for Dylan for sure! “It’s really great to be a guy!”, Dylan thinks to himself.

Dylan soon cools down, and at that point he says to himself, “I will need to do laundry today, for sure!”

To be continued….

Time out: some questions for my readers.

1. If you could be one of the characters in my story, which one of the characters would you choose to be, shy and insecure Dylan, Bill, Joe, Tony, or Donovan, or perhaps Josh, who knows almost nothing about what is going on, at least so far?

2. Are you “affected” by what the characters are doing to themselves with the various gear they are getting into? If so, what particular gear item or items, affect you the most? If you consider yourself to be straight, if you have been affected by the story line, were you surprised that happened. I could explain farther about the definition of the term “affected”, but if you have read this far, you already know.


3. If you are a gay guy, do these stories give you any ideas for having fun with a partner? No one ever picked up an STD by engaging in solo sex, or for that matter, just by watching another guy engage in solo sex. As sexual activity goes, this is as safe as it gets.

4. Of the items in the Amazon orders, which would you most like to own? Based on the story line, are you contemplating making any specific purchases? If so, what items?


5. How would you deal with the dilemmas and issues now faced by Dylan, Joe and Bill? What, if anything would you say to Josh regarding what you have been doing with yourself? If Dylan says something to Josh, will Josh likely think Dylan is suddenly three fries short of a Happy Meal?

6. Pre-cum is a really interesting bodily fluid, about as interesting as it gets. Watching drops of the clear, viscous liquid form and then drip off the tip of the penis in long stringy strands is endlessly fascinating to watch, in part because what is happening there seems completely outside of any sort of mind control. Generally, you cannot “will” your body to pre-cum, nor can you will your body NOT to pre-cum. It just happens under the “right” or maybe “wrong” set of circumstances. Is just reading about other guys pre-cumming uncontrollably the “right” for you? Understanding the circumstances under which you pre-cum is basic to understanding how you are put together, sexually.


7. Even pre-cum collecting in the pouch of a thong or strap is way interesting. You may think it would disappear entirely when it dries, but it leaves a white stain very different from the starchy stains cum leaves. What happens exactly is easier to see on a darker-color pouch than on a white pouch. The stain seems almost plastic-like. I wore a black cotton thong to bed last night. The stain after the pre-cum dried was quite distinctive and about the size of a quarter dollar. Have you ever studied your own pre-cum stains?

8. Many of the sex and marriage manuals outline specific techniques for dealing with premature ejaculation, a common problem for guys. Generally, this means learning how to tolerate being sexually excited while not immediately getting off in a full orgasm. The items in the story are helpful in “training yourself” to deal with premature ejaculation. A few guys claim they never pre-cum? Do you claim to be one of these?


9. I already own many of the items nearly the same as I am writing about in the stories, but I am thinking of placing an order myself containing the exact same items, red singlet, Desmiit ® swim brief and thong, ProForce® strap and cup, Tesla® compression top and bottom in the same color Dylan chose. I already own an asics singlet in Forest green, so I have that one covered. I am hoping that this will help me in continuing the story line here.

Sebbie…

Dylan heads off to class…
 

Dylan finally manages to pull himself together after the events of the last couple of days and heads off to his 11 AM class, which is a medium-length walk (about ¾ of a mile) from the dorm. Truth is, Dylan’s mind only occasionally is focused on his class work for the day. Instead, Dylan keeps going over in his mind over and over the events of the past few days.

Dylan knows that there are still items in the Amazon order that he has made no attempt to even get into. He thinks to himself that Bill and Joe would not have been enthusiastic about ordering these items unless something (but what?) was up. Dylan thinks that Bill and Joe had an almost uncanny ability to find items on line that, for whatever reason, are going to be fun to wear.

Then another thought crosses Dylan’s mind. Dylan knew how to swim a little, but on his best days he considered himself to be only a fair swimmer. If he got tossed into a pool, Dylan could probably keep his head above water and keep from drowning, but that was about it.

Somewhere deep down in Dylan’s psyche, however, was a deep-seated fascination with male swimmers and divers, the real pool athletes. From an early age, maybe only 8 or 9, he was particularly fascinated by the guys who wore brief-style swimwear, and how that swimwear fit on their bodies. Of course, Dylan noticed what he thought was a rather large male bulge when these guys were in their suits. This bulge was exactly where Dylan’s penis and balls were, but, of course, at that age Dylan was much smaller.

A couple years later, when Dylan was in the midst of puberty, he discovered that the underside of his penis was much more sensitive to anything touching it there than was the top and sides. Dylan was starting to put two-and-two together, and along with this he noticed that some of the male swimmers he admired so much were clearly filling out all of the available space in their pouches, and, in order to make enough room, they were finding it necessary to place themselves in the “up” position.


Dylan soon had somehow figured out that if a guy is wearing a snug-fitting brief and positions his male anatomy that way, the stretchy-but-soft swimsuit material is going to be rubbing constantly across the guy’s penis underside. Dylan concluded that it would be difficult for any guy to deal with this, because by his own experiments, Dylan had learned how sensitive the underside of his penis was to anything touching or even brushing against it. To be sure, Dylan had pretty much concluded that the guys who did this looked to be already semi-erect. Dylan wondered how these guys kept from pre-cumming, leaving a what could quickly turn into an embarrassing quarter-sized (or even bigger) spot of pre-cum moisture on the front of the brief exactly where the tip of the guy’s penis appeared to be. All the more an issue given that these guys were wearing these suits in full public view. Maybe they just made their way into the pool water as soon as possible. A tricky situation to be sure, especially in public view.

No, Dylan’s mind today was wandering off in all sorts of places and certainly not on his class work with his usual intensity.


Normally, Dylan is a serious (A- or better) student, and intense about whatever he gets himself into. But today his mind was drifting back to the little Desmiit® brief in his dresser drawer in the dorm room. For the first time, Dylan was actually going to get to test out for himself some of his theories about how these other guys he admired coped with being in a skimpy swim brief, and exactly what would happen to his own body. But what would he do if Josh wanders in on him when he is trying on the brief? What would Josh say? For that matter, what would Dylan say? What kind of an explanation would at least sound a bit plausible? How would Josh react to all of this?


Part of what makes this interesting is that Dylan’s fascination with all of this, studying the male swimmer anatomy and all, might say something about Dylan’s own sexuality. If Josh sees Dylan wearing the little swim brief, will Josh immediately conclude that Dylan could very well be gay? There are all sorts of risks here for Dylan. But some questions that have been on Dylan’s mind for ages might ultimately soon get answered, too.


To be continued…

Dylan tries on his Desmiit® swim brief
 

At a very early age, maybe even before puberty, Dylan discovered that he had this “thing” for snug-fitting clothing of all kinds. At age 12, with puberty well underway, Dylan did not understand what this thing he had really was. He thought whatever it was, it was probably at least a little weird, and certainly nothing that he would share with his buddies that age. Sometimes he figured he might “outgrow” it, whatever it was. There was no practical way of finding out if his situation was unique to him or not. All he knew is that this thing was there. Dylan, however enthusiastic he was about getting his body inside of snug-fitting clothing, this was something that he needed to keep secret from everyone around him, parents, siblings, peers, lest any knowledge by anyone else would cause him problems of various sorts. The strangest part of this was that Dylan may have been right about his decision to keep this all to himself.


To be sure, Dylan’s options at age 14 were pretty limited, though by age 14 Dylan was old enough so that he was fully able to stay at home alone whenever his parents and siblings wanted to go out shopping or whatever and he said he had no reason he needed to go along.


But at age 14, Dylan didn’t have much in the way of snug-fitting clothing suitable for a quality jerk-off session. Dylan had learned a few stunts. At age 14, Dylan’s body was starting to grow rapidly, and he was quickly outgrowing clothing items that had fit him fine only 18 months ago. Dylan had always worn white cotton briefs, and he purposely kept a few pair in the bottom of his dresser drawer that were boys size 12 and that he had comfortably worn only 18 or 24 months ago. There were jeans he still had too that were now quite undersized.


When Dylan’s family was out and about, Dylan liked to pull these “secret “ items out of his dresser, and try them on. In reality, he was running “experiments” with the snug fit and feel. You can pretty well guess where these experiments led. At age 14, Dylan was soon erect and hard just getting into these items, and it wasn’t long before the items were stained with cum. Dylan was somehow intensely fascinated by all of this. The funny part was that the snugger the briefs quit, the more excited Dylan got. The cum-stained items needed to go somewhere, and they ended up in the little basket for laundry he had in his closet drawer. At first, mom still did the laundry. He wondered what his mom thought about this and if she noticed the starchy stains on the items when she sorted the laundry, but to his mom’s credit, she never said a word about all of this to Dylan. But soon, Dylan started using the family washing machine and dryer himself, so that eliminated the possibility that his mom would be alerted to what Dylan was actually doing to himself when he was home alone. Dylan’s undersized white cotton briefs became real masturbation “friends” for Dylan when he was growing up.

When Dylan first encountered Bill and Joe wearing their compression gear (not to mention the straps and cups) in the Dorm hallway that night, alarm bells went off. It suddenly dawned on Dylan that there were items out there that would be far more “satisfying” to wear that undersized white cotton briefs. That is why Dylan jumped at the opportunity to be a part of the Amazon order when the opportunity presented itself.


But, now back to the present. Dylan is trying on his little Desmiit® brief, the two-color blue-and green one that was part of the Amazon® order. Dylan knew that there was going to be little space for his stuff in that suit even if the waist size was OK, but that was part of the appeal. Dylan had just gotten into the swim brief and was looking at himself in the mirror. He had hoped that his penis could be in the “down” position but that wasn’t going to work. With penis in the down position, the back of the suit went way lower, revealing a bit of a butt crack at the center top of the back. That was definitely not going to work. Dylan needed to make adjustment. But worse, with all of this going on, Dylan felt himself starting to get hard and erect. So as he tried to adjust himself, what he needed to make space for was gradually getting bigger, creating ever more of a problem. Dylan managed to put himself in an “up” position, and that felt really good to Dylan, with the underside of his penis rubbing up against the slick suit material, certainly better and more interesting than anything he had ever experienced wearing undersized cotton briefs. Dylan had managed to work himself up to the point where he would soon no longer be able to hold back on the urge to come. All of this was messing with Dylan’s body and mind.


But at that very moment, Dylan hears the dorm room door lock click, and suddenly Dylan’s roommate Josh is back in the room, staring at him.


Josh was taken aback, seeing Dylan clad only in that tiny Desmiit brief, penis up, and obviously at least somewhat erect. On seeing Dylan clad this way, Josh’s mouth dropped wide open.


Josh was wondering what he should say. The only thing he could think of saying was “That’s a nifty pair of skivvies you have on there, Dylan”


Dylan thought this comment was funny. Who uses the word “nifty” any more let alone, “skivvies”?


Dylan needed to respond some way. The only thing he could think os saying was “These are not underwear. This is a swimming suit.”

Josh responded: “Not much room for your ‘stuff’ in there, is there?”


Dylan at this point had a tiny gleam in his eyes, and he smiled and said “I guess not, I’m finding that out and that is part of my ‘problem’!”

To be continued…

Josh watches casually even as Dylan struggles with his new swim brief
 

If the truth be known, Josh felt a little bit uncomfortable accidentally walking into the dorm room with Dylan in the situation he was in. It wasn’t as if Josh walked in on Dylan completely nude and masturbating (now that would have been very embarrassing for Dylan and certainly uncomfortable for Josh), but still, there was a bit of that element going on. Dylan certainly did not expect that Josh would be showing up as soon as he did, but one of Josh’s classes had a short lecture.


Teenage boys growing up quickly learn how to be experts at figuring out when they will be completely alone, and schedule what they want to do in an effort to minimize the possibility that someone will pop in on them unexpectedly. Usually this all works very well (good parents realize that teen males need their times of privacy), but this can also become a difficult issue.


If you think the situation Dylan is in right now is, well, interesting, Josh is in an equally interesting situation, in part because he does not know if he should just watch Dylan and try a conversation as if nothing at all is going on with Dylan, or whether he should think up some dumb excuse for leaving the room for a while longer in which case Dylan would have time to get out of the suit and back into his regular jeans and tee.


Josh quickly decides to stay and simply carry on a conversation with Josh as if nothing is the least bit strange or odd, but just a normal situation that happens to roommates in the dorm room. After all, Josh has seen Dylan fully unclothed in the room and in particular in the shower many times, and that was ok. The dorm, like many aging college dormitories built in the 1960s and 70s that still provide relatively cheap housing for beginning undergraduates, and still have what are basically open gang showers with multiple shower heads in a big bathroom way down the hall, and no semi-private bathroom provisions connected to a more modern suite of 2 or 3 rooms. Guys see each other nude in the showers every day, and quickly get to the point where they think absolutely nothing of it, or so it may seem. (But this also means that any opportunity for jerking off in the shower is limited too! All of this casual male nudity comes as a bit of a surprise for freshman students who, when they were in high school, were afraid to shower nude in the locker room after their high-school gym class). In these male college dormitories, university housing simply assumes that every male living there is completely straight and quite OK with being nude in the presence of other male students.


Josh quickly realizes, of course, that Dylan is in a slightly different “condition” than he is ordinarily, but Josh thinks the best strategy is to just act as if he hadn’t noticed this.

Josh begins a conversation with Dylan even as he can see that Dylan is still struggling with how to position his penis in a now not-very-accommodating swim brief pouch.


Josh: Do you intend to wear that suit down at the pool at the gym up the street?


Dylan: That was what I was thinking, but I need to see if the suit fits me at all, first!


Josh dives right in…: “What is your problem with that, Dylan?”


Dylan: “Can’t you see? I’m having difficulty fitting all my stuff into the suit. There is not a lot of room in here at all. This is embarrassing!”


Of course, Josh could see very well what the problem was. Josh could also clearly see that if Dylan were not quite so erect and hard, it would be far easier for him to fit his stuff comfortably into his suit as the suit pouch is constructed. A basic problem Dylan has is that his stuff would fit into the suit much more easily if he was not so sexually aroused, and he definitely needs to breathe deeply and just calm down for this to all to begin to work.


But remember, the idea just trying on a skimpy swim brief has been a fantasy for Dylan going all the way back to when he was only 11 or 12 years old, a fantasy that he was never able to play out in real life until now. Dylan thinks that other guys may very well have similar issues to what he is now having. But maybe similar fantasies about wearing snug-fitting swim briefs are rare for guys. Dylan just doesn’t know. All Dylan knows is how his own brain and body is reacting to the situation at hand. Dylan doesn’t quite know what to make of having Josh right there watching his struggle under the circumstances.


Why did Josh stick around? That is an interesting question. Like Dylan, Josh had always thought of himself as perfectly straight, and sexually interested only in girls (or women, now that Josh is in college.) But when Josh saw what Dylan was doing, or at least attempting to do, something in Josh’s brain said “I want to see this!”. Is that a gay response? Who knows! What is happening may be evidence to support the claim that nearly every perfectly-straight guy has buried somewhere, some situations that involve at least observing another male in a sexually aroused state, and the situation Dylan was in certainly fit that, at least for Josh.


What are the specifics of that? Nearly every guy understands that the underside of his penis is the especially sensitive side. Further, putting a penis in the “up” position in a snug swim brief exposes the underside of the penis to the slick-feeling material of the brief, which, of course, feels really good.


Even more interesting is that as a guy gets a little hard in this position, the underside of his glans area at the very tip of the penis is also quite apparent inside the brief. The vast majority of guys this age already realize that from the standpoint of getting off, this is a hugely sensitive little spot, great fun to touch and stroke, and that the sensations quickly become quite intense, almost unbearably so.


Seeing Dylan obviously in this condition inside the little swimming brief is having its affect on Josh’s brain and body. Josh, being straight, is not thinking about touching Dylan there, but merely thinking that if he were in the situation Dylan is in, he would be dealing with the same or at least very similar issues.


Josh, in his street clothing just watching Dylan in the situation he is in and standing there observing Dylan, is now starting to have issues of his own. Josh first suddenly feels a slight sensation of tension in his own groin area. This is quickly followed by a slight feeling of wetness in his underwear right at the tip of Josh’s own penis. Dylan, of course, sees none of this. Josh is wondering what this all means. Josh realizes that he is starting to get aroused just watching another guy who is apparently aroused and struggling with his arousal.


Deeply buried is that Josh is greatly envious of Dylan and his situation right now. The fact that Dylan is clearly aroused is having its affect on Josh. What could this all mean, for goodness sakes? Is Josh still a normal straight guy, or would other normal straight guys have the same issue in a situation like this?


To be continued…

Awesome
 

Sebbie, you got me so hot - wish there was more here to read!! Please keep it up. I remember those days like yesterday.

So, what happened was…
 

From Dylan’s perspective, getting his body into a tiny swim brief has been even more interesting and fun that as a teenager he had thought it would be. He found himself getting hard almost instantly, but so far at least, he has managed to maintain enough ejaculatory control so that he has not created a mess in the brief by ejaculating in powerful bursts all over the place. Deep down, Dylan sees his ability to do this is something of an accomplishment, while still having a lot of questions about how the serious lap swimmers can manage to do this while wearing skimpy swim brief out at public pools. Dylan continues to still have a lot of questions about all of this.


In some ways, Dylan was lucky that Josh just happened to pop in the room when he did. Josh’s sudden appearance distracted Dylan just a bit with respect to thinking about the predicament Dylan’s penis was in as he adjusted himself and the location of his penis in the brief. Guys are really interesting, because once they are erect and hard, without any distractions, the urge to ejaculate quickly reaches a critical level, the level at which the urge becomes unbearable, and suddenly the ability being able to stop or even delay the ejaculation becomes impossible.


But a mental distraction, any distraction (say the clicking sound of a key being inserted into a door lock) can easily be enough of a distraction such that the immediate urge to ejaculate subsides as quickly as it happened. So Josh’s arrival in the room when he did ended up delaying or even stopping for now something that may have almost certainly occurred, otherwise.


Most teen guys believe that part of being straight means not being sexually aroused just seeing another guy his age in an obviously aroused state let alone masturbating or ejaculating. Josh thought that being straight meant that he would not be aroused just seeing another guy in that state. In fact, his male classmates in high school seemed to believe that if he ever got in a time or place where he inadvertently saw another guy who was aroused or masturbating, he should find looking at the other guy to be downright sickening and very much a sexual turn-off (now watching a woman in that state is another matter entirely!). To be sure, Josh had never actually been in a real situation like this involving another male in his entire life, and Josh therefore had no actual knowledge about how his mind and body would react, that is, until he accidentally wandered in on Dylan.


Josh quickly figured out what was going on, and more interestingly, Josh was not in the least bit uncomfortable with what he was quietly observing with regard to Dylan’s current condition. In fact, quite the opposite. Josh quickly realized that Dylan was clearly enjoying himself in a sexual way, and the fun that Dylan was having getting into the brief was infectious. As Josh studied Dylan’s situation and couldn’t help but thinking about what was happening, Josh’s own body autonomously started to respond as well. Josh thought this was more than a little strange. After all, Josh was not getting into a snug swim brief himself, but merely standing there in his jeans and tee shirt. Nothing sexy about that, and yet Josh could definitely feel his penis starting to act up. There were sensations Josh was familiar with, a slight sensation of tensioning or tightening in the groin area, plus a tell-tale few drops of pre-cum forming in his underwear right at the tip of his penis, though nothing that showed on his jeans, at least not immediately. Josh was thankful for that, as he was concerned how Dylan would react if Dylan knew that Josh was starting to get aroused just watching Dylan.


Dylan, however, was in worse shape in this regard. It was obvious to Josh now that Dylan had been pre-cumming, and not in small amounts. There were several small damp stains running up the center of Dylan’s new swim brief in the exact places where his penis tip is, or had recently been. Josh knew full well what had happened to Dylan, in part because the same thing was now happening to Josh, but inside his jeans and underwear.


Maybe my readers are expecting for Dylan to soon ejaculate with powerful bursts of semen, with Josh following Dylan inside his jeans while Josh was still fully clothed. But that is not what happened.


What actually happened was that Dylan calmed down without even getting off. Dylan quickly slipped out of the swim brief and into a loose-fitting pair of cotton boxer shorts. The pressure and urge to ejaculate almost immediately dissipated. Josh too calmed down almost as soon as he realized that for now at least, Dylan had reverted back to being an ordinary college freshman. So nothing actually happened.


Well, not quite. For Dylan, the experience of the last 45 minutes created a situation that would be replayed countless times in Dylan’s head as daydreams, and likely as part of the plot of nighttime dreams as well.


And Josh got to thinking that maybe it was not such a bad idea to own a swim brief like Dylan had. Owning one of these can be interesting fun even if you never intend to swim, or even be seen wearing one outside your dorm room!


To be continued…

Meanwhile, for Bill and Joe…
 

Bill and Joe had both crawled into their dorm room twin beds wearing their new thongs with their snug-fitting wrestling singlets over. They were both dressed like what the College rowing team members Tony and Donovan were wearing when they were working out on the stationary rowing machines over at the College gym.

To be sure, Bill had never before worn thong underwear, and like a lot of American guys, he was quite apprehensive about how he would react to the rear of the thong cinching up snugly between his butt cheeks. This is very different underwear from the boxer shorts or boxer briefs most American males wear, and Bill knew that.

Turns out, initially on getting into the thong Bill did think that the sensations he was feeling, particularly from the thong back, were somewhat uncomfortable. Not to mention the issues he initially had in getting both his penis and balls inside of the thong, which can be tricky especially for first-time thong wearers. After a bit of a struggle, Bill did get himself into what he thought was the correct position inside the thong. Of course, adding the wrestling singlet over the top makes all of this more, well, interesting for sure. For starters, the thong tends to push the guy’s male body parts upward and forward, even as the singlet bears down on the same area. Some guys would find this to be quite uncomfortable. Bill examined himself in the mirror and it was very clear from what Bill saw where his anatomy was positioned inside the singlet. Bill remembered Tony and Donovan looking much the same way over at the gym.

I guess that most guys prefer a loose fit around their anatomy as their sleepwear. Why this seems to be true has to do with male biology. Every 19-year old guy, Bill included, knows that his penis goes through natural cycles of erection and flaccidity during the night. For young dudes more than a single cycle is commonplace if not the norm. These erection cycles often seem to be fed by very active dreams usually with a sexual theme. Exactly what happens to a 19-year old guy on any given night is tough to predict. The term “wet dream” suggests that young guys often conclude one of these erection cycles that happen at the night with a powerful orgasm, even while the guy is still sound asleep. Whatever the plotline was in the dream precipitates the orgasm. The guy doesn’t wake up until after the orgasm has happened, messing up the boxer shorts and sheets. If all of this happens towards morning, then the guy has the problem of how to get out of bed with wet cum-stains all over his boxers. Tricky stuff for sure.

But, guys who frequently have wet dreams quickly learn that it is a lot more fun to wake up at some point and just enjoy the orgasm. Maybe even grab a facial tissue to collect the semen in an effort to make less of a mess on the boxer shorts and sheets. The tricky part is figuring out how to do this without drawing attention to yourself by your roommate who is supposedly sleeping only a few feet away. But meanwhile your roommate, unless he is brain dead, is probably facing a very similar problem. Nighttime erection cycles seem to occur over and over, and the only way to make them stop for awhile is to get off. That calms everything down, at least somewhat.

To make things ever worse, (or, depending on your mind set, better), both Bill and Joe are messing with what their bodies will do during these normal wet dream cycles by wearing the thongs and singlets to bed, and then trying to sleep in something that is quite snug-fitting. As the penis becomes erect, something has to give for sure. All the cloth bears down on the now-erect penis, and the penis does what penises love to do, just enjoying the moment of being contained inside all of this stuff and responding by getting still bigger and longer.

Under this situation the guy is probably not going to stay sleeping. There is just too much interesting stuff going on. A guy’s balls are going to seem especially sensitive and fun to touch, just by pressing lightly using the fingertips. The penis is having an interesting time for sure just trying to find enough space inside the pouch to expand. And the expansion of the penis inside the pouch tends to cinch up the rear of the thong even tighter, putting more upward pressure on that ultra-sensitive perineum area. All of this inside the singlet seems maybe a bit.

At some point, Bill starts to wonder if Joe in the bed only a few feet away is experiencing the same things that Bill is enjoying, and Bill is wondering also if Joe is enjoying the entire situation as much as Bill is enjoying himself. Suddenly, what Tony and Donovan were doing at the gym becomes completely clear.

To be continued….

On straps and cups...
 

I wanted Dylan to experience some of the same sensations that I have enjoyed over the years wearing a snug-fitting athletic supporter and cup as part of his sleepwear. A basic problem I faced is that it is becoming more and more difficult to find an appropriate old school strap and cup similar in design to the ones I have found to be fun to wear over the years. So I did some on-line searching and found something that looked very close to the old school designs, from a company called ProForce® that caters to a martial arts clientele. This strap and cup is also relatively inexpensive as protective groin gear goes ($12 for the cup and strap). I was curious if I had ordered the right one so I had to order the same as Dylan would have ordered.

A lot of young males just past puberty, are very fearful of being in a situation where they are required to wear a strap and cup. The two common sports would be Pee-Wee baseball and anything involving martial arts. While being wear of the need for groin protection in these sports, deep down the guys are worried about how their bodies will react to being confined inside a cup and strap. “What happens if I start to get hard inside of that?” is the common question that none of the guys dare to even articulate.

Jock-strap manufacturers, realizing this issue affects sales, have responded to all of this with a variety of products designed to address the issue, starting with the bigger “banana style cups” that are roomy enough so that your anatomy, even somewhat erect, has ample space to grow. We also see compression shorts with pouches for cups etc. all designed deep down to allay fears regarding what will happen if I have to wear a snug-fitting traditional strap with an equally snug-fitting cup. Traditional (old-school) strap sales have been declining for ages, probably largely because of increasing apprehension by teen-agers about wearing one and what might happen.

What Dylan discovered in a previous chapter is the same thing that I discovered years ago, which, simply put, is having your penis and balls inside a snug-fitting cup and strap can be a fun thing, assuming you aren’t trying to keep your mind focused on a baseball game or a martial arts competitive event.

Penises do what penises do. Penises seem to have almost a mind of their own with respect to understanding when they are in a confined space, space that limits the ability to grow and get hard at the same time. At age 19, Dylan has discovered this too. But penises are also capable of providing the guy with the most wonderful sensations imaginable once they are in that situation. So a strap and cup like the ProForce can become a wonderful toy for playing with yourself and also learning how your mind and body responds to having your penis in a confined space. Attempting to sleep in one of these gets you into a situation where your penis will go into its normal phases of erection and flaccidity during the night. Combine this with a dream with sexual overtones and the guy quickly gets into a situation like Bill and Joe were in a number of chapters ago. This is all great fun, but I can also see where it could be a bit scary for a young teen-age male. Dylan right now is just working his way through all of that.

Me? I long ago lost my fears, and I like to undersize the strap and cup, for maximum sensations. I went with the “Youth Large” size rather than the “Men’s Small” in large measure because the Youth cups are smaller and therefore more confining. I usually get the best results with the Youth-sized cups.

If you are new to all of this, the ProForce ® is a great strap for someone just beginning to experiment with his body. In the process, a guy will learn a lot about developing ejaculatory control as well, useful when you face all sorts of different partner-related situations in later life. You can learn as Dylan learns. Will this work for my readers? That is a good question, but I would not be writing this if I did not believe it would!

To be continued…

Dylan’s mind wanders
 

Dylan has been learning a lot of really interesting stuff lately about his own body and how his body responds in a sexual way to various situations it is experiencing. Some of what Dylan has been experiencing seems all but outside the control of his own brain, and Dylan finds this most surprising, to say the least. The experiments Dylan has been running have been both fun and interesting from a perspective of pure science and how guys are wired from a sexual perspective. Dylan’s only real concern is that he is not sure whether he dares say anything about what he has been doing with and to himself.

When Dylan was 12, he worried a lot about somehow “damaging” himself by playing around in this fashion. Practically every guy that age probably has these worries and concerns at that age. But now that Dylan is 19, and technically an adult, these concerns have evaporated. Of course, as a young high school student, the entire subject of engaging in solo sex (jerking off or masturbation) was strictly off limits, not only from the perspective of being embarrassed about saying anything, but more importantly, being labeled as a “jerk-off” is a key element of teasing and bullying for young males. So the entire subject is off limits for young teens, teens who quickly learn that if they are going to enjoy themselves in this way, they had better do it in secrecy for a bunch of different reasons.

Dylan, now 19 and a college freshman with a male roommate, Josh, is not quite sure if or how the rules he followed as a young teenager with respect to masturbation still apply, or if things have gotten a bit looser overall in this regard. Some college freshmen males still brag about their conquests on weekend dates with females, just as the more sexually aggressive males did in high school. Though for others, this seems to be changing too, especially for the college guys who have paired up with a specific someone as opposed to just engaging in partner sex on the weekends. But this change does not mean that college freshmen now comfortable getting together with each other to compare masturbation techniques, either.

Still, the events of recent weeks have affected Dylan in profound new ways, that is for certain. This started that evening when Dylan run into Bill and Joe wandering down the dorm hallway to the men’s room clad in their Lycra gear with straps and cups underneath. Dylan could hardly believe what was right in front of him. Why were Bill and Joe doing this? More importantly, how could Bill and Joe be wearing gear like this WITHOUT getting aroused and hard? An if that was indeed what was happening, how were Bill and Joe coping with the sensations they were experiencing, the sensations that nearly had to be happening given what they were wearing.

Then there was that encounter at the student gym where Bill and Joe were wearing the same gear and seemed to be enjoying themselves immensely. Then the discussion with the rowers Tony and Donovan wearing their rowing singlet, and, they admitted, thongs underneath. Then there was the big Amazon® order that Dylan was a part of. One way of looking at this was that Bill and Joe simply needed some new gym gear. But that way ignores what had been becoming increasingly obvious to Dylan: The items were chosen not simply because of the need for gym gear, but instead they were picking out specific items that would be fun to wear as part of experiments in solo sex.

Of course, Dylan’s brain was very much geared to the same thing. Since even before puberty, Dylan had been fascinated with snug-fitting clothing and especially clothing that felt pleasant against his penis. Dylan knew that very well: In fact, it was part of his very being, as in who Dylan was as a guy. But until he got to college, Dylan had never really had the opportunity to act on a lot of this. Bill and Joe provided Dylan with an opportunity to pursue this at a level that he had not been to before, and for that Dylan was very thankful in a host of different ways.

Dylan was still struggling with respect to what he could reveal about all of this to his roommate Josh. Josh could be operating under the old High School “rules” with regard to the entire subject of solo sex. Josh might see any interest in solo sex on Dylan’s part as an indication that he somehow ended up with a gay roommate. Or maybe not! At the other end of the spectrum, Josh might be just as interested in playing with himself in this way as Dylan is. In which case, he would be looking not only to being more open with Dylan on the entire subject, but perhaps even building his own collection of items along the lines that he is seeing Dylan have.

Still, Dylan realizes very clearly that while solo sex may present some issues, these are very different issues and often less complicated and messy issues than those that must be dealt with by college students in partner sex. Dylan thinks that sometimes sex can be really fun and enjoyable without having to worry about a partner and partner issues.

Now Dylan’s mind is sorting through the items that he obtained in the Amazon® order. Dylan was particularly fascinated by how that little ProForce® strap and cup looked and felt on him. The other big item that Dylan had yet to try was The bright lime yellow Tesla® gear, both the snug-fitting compression tee, and, of course, those Tesla shorts. Josh is off to class, and Dylan decides to fit himself into the strap and cup once again. He pulls on the tee, and then the tight compression shorts over the strap and cup.

Ahhhhh, Dylan says, what a feeling of that hard cup brushing up against his penis, firmly held in place by the compression shorts. Already, Dylan can sense the pre cum forming inside the cup at the tip of his penis. Dylan glances at himself in the dorm room mirror. The compression shorts are transparent enough, and tight enough such that Dylan can easily see the leg straps and the cup under the sexy yellow-green shorts. It’s a look and fell Dylan has never before experienced, and Dylan loves it.

Suddenly, Dylan hears the click of a key in the dorm room lock. It’s Josh, back from a class that let out a few minutes early. And there is Dylan, standing there in his lime yellow compression tee and shorts, with the strap and cup clearly visible underneath. Dylan is going to need to figure out something to say to Josh, and in a hurry!

To be continued…

Dylan and Josh have a “Frank” Conversation
 

On first opening the door and seeing Dylan standing there is his snug-fitting lime yellow Tesla® compression gear, Josh’s mouth dropped wide open. Of course, this was not a complete surprise in part because Josh had already seen Dylan in the dorm room clad in his forest green wrestling singlet. Josh had figured out that Dylan was at least a bit fascinated with snug-fitting gear like the wrestling singlet Josh saw him wearing the other day.

But this was at least a little different. First, there was the bright Lime yellow Tesla color, certainly there to be noticed. But, if anything, the Tesla gear fit even tighter and snugger than the forest green asics singlet. But the material was different too, as in more transparent. To see that Dylan was wearing a strap and cup under the singlet took some doing as that was not obvious. But with the semi-transparent Tesla color, it was quite (perhaps painfully) apparent to Josh that Dylan was wearing a strap and cup (and ONLY a strap and cup) underneath the gear. Plus, Josh thought Dylan looked, well, fabulous in this gear, maybe even “cute”.

For Josh, that thought was more than a little bit scary. Josh wasn’t quite sure how he should deal with his thoughts at this point. Was this some kind of a deeply buried gay streak smoldering inside Josh? Or, would nearly any normal guy react the same way, or similarly, to seeing Dylan clad in his new gear. And what, for goodness sakes, was going on in Dylan’s mind?

Josh really had two choices. He could either quickly duck out of the room, immediately feigning some excuse with Dylan about the need to run an errand, or he could stick the situation out, and see in more detail what Dylan was doing. A lot of guys, maybe most guys, would have made option number 1. A lot of guys get just terrified of any situation, however innocent, that could be construed in any way to lead into homosexual thoughts. Interestingly, Josh chose the latter route, to stick it out, and that decision alone tells the reader a lot about Josh. Whatever his sexual feelings about guys versus women, buried or not, Josh’s choice was not to simply run away from the situation at hand.

Josh is not brain dead for sure. At some level Josh had to realize that what Dylan was doing was a form of solo-sex play of some sort. Josh couldn’t believe that Dylan was not at some level sexually aroused in the tight-and snug gear he was wearing. The strap and cup just added to the “mystery” of what might really be going on in Dylan’s mind and body right now. This is a most interesting situation. Many, perhaps most guys have been in situations where they had to realize that another guy was sexually turned on and aroused. How guys deal with that realization is always interesting.
A lot of guys probably get aroused themselves when they realize what is happening to the other guy, and that is where the decision is often made to make a quick exit, for fear that whatever is happening is a latent “gay” response. The male reader at this point might ask himself what he would do under a similar circumstance to the one Josh is in right now. Would you run away as quickly as possible, or step back and “enjoy the moment” along with Dylan?

Josh has to know that Dylan’s penis is completely contained inside the snug-fitting hard cup. Josh can see through the semi-transparent Tesla compression gear. And Josh is fully aware of what would happen to his own penis faced with similar circumstances.

Josh chooses to start the conversation:

Josh: “Great-looking gear you have on there, Dylan. You look great!”

Dylan: “These are a couple more items from the Amazon® order I hope to wear to the gym. I really like the fit and feel.”

Josh: “I can see you are wearing a strap and cup underneath.”

Dylan: “Is that obvious? Truth is, Bill and Joe got me on to that idea as they were wearing straps and cups under their compression gear.”

Josh: “But isn’t that, well, somewhat confining?”

Dylan “But that is part of the fun, so to speak”

Josh “What do you mean?”

Dylan; “I could explain what is going on with me in detail, but promise me you won’t be offended if I get blunt with you.”

Josh: “OK, tell me, and I promise to not get offended.”

Dylan: “Well, I’m sure you must realize that penises do not always stay the same size. They can easily get bigger or smaller.”

Josh “Yes, I know that :-)”

Dylan: “But hard jock cups do not adjust and simply stay the same size no matter what. This means that if my penis gets bigger for some reason inside the cup, it will just press harder against the sides of the cup.”

Josh: “But your compression shorts are holding the cup firmly against your groin, so there is no room for expansion.”

Dylan: “You certainly have got that one figured out.”

Josh: “But, doesn’t that quickly become uncomfortable?”

Dylan: “Well no, not really :-)”

Josh: “You mean, the sensations you get are enjoyable fun?”

Dylan: “Yup. Bill and Joe are the guys who taught me that part. They seem to be the real experts on the subject. They have been playing around with this themselves for several weeks. The stories they can tell!”

At this point Dylan is streaming sticky, viscous drops of pre-cum inside his jock cup. But more interestingly still, Josh has started to produce pre-cum as well inside his white cotton briefs., just thinking about the details of the situation Dylan was in, mind and body.

Josh finally gets the nerve to blurt out: “Dylan, I would like to try exactly what you are doing.”

Dylan: “But first, Josh, you will need some gear, specifically a strap, a cup, and some snug compression shorts.”

Now here is the dilemma. Dylan COULD lend Josh his gear. The compression shorts or wrestling singlet might not be that big of an issue, but for maximum fun, Josh needs to be wearing a strap with as small a cup as his body can reasonably “tolerate”. Dylan COULD remove his strap and cup and give it to Josh to “try on”, but, for the moment at least the pouch is stained with Dylan’s viscous, sticky pre-cum. Sharing Dylan’s strap and cup with Josh right now may be just too “gay” of a move for either of them at this point. Dylan wonders if he has perhaps already stepped “over the line” in his conversation with Josh.

Still, far from being angry with Dylan, Josh seems more than a little enthusiastic and maybe potentially turned on just by the thought of being in the situation Dylan was enjoying. What does this all mean, for goodness sakes? Would not many, if not most guys act just like Josh has been acting? Or is this some sort of latent gay behavior that has suddenly come alive in Josh’s being?

Dylan says to Josh: “ can see I need to take you on a shopping trip, much like Bill and Joe helped me along in the process.”

Josh: “Dylan, I would like that. At least I THINK I would like that!”

Josh’s initial anxiety about the entire situation seems to have largely evaporated.

To be continued…

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As the World Turns
 

Josh and Dylan have very obviously moved a step forward in how they see each other both as roommates and as friends. Indeed, just being a college freshman puts guys in all sorts of situations that were considered off-limits as under age high school students. Of course, some high schoolers do end up engaging in activities that their parents, teachers and other adults would consider to be off limits for an underage teenager. All sorts of stuff falls into the category of things that teenagers might do without their parent’s knowledge or approval…Sexual activity of various sorts involving a teenage girl might be one example, but we could also list things like alcoholic beverage consumption and other activities teenagers are not supposed to be doing.

But Josh and Dylan are both 19, and now considered to be young adults, and further, young adults considered responsible enough such that their parents are not observing their every move. Having said that, they have managed to get off into territory that they themselves (and most other high school males) would have considered to be strictly off limits as younger teenagers. For starters, most teenage males guard carefully anything that would suggests to any of their peers that they ever engage in solo sex. To leave any indication otherwise in this regard is to leave yourself open to near instant teasing and bullying.

Related to this is the basic idea that the only teen male socially acceptable indication a guy can provide to peers is the basic idea that he is turned on by a certain girl his age. But then, whoever the girl is might become very upset if she manages to learn somehow that a guy is talking about her in this manner to his male peers in high school. So guys quickly learn that the best strategy is to say absolutely nothing at all about anything sexual at all, whether or not a girl is involved, but in particular if whatever it is involves some sort of a solo sex activity.

That is part of what makes the situation for Josh and Dylan so intriguing right now. Obviously, the various clothing items Dylan picked out were chosen specifically because they have a good chance of making Dylan feel horny and needing desperately to jerk off. And, I might add, the various items have been doing a pretty good job of exactly that. Some of this is obviously physical, but some of this has a psychological component as well. Heck,

Dylan doesn’t like to admit this, but he got turned on by just seeing Bill and Joe in their gear wandering down the dorm hallway a few weeks ago. Dylan has been uneasy about this in part because he is unsure if this arousal that came about from observing other males was, in essence, a “gay” response, and that this could mean that he is not as straight as he only recently thought he was.

Heck, Bill and Joe went through this stage as well and maybe are still going through it. There has been something both psychological and physical that has been “pulling” Dylan along. After all, Dylan jumped at the chance to participate in the big Amazon® order with Bill and Joe, and he had to know that they were choosing items that were being picked out in large measure because they would be a turn-on for solo sex. Goodness! This would have NEVER happened in high school for sure. But Dylan is now wondering where all of this fits in the entire scheme of adult male sexuality.

What happens if Dylan subsequently meets a girl he likes a lot? Does this mean he will no longer get aroused when he gets into his special gear? And what if this special girl discovers, perhaps inadvertently, about this aspect of Dylan’s sexual behavior? How will she react? In anger? In amusement? A lot of girls grow up thinking that they are and will be the only source of sexual pleasure their guy could ever want or need, and if a guy is caught pleasuring himself solo in any way that is a negative mark on them as a female and their own sex appeal. This can easily get to be very messy stuff both emotionally and psychologically. It almost can become just another version of what the guy went through in high school with both his parents and peers.

Anyhow, Josh has pretty well already figured out what Dylan is up to with his various clothing items. There is no need to Dylan to explain this in more detail using words, even if Dylan could get up the nerve to do so. Josh knows because his body is telling him how he would respond (or maybe responding) to the situation Dylan is in. Dylan has already volunteered to help Josh with some shopping, and Josh has indicated that he is more than OK with that. All of this other weighty stuff that needs to be sorted through can wait for another day. Josh and Dylan remain roommates and buddies, closer now than before, given the entire sequence of events.

To be continued….

Dylan finds another package
 

There was one more item in Dylan’s Amazon order that he had not yet explored, a tiny plastic envelope packet that had come directly from China, several days after the main order. Dylan had been having so much fun trying on and then masturbating while wearing the other items, that he had almost forgotten about the little packet now in his possession and at he very bottom of his closet dresser drawer. He hadn’t even cut open the packet yet, to reveal the contents. Dylan knew the packet contained a pair of thong underwear under the Desmiit® brand label, but otherwise he didn’t know quite what to expect. After all, he had never before owned or worn a pair of thong underwear before. This is certainly not something a high school student, living at home, would ever have in his possession. But Dylan was now 19 years old, and living away from home.

Dylan cut open the mail packet, and examined the thong. The first thing he noticed is that the thong was not very big at all, indeed tiny. Dylan had tried on the Desmiit® swim brief, and he pretty much thought that was about as small as this sort of stuff ever got for a guy, but he was surprised to discover that the thong was even smaller than the swim brief, a lot smaller, and with basically no back at all except for a narrow elastic back.

Then Dylan noticed something else about the thong that was unlike the swim brief. The front of the thong had a pouch, a quite large pouch, at least in comparison with the size of the rest of the thong. The cut of the cotton pouch was, well, interesting, to say the least, quite interesting.

By now, Dylan was at least somewhat erect just thinking about all of this and how his body might fit wearing the thong with its outsized pouch. There was something driving Dylan at this point that made him want to get into the thong just to see what the fit and feel would be like. It had to be unlike anything Dylan had ever worn before.

Dylan pulled off his clothes and pulled on the thong. Once he was inside the thong, he quickly discovered why many guys are fascinated with wearing something like this. The situation he was in seemed uncomfortable at first. A lot of guys, Dylan included, are invariably apprehensive about having the back of a thong cut between their glutes in what ends up being a quite sensitive area, and Dylan was certainly no exception in this regard. Dylan managed to take a deep breath and went for it. He quickly “settled down,” at least in that regard.

But there were other feelings and sensations for which to contend. Of course, a properly-fitting thong puts upward pressure on the perineum area, a very sensitive, often erotic spot with lots of nerve endings terminating just behind the scrotum. And the Desmiit® thong feels quite good in this regard. Proper positioning on the thong on Dylan’s body will push Dylan’s scrotum up and forward. Once again, this can at first feel uncomfortable not erotic, but these initially-uncomfortable sensations quickly morph into something quite pleasant and erotic.

Then, there is the pouch itself. The pouch needs to be just big enough to contain Dylan’s penis and balls, but not too big or loose. On the Desmiit thong, the pouch is sewn in a most interesting way, designed not only top hold the entire scrotum, but also just the right amount room so that the penis is worn forward not up, down, or sideways.

Let’s assume that Dylan by now is at least semi-erect as a consequence of getting into his new thong, (which, unless he is completely brain-dead, he will be by now. So Dylan’s penis at this point is at least somewhat hard and pointing straight forward in the thong, even as Dylan is feeling the sensations of the thong back cutting between his glutes and the upward pressure of the thong just behind his scrotum as well. The more erect Dylan gets, the more the thong pulls between the glutes and upward in the perineum area. Those sensations while getting bigger and bigger is part of the fun for sure.

The thong pouch pushes Dylan’s penis so it is pointing nearly straight forward from inside the thong. Even more interesting, the underside of Dylan’s penis is quite accessible, if Dylan decides that he needs to stroke or otherwise play with the sensitive underside of his penis. This is a terrific “predicament for a guy’s most sensitive parts to be in for sure. This is just a great opportunity for a guy to enjoy the sensations his mind and body are capable of producing. Dylan is certainly no exception in this regard. In fact, Dylan is completely “hooked” on what he is experiencing in his mind and body right now. It occurs to Dylan that it would be fin to put his Tesla® compression shorts on right over the thong. With Dylan’s penis being as hard as it is, and pressing forward against the short, it should appear as a really neat “button”. Dylan pulls on the Tesla® shorts and looks at himself in the mirror. WOW!

To be continued…..

Dylan thinks...
 

Dylan has been doing a lot of thinking lately, both about where his live has gone as a guy so far and where it appears to be headed now that he is officially a young adult in college.

Ever since the dawn of puberty, maybe even a bit before, Dylan was always fascinated by clothing that fit him snug in the groin. It is at puberty that most guys quickly learn that rubbing and stroking their penises feels really good, and this quickly morphs into a situation whereby a guy discovers that there are a nearly endless variety of pleasant sensations that are possible. Dylan quickly tended to look at this somewhat philosophically, in that a guy’s penis is capable of giving back an entire lifetime of ever new and fascinating sensations. Dylan had always thought that his understanding of all of this must be unique among his male friends the same or similar age. Dylan noticed that most of his guy friends at age 13 or 14 quickly become focused on girls their age. But in Dylan’s case at least he did not exactly feel what must have been a strong tug that was affecting how his male friends acted and what their interests appeared to be.

Dylan had always been a quiet, studious and serious kid and some of the things that his buddies were talking about, and if they dared, doing, didn’t seem to have that much appeal to him. But Dylan’s groin area was capable of giving him back some very powerful sensations under certain circumstances, circumstances that Dylan had kept quiet about during all of his high school years.

It’s funny how all of this has developed for Dylan. Once a guy figures out the pleasure to be had just by rubbing and stroking one’s own penis, a guy quickly figures out that there are certain items of clothing that can “accidentally” help along with the same thing. I suppose the first clothing item that guys that age soon discover is snug-fitting cotton brief underwear, often known as “tighty whiteys”. Dylan loved wearing these, but also as a teenager constantly worried that if he got too “carried away” so to speak, he would end up with an erection in a place where for a host of different reasons, it was not appropriate to have an erection. As a young high school student, Dylan noticed at the gym that most of the guys his age had switched over to wearing loose-fitting cotton boxers. Dylan surmised that this was because his male buddies were equally concerned about the possibility of ending up with a giant erection at some inopportune place or time, and that the snugger the fit, the greater those odds were. Dylan surmised that this was what was really going on in the heads of his buddies, but, like nearly all guys his age, Dylan never dared raise the subject with them for fear of the consequences should they take what he was asking the wrong way.

Of course, growing up, Dylan’s body was growing as well, which meant that the clothing Dylan had worn comfortably only a year or so ago was suddenly fitting quite snug. This particularly applied to his cotton briefs. Interestingly, Dylan had a special spot in a bottom dresser drawer back home where he kept pairs of tighty whiteys that, quite frankly, he realized he had outgrown. Dylan at an early age discovered that these were still quite useful to keep around, as the pairs with the tightest and snuggest fit were helpful “aids” in jerking off. So Dylan had what might be called a special collection of clothing items that he enjoyed masturbating into. Dylan surmised that his buddies might be enjoying the same ideas or at least something similar, but, of course, he never dared ask.

Then there were the jeans. Dylan knew that a snug-fitting pair of jeans could have some of the same effects, and, indeed, the combination of an overly snug pair of tighty whiteys could be, well, really fun. Dylan loved to look at himself in the mirror as he pulled on his favorite pair of old briefs, along with a pair of jeans that only recently fit him OK. The combination of the two really sent him off into another world.

So, now Dylan is a 19 y/o college student. Dylan has discovered something that up until now he had only speculated about—that guys actually go out and make purchases of specific snug-fitting clothing items with an eye toward finding the specific items that would be most fun to jerk off in. Dylan has gotten a huge “education” about all of this from Bill and Joe, and for that matter, from Tony and Donovan. What Dylan purchased in the Amazon® order was a huge move forward (or perhaps, backward) in this regard. There is suddenly all sorts of stuff going on in Dylan’s brain and body that Dylan had not experienced as a lowly high school student.

Dylan is excited, if you know what I am saying, but also a little scared. For starters, how much of this has Josh figured out with respect to exactly what is going on? Is Dylan messing around with stuff that is basically “gay” or can a guy continue to claim to be straight even as he enjoys all this stuff? What is Josh REALLY making of all of this? Is Josh starting to interpret this all as a form of gay behavior? Does Josh find it in some way interesting to see Dylan wearing his new garb? Josh SEEMS OK with what Dylan is doing, but is that really the case? What happens if Dylan ends up enjoying himself “too much”? Does that mean he is no longer straight?

And what if Josh buys some clothing items of his own? Can Dylan in any way admit to being turned on by helping Josh to do that? Bill and Joe are pretty obviously each turned on simply by observing what the other one is doing, but should that mean that Bill and Joe are actually gay and somehow no longer even interested in dating girls? And what about if Josh decides to try on his new items in the dorm room right front of Dylan? Should Dylan run and hide instead? Will Josh be OK with Dylan watching him? What happens if Dylan starts to get an erection just watching Josh?

Lots of interesting and complicated questions that need to be answered, for sure.

To be continued…

Dylan thinks...
 

Dylan has been doing a lot of thinking lately, both about where his live has gone as a guy so far and where it appears to be headed now that he is officially a young adult in college.

Ever since the dawn of puberty, maybe even a bit before, Dylan was always fascinated by clothing that fit him snug in the groin. It is at puberty that most guys quickly learn that rubbing and stroking their penises feels really good, and this quickly morphs into a situation whereby a guy discovers that there are a nearly endless variety of pleasant sensations that are possible. Dylan quickly tended to look at this somewhat philosophically, in that a guy’s penis is capable of giving back an entire lifetime of ever new and fascinating sensations. Dylan had always thought that his understanding of all of this must be unique among his male friends the same or similar age. Dylan noticed that most of his guy friends at age 13 or 14 quickly become focused on girls their age. But in Dylan’s case at least he did not exactly feel what must have been a strong tug that was affecting how his male friends acted and what their interests appeared to be.

Dylan had always been a quiet, studious and serious kid and some of the things that his buddies were talking about, and if they dared, doing, didn’t seem to have that much appeal to him. But Dylan’s groin area was capable of giving him back some very powerful sensations under certain circumstances, circumstances that Dylan had kept quiet about during all of his high school years.

It’s funny how all of this has developed for Dylan. Once a guy figures out the pleasure to be had just by rubbing and stroking one’s own penis, a guy quickly figures out that there are certain items of clothing that can “accidentally” help along with the same thing. I suppose the first clothing item that guys that age soon discover is snug-fitting cotton brief underwear, often known as “tighty whiteys”. Dylan loved wearing these, but also as a teenager constantly worried that if he got too “carried away” so to speak, he would end up with an erection in a place where for a host of different reasons, it was not appropriate to have an erection. As a young high school student, Dylan noticed at the gym that most of the guys his age had switched over to wearing loose-fitting cotton boxers. Dylan surmised that this was because his male buddies were equally concerned about the possibility of ending up with a giant erection at some inopportune place or time, and that the snugger the fit, the greater those odds were. Dylan surmised that this was what was really going on in the heads of his buddies, but, like nearly all guys his age, Dylan never dared raise the subject with them for fear of the consequences should they take what he was asking the wrong way.

Of course, growing up, Dylan’s body was growing as well, which meant that the clothing Dylan had worn comfortably only a year or so ago was suddenly fitting quite snug. This particularly applied to his cotton briefs. Interestingly, Dylan had a special spot in a bottom dresser drawer back home where he kept pairs of tighty whiteys that, quite frankly, he realized he had outgrown. Dylan at an early age discovered that these were still quite useful to keep around, as the pairs with the tightest and snuggest fit were helpful “aids” in jerking off. So Dylan had what might be called a special collection of clothing items that he enjoyed masturbating into. Dylan surmised that his buddies might be enjoying the same ideas or at least something similar, but, of course, he never dared ask.

Then there were the jeans. Dylan knew that a snug-fitting pair of jeans could have some of the same effects, and, indeed, the combination of an overly snug pair of tighty whiteys could be, well, really fun. Dylan loved to look at himself in the mirror as he pulled on his favorite pair of old briefs, along with a pair of jeans that only recently fit him OK. The combination of the two really sent him off into another world.

So, now Dylan is a 19 y/o college student. Dylan has discovered something that up until now he had only speculated about—that guys actually go out and make purchases of specific snug-fitting clothing items with an eye toward finding the specific items that would be most fun to jerk off in. Dylan has gotten a huge “education” about all of this from Bill and Joe, and for that matter, from Tony and Donovan. What Dylan purchased in the Amazon® order was a huge move forward (or perhaps, backward) in this regard. There is suddenly all sorts of stuff going on in Dylan’s brain and body that Dylan had not experienced as a lowly high school student.

Dylan is excited, if you know what I am saying, but also a little scared. For starters, how much of this has Josh figured out with respect to exactly what is going on? Is Dylan messing around with stuff that is basically “gay” or can a guy continue to claim to be straight even as he enjoys all this stuff? What is Josh REALLY making of all of this? Is Josh starting to interpret this all as a form of gay behavior? Does Josh find it in some way interesting to see Dylan wearing his new garb? Josh SEEMS OK with what Dylan is doing, but is that really the case? What happens if Dylan ends up enjoying himself “too much”? Does that mean he is no longer straight?

And what if Josh buys some clothing items of his own? Can Dylan in any way admit to being turned on by helping Josh to do that? Bill and Joe are pretty obviously each turned on simply by observing what the other one is doing, but should that mean that Bill and Joe are actually gay and somehow no longer even interested in dating girls? And what about if Josh decides to try on his new items in the dorm room right front of Dylan? Should Dylan run and hide instead? Will Josh be OK with Dylan watching him? What happens if Dylan starts to get an erection just watching Josh?

Lots of interesting and complicated questions that need to be answered, for sure.

To be continued…

Dylan awakens to a new day
 

Dylan got up this morning, feeling, well, more than a little horny. What exactly was going on with his body last night seems to be in something of a foggy haze. He slept through the night OK, pretty much, but this morning he recalls, if somewhat vaguely, moments (he thinks might have been around 2:30 AM) where he had what can only be described in his mind as a massive male erection. He doesn’t recall ejaculating at all during the night, and there are no tell-tale stains either on his bed-time clothing or the sheets that would provide any sort of clear evidence that he did. Despite having a big hard-on during the night, he must have held everything in.

Now Dylan knows all about the so-called nocturnal emissions, often referred to as wet dreams. But Dylan had neither a nocturnal emission nor, as he can recall, anything like a wet dream during the night. Still, Dylan knew that something was going on inside his body last night, something that could end up being embarrassing, but also offering him up a whole lot of pleasant feelings and sensations.

Dylan has had these experiences before. He has learned that in the morning, he feels one way if, during the night, he ejaculated in his bed, but psychologically quite different if there was just one or more erections, maybe big erections that did not somehow conclude with puddles of ejaculate. If the ejaculation happened during the night, usually Dylan wakes up in the morning feeling anything but horny. If anything, he awakens feeling a little tired. Maybe a better term would be exhausted. But, if the one or more serious erections occurred during the night that did not lead to ejaculation, he wakes up feeling horny, and seemingly his mind is almost totally preoccupied thinking about his private parts. Dylan always has thought that these two experiences were more than a little odd, but since he went into puberty, he has somehow learned a little about how to deal with all of this.

Dylan realizes that a nocturnal emission is actually something of a tension reliever the next morning, but somehow he wakes up not quite feeling as energetic as he does if the ejaculation did not happen. Dylan at some level also realizes that a lot of guys in his “unresolved” condition will wake up very focused on thinking about females, and in particular female private parts. But Dylan, at least this morning, is not there to the degree that he senses that some of his male friends get when faced with the exact same situation. Dylan is more nearly focused on his own private parts.

But there is more going on in Dylan’s brain than that. Ever since he got the Amazon order with all the stuff in it, he cannot help thinking about how his body would feel wearing each of the various items.

Dylan has a rather slender body, and he owns a couple pairs of the currently fashionable skinny jeans that he likes to wear to his classes. One of the pairs fits particularly tight and snug on Dylan’s frame. The waist size is 29 inches on those, an inch smaller than Dylan normally wears. But the jeans fit Dylan well, quite snug through his thighs and over his butt, with a nice low rise too. Dylan starts to pre cum just thinking about all of this. If Dylan is pre-cumming already just thinking about those jeans, that is more than ample evidence that he is feeling pretty horny.

Dylan starts to thinking about all the items he has from the order, and whether this might be the morning to wear one of the items to class under the skinny jeans, of course. A horny condition as Dylan is in with the lack of resolution during the night makes Dylan think about this possibility more and more intently. But which item?

Well, the strap with the cup is certainly a possibility. Dylan likes the strap and cup a lot but worries that this option may be a little too over the top at least on the first day of trying this scheme. For starters, the jeans may fit so tight that it would be obvious to others that there is something, namely the cup, right under the jeans. And what if he needs to pee? How does he deal with the cup standing at the urinal in the men’s restroom?

Naw, the first time at this needs to be a bit more subtle. The tiny little Desmiit swim brief, maybe? That is certainly a possibility, but maybe that is going overboard in the opposite direction of being a bit two subtle given how Dylan is feeling this morning.

A third possibility is the little Desmiit thong. Dylan knows that the thong is good at pressing his private parts up and forward. That outline under the jeans may make it appear that Dylan is “well endowed”, but not oddly so. And, at the restroom urinal he can just pull his penis out over the waistband of the little thong. Then there is that little strap between his butt cheeks which is certainly going to “capture his attention” in various ways as he walks off to class.

Dylan grabs the thong and puts it on. He pulls on those snug little jeans over. Wow! A great feeling with both items taken together. Dylan does not want the horny sensations to be so strong that he goes into full-scale ejaculation mode while listening to the classroom lecture. But he does not want to lose that terrific horny feeling that has occupied his mind and body since he awakened this morning either. This combination seems perfect.

Dylan pulls on tee shirt with a sweatshirt over. And he is off to class, still feeling horny as all get out.

To be continued….

Dylan makes it to class, but…
 

Dylan makes it to class, and finds his seat in the lecture hall, but he finds it difficult to keep his mind focused on the lecture in front of him. Dylan begins to think that it might have not been the brainiest idea to go off to class in the state of horniness he was in, without relieving himself first. Still, had he done that so late in the morning, he knew he would have likely felt sluggish and drained all day long. If you must relieve yourself, better to do that just before bedtime, so you have the night to recover.

Dylan’s choice of clothing to wear to class only makes his struggle with himself that much worse to bear. To be sure, Dylan is enjoying himself, very much so, but he is facing a problem not unlike what he faced when he was much younger, only 13 or 14 years old. At that point in time he was in near constant agony over the prospect of going into a full-scale ejaculation mode at a very inopportune time, place or both. Of course, that worry is nearly a constant source of agony for guys that age, but Dylan realizes that he is 19 years old now, and his mind and body should be far enough along in development such that he has developed enough control such that the problem is no longer a big concern, if at all.

Dylan has reached a point in his life where he greatly enjoys playing with his body in this regard, but what he did is, at least to a degree, pushing the limits for him. In some ways, Dylan thinks it is fun to try and press the limits right up to the edge, and then figuring out exactly when and how he needs to back off from going over the edge. However interesting this is, Dylan on occasion has been known to not always have his timing down exactly. The urge to ejaculate, on occasion, can be overwhelming, especially if a guy is messing around with himself on the very edge of going off. Sometimes, it is no longer possible to back off, even if the guy thinks he has developed a high degree of control over when he ejaculates that he did not have only a few years earlier.

Dylan has no one to blame but himself for the situation he now finds himself in. The thong underwear he chose to wear under those snug-fitting skinny jeans poses an interesting problem. The guys who wear thong underwear regularly, if not every day, probably eventually get “used” to the unique thong sensations from the snug pouch, the perineum area just behind the scrotum, and the rear band riding up between the butt cheeks, but for Dylan, having only tried on the underwear a time or two before, and in the privacy of his dorm room, all these sensations are still quite new and what might best be termed, “novel” to Dylan’s body. Dylan’s mind keeps getting dragged into what he is feeling and experiencing down there as the thong tugs on all sorts of places Dylan never knew before were sensitive and, for want of a better word, sexually “active.”

In this kind of a situation, Dylan’s body parts react to these new feelings and sensations the only way they know how. Furthermore, it didn’t help for Dylan to wear his tightest and snuggest pair of skinny jeans over the thong. Dylan is primarily concerned now that

1. The thong pouch is tiny compared to the pouch and absorbent cloth in any of his other non-thong underwear. So if he does go over the edge, there is little cloth to absorb any of the ejaculate, which is going to end up on his jeans.

2. The snug fit of the jeans that fit tightly against the pouch of the thong only add to the dilemma, making it all almost certain that there is going to be a very large wet spot right on the fly of his jeans.

At this point Dylan must avoid going over the edge and into full-scale ejaculation mode if at all possible, because the downside of a full-blown ejaculation is just too messy to even contemplate. I suppose one way of dealing with the situation at hand is to try and focus his mind on the lecture if he possibly can. But Dylan is now at the point where he is once again experiencing the same sensations, feelings and fears as he did as a 14-year old.

Penises do what penises do. Penises greatly enjoy being in confined spaces, and when they are in such a situation, they reward their owners with the most wonderful feelings and sensations. Penises have a remarkable ability to work their magic in whatever space they are given to expand. Penises love to grow in size to the point where they are pressing against all sides of whatever contains them. Dylan knows that, and part of Dylan’s fascination with the thong underwear and, for that matter, with the skinny jeans both of which give Dylan’s penis only a very limited space. As the penis comes in contact with the walls of what is confining it, it emanates the most sensational of feelings in Dylan’s brain. Dylan knows this, and that in large measure is how he got himself in the predicament he is now in.

To be continued…

Dylan ponders the situation
 

Dylan is thinking about all sorts of weighty stuff related to exactly what it means to be an adult male. Taking on a serious relationship with partner sex has many issues for any guy of any age, but particularly has a lot of down-sides for a 19-year old college freshman. But what is a guy like Dylan supposed to do? Practical solutions are few and far between to the problem of male hormones circulating and intentional and unintentional erections occurring, sometimes seemingly almost relentlessly, not only at night (aka wet dreams) but often during the day as well.

Males learn at a very early age that penises greatly enjoy being contained within a confined space, and oftentimes the snugger, the better. It is only somewhat later in life that it probably occurs to them that this is largely because the female vagina is the ultimate confined space for a male penis to be confined in, at least for straight guys. Dylan, at age 19, fully realizes all of this. It’s a basic biological issue not only for all humans, but for virtually all mammals in general. A driving force of nature focused on continuing the species. If a male of any species has any interest in sex at all, its all about getting the penis into a snug-fitting contained space. Dylan realizes that this is not only his problem or issue, but that each 19-year old college freshman is attempting to navigate while dealing with this erotic desire in his own way. Dylan also fully realizes that some of the guys have worked out paths that seem to be more successful in the short term than others, while others just seem to be just muddling along in trying to deal with their thoughts and feelings. The world for 19-year old college freshmen is pretty weird in this regard.

Any post-pubescent teen has, of necessity, developed a plan for dealing with these new-found sensations and feelings, a plan that typically involves solo sex (aka masturbation) on a regular basis. Guys quickly learn that this is something they should not be done in the view of family members, let alone, male peers, and in order to do this, at least during waking hours, requires a degree of privacy. Getting the necessary privacy for any significant length of time can be very difficult. What if a family member should wander in while you are “doing it”? This would be very embarrassing and difficult for a teen male. Young teen guys quickly learn how to move from an initial arousal state to ejaculation in a short period of time in order to limit the possibility of being “discovered”.

But being a college freshman in a not-very-roomy double room with another 19-year old male presents an all-new set of issues for Dylan. A 19-year old guy’s masturbation scheme is usually as closely guarded as any piece of personal information can be guarded. But now Dylan is dealing almost constantly with Josh, a good guy, but in the room a lot of time. How does Josh deal with the same issues as those affecting Dylan? Some college males seem to think that their roommates will be much more socially and sexually active with females and have male-female partner sex on weekend “dates that typically occur on Friday and Saturday nights. Then, presumably, the roommate can somehow make it through another week without masturbating. Dylan knows this is a foolish assumption on all sorts of levels. A 19-year old guy is a whole lot hornier than that and needs to “relieve himself” on a much more frequent basis than once every weekend, but, under the circumstances, how and when?

Dylan has learned a lot from Bill and Joe relating specifically to the entire issue of how the right pieces of clothing can make solo sex a lot more fun than plain old masturbation. As Dylan sits in his lecture wearing his male thong and skinny jeans, he is experiencing some of this first hand. Let’s assume that Dylan makes it through the lecture without ejaculating, however tough that might be. His situation sitting in the classroom is quite interesting. Remember that young teens lean to go from initial arousal to ejaculation quickly was a learned skill. But now Dylan is into a situation where he is way horny, and he is trying as best he can to keep everything under control.

Of course, Dylan remembers two incidents in high school where a male classmate was aroused and erect and wasn’t able to contain his ejaculation. Those guys suffered from a lot of post-ejaculation teasing and, indeed, bullying afterword, both being labeled as jerk-offs and worse. Dylan wonders how males handle situations like this as college freshman, and assumes that most college freshmen have more control over the situation in the groin area now than they did as high school teen. But that is an assumption.

Of course, Dylan has been learning that staying aroused at a level just below ejaculation is quite enjoyable, and with a bit of luck, sustainable for what might be an indefinite period of time. Still, Dylan is really horny, and he knows that as soon as he gets back to the dorm room the first thing he needs to do is to relieve himself. But Dylan kind of set himself up for this by choosing the thong and his tightest skinny jeans to wear to class. This is an interesting puzzle because Dylan is in large measure doing this to himself.

What if, when Dylan returns to the Dorm room, Josh is there? Or what if Josh wanders in just when Dylan is entering the final step? How is this all going to work after class, anyway?

Here is the complication. Dylan has started to believe that he is not unique or special, at least in one regard. The whole issue relates to how males react to being around other males who are clearly horny, erect, and masturbating to ejaculation. Dylan knows that if he were to wander into the dorm room where Josh was horny and masturbating, Dylan might be surprised, but he would be anything but upset. Dylan knows that just seeing Josh in this state would be arousing for Dylan as well.

The puzzle relates to how commonplace Dylan’s response to Josh’s arousal is? Does this mean that Dylan is actually gay not straight? Dylan assumes that gay guys his stage would love to be in a situation where they got to watch their male partners masturbate themselves. (And perhaps ask “May I help you?”) But are straight guys by definition never aroused by seeing another guy in an aroused state? Good question. Do any sex researchers know the answer to this question?

So, in terms of our story, what exactly is happening here? Joe and Bill helped Dylan make the Amazon order that they had to know was at some level going to put all their penises into more confined spaces than they were used to. Bill and Joe were OK with that, and Bill and Joe both seemed quite comfortable being around each other when they both knew that each other were horny. In fact, the mere knowledge that the other guy was struggling with a situation that was arousing was in itself a turn-on. Bill and Joe had to know that by helping Dylan place the order, they were putting Dylan into the same predicament that they were in wearing their snug-fitting stuff. The mere knowledge of this had to be a turn-on for Bill and Joe.

But now what of Dylan and Josh? When Josh accidentally wandered in on Dylan who was “trying on” some of his new gear, Josh seemed more than a little surprised, but he also did not seem at all upset. It took Josh only a minute or two to put two and two together and figure out what Dylan was doing to and with himself. Josh quickly responded that he would like to have some of the same or similar gear.

Dylan has to know that if he helps Josh “shop” for gear, he is setting up Josh in much the same way that Bill and Joe set Dylan up. Dylan is starting to think that it would be fun to get to watch Josh try on his gear as well, especially to see how Josh’s body and mind “reacts” to the new situation. Dylan starts to wander if this is a weird gay response on his part, a response that is not leading into gay partner sex, at least not now, but still psychologically and sexually interesting.

For right now, horny Dylan is still finishing the lecture in the lecture hall. He is aroused as all get out but has not ejaculated. He is hoping he can endure the situation at hand until he gets back to the semi-privacy of his dorm room. Tension builds, on all sorts of levels!

…To be continued

Dylan and his funky skinny jeans
 

I know a lot of readers have been very much focusing on the situation Dylan got himself into when he chose to wear that little Desmiit Thong to the classroom and the lecture this morning, and more generally, how the various items in the Amazon order were each playing a role in getting Dylan feeling horny. That is fine with me and I would not discourage either Dylan nor my readers from having some fun just thinking about all the various items, the little thong, the skimpy little swim brief, the Tesla compression tee and jammer-style shorts in that neon yellow-green color, the forest green wrestling singlet, and, of course, not to forget that wonderfully snug-fitting strap and cup. This collection of items makes a very good “shopping list” for any guy who gets turned on by being contained within snug-fitting clothing or is curious about that entire idea.

Now I fully realize that not every guy out there is going to experience the “reaction” to these items that Dylan appears to be experiencing. Maybe there are some guys out there who could wear any of these items without experiencing any physical (psychosexual) reaction at all to any of them. What makes all of this even more interesting is that each guy in terms of his response to all of this might be as unique as his own fingerprint. Some guys might find the whole idea of getting aroused simply by wearing various items of clothing to be silly or perhaps even distasteful.

Then too, some guys might find the whole idea of getting aroused just wearing a clothing item from this list as being something of a fetish, which would be just a variation on being a transvestite, which of course who are the males that get sexually aroused by wearing specific items of women’s clothing. To be sure, thong underwear is far more commonly worn by women than men, and this might be tied into some of the hesitation many males have toward the whole idea of wearing a thong designed for a male body. These guys might think that if they are going to wear something that skimpy, they might as well just “go commando.”

At least the items we are talking about are intended to be worn by males. Even the little thong is cut quite differently than a thong for females to accommodate the larger male anatomy. Whether or not the guy gets turned on when he wears them is a different issue, entirely. It used to be that the sexual psychologists claimed that any attraction a person had to an inanimate object such as an item of clothing was a fetish and any fetish was a form of abnormal sexual behavior that somehow needed to be stopped or corrected. Indeed, up until the early 1970s, the main body of psychologists claimed that the only non-abnormal way for a guy to get aroused had to be centered on having sex with a female partner. Being gay and any form of gay sex was certainly abnormal sexual behavior as was any sexual attraction to an inanimate object.

Heck, at least into the 1960s, psychologists and medical doctors even felt that any form of solo sex such as masturbation should be strongly discouraged. I reached puberty in the mid 1950s. I do not recall a lot of the details around something that happened to me shortly thereafter, but I do recall that at some point I was in a doctor’s office. I think I described to him in detail what I had done or been doing. If I recall correctly, the doctor’s response was “That’s OK and you are a normal boy your age, but I would certainly discourage you from doing that insofar as you can!”

OK, knowing me, I probably surprised the doctor at least a little by outlining in somewhat graphic detail what I had been doing. But I still recall walking out of the office thinking that the doctor’s response was really strange and unhelpful. If I wasn’t damaging my body, and I was completely normal boy my age, then exactly what was wrong with what I was doing and why should I stop? I am still wondering about the same thing.

But Dylan is not living in 1955 but in 2016. Sex with either a same-sex or an opposite-sex partner is now considered to be entirely normal. Oddly enough, masturbation, especially doing it too much, whatever that amount is, is still considered to be at least a little abnormal. The guys who masturbate a lot are, at minimum, social outcasts who lack the interpersonal skills necessary to have real partner sex, whether gay or straight. Then to, there is the purported link between a guy being discovered masturbating by a male peer who is then teased or bullied, called a jerk-off or a queer by his male peers (who are all also engaging in regular masturbation as well, but haven’t been caught by their peers, as of yet.)

All of this is suddenly really complicated. The only way the guy can survive with his peers on the subject of sex is to claim that he is only ever aroused by a female of about the same age. But bragging about this behavior creates a host of issues too not only for guys, but the females who are the objects of all the male attention.

For 19-year-old Dylan, the rules that applied in high school have broken down, if only a little. For starters, Bill and Joe seem comfortable admitting to each other that they can get turned on rather easily by wearing various snug-fitting clothing items. So too with the rowing team members Tony and Donovan, who seem to have something more complex going on than only being teammates on a college rowing team. Exactly what is going on with or between Tony and Donovan is not completely clear.

For Dylan, his biggest unanswered question is something about Bill and Joe. While it is completely clear to Dylan that both Bill and Joe are easily aroused just by wearing their snug-fitting clothing, and certainly Dylan is not the only guy out there who does this. The far more interesting question for Dylan is the question of whether Bill gets aroused just watching Joe getting into his own snug-fitting clothing, and the same for Joe’s response when he watches Bill do the exact same thing. Are all the guys who have such an arousal response somehow gay or bisexual, or would this be common for most guys whether they claim to be straight or gay?

If Dylan can find the answer to this question, he might also be able to better understand Josh’s reactions to what Dylan has been doing, and how much of this Dylan might dare to share with Josh. Dylan knows that Josh did not react at all like Dylan might have expected when Josh wandered in on Dylan trying on some of Dylan’s new gear. Dare Dylan take this all a step farther or not? Josh has already indicated that he might want to obtain some items of his own.

Oh, I was going to say something about Dylan’s funky jeans. All of my readers know that Dylan has liked snug-fitting clothing from even before puberty. The really snug-fitting jeans are interesting especially when worn in combination with some of the other items, they can create some interesting, even erotic sensations. Up until a few years back, men’s skinny jeans fit less snug that women’s jeans did. This was in large measure due to the fact that the Denim used in women’s jeans contained 2-percent stretchy Spandex, so the denim had a bit of stretch. At first, the jeans manufacturers did not know how men would react to denim containing Spandex. But one-by-one the manufacturers discovered that men like a bit of stretch in the denim, too, and started introducing Skinny jeans with a bet of stretch. This meant that men’s jeans could be as slim and as tight as the designers wanted to be, too. With that, the sloppy, oversized jeans were suddenly out of style, and the so-called Asian style, as in really skin-tight jeans, became increasingly popular for men. Nowadays men can even buy formal black suits with a Skinny, athletic look.

Dylan has surely figured all of this out. Dylan has one pair of jeans that fit him really skinny and tight. They are made of denim laced with Spandex ® fibers. That is the pair he wore to class today, over the little thong. And the jeans are part of the reason Dylan is feeling so horny. To be sure, Dylan pretty much knew all of this was going to happen and he went ahead anyway.

In Dylan’s mind, the ideal pair of skinny jeans
1. Fits really snug in the lower leg, with barely enough room to contain his calf muscles.
2. Fits like a second skin over Dylan’s thighs
3. Fits very snug in the butt and through the entire groin area
4. The waist of the Spandex ®-laced denim stretches, so Dylan can and does wear a 29-inch waist in his ultra-skinny jeans instead of his usual 31 without any undue problems
This describes well the jeans Dylan wore to class today.

So, the class is (finally) over. Dylan is still feeling horny as all get out, and his urge to ejaculate is getting more and more powerful. Dylan is headed back to his dorm room, fully knowing that the first thing he needs to do is deal with his now all but overwhelming need to get off. But what if Josh is there? What if Josh should wander in at a most inopportune moment? Dylan clearly can’t hold off for much longing. All morning has been a struggle, a struggle that Dylan knew he would ultimately “lose” (or perhaps win, depending on your perspective on all of this).

At the same time, Dylan has been enjoying himself immensely. His body is capable of making him feel great in ways he had never dreamed of before. I am not the least bit sorry for the situation he is in. At some level Dylan knows that as well. Dylan still has all the questions as outlined in this chapter, but that certainly is not the entire story. There is more, far more to the story than that!

To be continued…

Dylan walks back to the dorm room…
 

Dylan has managed to make it through class and is walking back to his dorm room. Class was a struggle to get through in an effort to not get to the point where ejaculation could not be delayed, but somehow Dylan has managed. Dylan, by his choice in underwear and jeans, set himself up for this both physically and psychologically. Dylan is now 19-years old, of course, and he has a bit more control over his body and groin area than he did when he was, say, 13 or 14 years of age. But getting even to this point has not been an easy or simple path.

Every guy who is growing up from puberty to being a college freshman faces much the same issues. On one hand, getting aroused and erect to the very edge of ejaculation feels terrific, and it doesn’t take a post-pubescent guy much time to figure this all out. The real issue becomes what does a guy do if he slips over the edge, (which is certainly easy enough to do if you aren’t really in control)? Still, the sensations that come from playing around this way at the very edge of having gone too far forward to delay ejaculation further are just too much fun to not pursue. But where, and when?

As I have already indicated, Dylan has brought a lot of this on himself by his choice of items to wear to class. Dylan knew that he would be pushing the arousal and ejaculation envelope, and he chose to go ahead anyway. The “game” that Dylan has been playing with his own mind and body is very different as a college freshman than what he did as a high school teenager. As a young teen, the objective was to learn how to masturbate as quickly as possible in the privacy of a bathroom so as to not be “caught” by a peer or family member, and then, once this was over and done with, just act nonchalant as if nothing had happened. The whole idea of having special clothing items that would increase the arousal level was a non-starter, of course.

As a young teen, night-time erections and ejaculations have their own problems, the main one being that the wet stains on your sleepwear or bed sheets would be “discovered” by a peer (say, at camp or in an overnight sleepover) or by family member, Mom’s raising young teen boys (apparently) adapt to what is happening fairly quickly and learn not to ask questions about starchy stains showing up on sheets or sleepwear, but peers and other family members might not be so kind or gentle in this regard for sure.

So here is Dylan, still desperate to get off, still containing what is now a near-full hard-on inside his thong and super skinny jeans. The thong is particularly odd-feeling, at this point. When Dylan initially put it on this morning, he thought to himself that wearing it to class was no big deal, psychologically or sexually, but as Dylan started to get more and more aroused, and harder and harder, his expanding penis started to feel more and more confined within the thong pouch. The snug fit of the jeans helped to keep his penis from pointing straight out as it grew, but there were other sensitivity issues. From the moment Dylan pulled the thong on, he could feel the upward pressure in the sensitive perineum area, even though the rear of the thong was more or less laying on top of his butt crack, not cutting between the butt cheeks. Any well-fitting thong pushes a guy’s scrotum and penis upward and forward. Some guys like this, but other guys think that this would more nearly be uncomfortable than sexually arousing.

As the penis gets bigger and bigger, the thong pouch still contains it, or at least makes a fervent attempt to do so. But the “problem” is that the bigger the penis gets, the more upward pressure the thong is going to be put on the perineum area, and as the penis occupies more and more of the pouch space, the back of the tong will increasingly seize up between the butt cheeks. Unless a guy is somehow brain-dead (unlikely), what is happening will continue to feed the whole system driving the erection in the first place. This might be uncomfortable, but more than likely in a horny state anyway, the sensations are way fun.

So Dylan is back to the dorm, desperate to ejaculate. He heads to his room. The room provides privacy UNLESS Josh happens to wander in on him. Remember, the men’s bathroom is way down the hall. Dylan enters the dorm room. Luckily, Josh is not there. Josh pulls down his jeans, and begins to “examine” himself in the mirror. He sees that he has really filled out the thong pouch, with damp quarter-sized pre cum spots on the pouch as well. Dylan thinks he looks quite sexy. Desperate to ejaculate, Dylan starts to run his fingers along the underside of his penis along its full length, enjoying the “moment” immensely. His penis, still inside the thong pouch, quickly responds by growing s little longer still. Dylan is about to go into full-scale ejaculation mode, and he knows it!

Suddenly, Dylan hears that familiar click of a key entering a door lock. Josh must be back from class. His class must have gotten over a little early today.

To be continued…

Josh enters…
 

Dylan thought he had the dorm room to himself, as it was more than 20 minutes until Josh would be back from his morning class. Dylan was really focused on his own sensations and feelings, and was desperate to get off, given how the morning had evolved. Dylan was standing there in the room, literally butt-naked, wearing only that little Desmiit ® thong and a tee shirt over the top. Dylan knew that the only other person with a key to the room was Josh, so it had to be Josh with the key in the lock.

As a teen-ager, Dylan had gotten quite good at figuring out when he was likely to have some privacy, and had found ways to take advantage of that knowledge for determining his schedule for engaging in “self abuse.” Teen boys gradually become more and more independent of the rest of the family in this regard, and Dylan had been part of a process that was considered by everyone to be “quite normal.” Dylan had gradually gotten to the point whereby his parents (and siblings) did not “need” to know what Dylan was up to at every moment during the day. This is all part of just growing up for a teen boy, but, conveniently, it is also part of a “learning process” related to identifying the best and “safest” ways for “pleasuring oneself”.

Some parents of teen boys probably understand this process of giving them some of their “own space” quite well, but maybe others not so much. Many parents worry about all of the stuff that might be going on inside the heads of guys that age. Dads are worried that their teen boys are dealing with psychosexual issues as complicated as they were for them. These are difficult navigational waters for sure. But what is going on is also a very necessary part of growing up for a teen male.

Even so, the “situation” Dylan now faces, with Josh about to open the door of the dorm room, with Dylan dressed and in the condition he is now in is unlike anything Dylan has encountered in his short life. There is nowhere for Dylan to run and hide. Dylan has only himself to blame for the “predicament” he is now in.

Dylan has been stroking his penis from the outside of the thong, and he has gotten as big and hard as Dylan ever recalls feeling. This feels great! Actually, a better term would be “fabulous.” Of course, the pressure that has been building on Dylan, sexual and psychological, all morning along, deserves much of the “blame”. As Josh enters the room, there is no way for Dylan to somehow hide what he has been doing and the condition he is in.

Josh enters the room, and is taken aback by what he has accidentally walked into. Actually, Josh is flabbergasted by what he is seeing close up. Of course, Josh knows that guys self-pleasure and in his teen years he has accidentally encountered situations whereby he was pretty certain that a peer had been only recently masturbating himself. But he has never before walked in on a guy quite in the obvious state of arousal that Dylan is currently in.

Dylan doesn’t quite know what to do or say either. Perhaps the best strategy is to just continue to stroke himself, and acting as if Josh is not even there. After all, the proverbial “cat is out of the bag” now, so to speak. It is quite clear to Josh that Dylan likes to pleasure himself while wearing a skimpy little thong. Besides, Dylan is all but certain that Josh will not tease or bully Dylan under the circumstances or that what Josh is seeing be shared with any of their friends. College students as a rule are smart enough not to do that. But still Dylan realizes that the entire situation is more than a little embarrassing even as the sensations are extra pleasant. What a dilemma of mixed thoughts and feelings!

It takes a moment for Josh to regain his composure given what he is observing. Josh struggles to say anything, even after regaining some of his composure. The only thing Josh can think of saying is “Don’t let me disturb you, Dylan!”

Strangely enough, Dylan is so desperate to ejaculate that he keeps right on stroking the underside of his penis from base to glans through the little Desmiit ® thong. All of a sudden, the seemingly crazy thought occurs to Dylan that having Josh in the room watching Dylan pleasure himself is a bit of a turn-on not a turn-off. The realization that having another guy in the room obviously watching him masturbate could be a psychosexual turn-on was an all new thought to Dylan. What does THAT imply, for goodness sakes?

Meanwhile, Josh is having some psychosexual issues to deal with as well. At a very basic level, Josh is starting to “admire” the situation Dylan is in and doing to himself. Josh has always had a deeply-buried “curiosity” with respect to wanting to know more about exactly what happens to other guys when they get aroused, erect, and in a situation of having a desperate desire to ejaculation. Depending on your view, Josh walked in on Dylan at just the right moment (or perhaps wrong moment, depending on your perspective on the events at hand) to observe all of this real life first-hand. Weirdly, Josh is starting to think that it would be most interesting to be in the place that Dylan is in right now. What a strange (but oddly wonderful) thought!

Josh wonders if the thoughts he is now having are common for guys his age or not.

How would other guys deal with the situation that currently confronts Josh? Are the thoughts that Josh is having suggestive of the possibility that Josh has a deep-seated gay streak? Given the situation at hand, would most guys Josh’s age who think of themselves as straight have quickly made an exit to allow Dylan to continue to jerk off in privacy, or would many guys be curious enough about the psychosexual behaviors of other males their own age to stick around?

Same with Dylan. Dylan could have made a quick attempt to stop the masturbation fun and get himself covered in a pair of baggy shorts as soon as he heard the key go into the door lock, but he somehow chose not to. Does that mean that Dylan must somehow have a gay streak too? And what of that thought that crossed Dylan’s mind that it was actually arousing to have Josh in the room watching Dylan jerk off. Dylan suddenly wonders what that thought might or might not have to do with Dylan’s sexuality deep down.

What concerns Josh the most is that Josh is suddenly feeling arousal rumblings in his own groin area as he observes Dylan stroking himself in the state he is in. What in the world is that all about anyway? Maybe it’s a clue that Josh would really like to have his own little thong to help him pleasure himself. Oddly, that is an easier and “safer” rationale than to go down the trail of concluding that watching Dylan stroke himself while in a very aroused state is in itself arousing for Josh.

Josh has long thought deep down that he wanted to see exactly how other guy’s bodies respond when they get very aroused and are traveling along near and perhaps over can’t stop now point of ejaculation. Now that he is in this situation, he is discovering that his own body responds as well in a situation like this.

This chapter has raised a lot of fascinating questions and provided only unclear answers, if at all. What would my readers have done if they found themselves in either Josh’s or Dylan shoes right now? (But Dylan is not even wearing shoes right now!)

To be continued…

What to wear when going to the doctor's for full physical and medical treatment.
 

I had an appointment with the dermatologist, when my doctor found a cancerous mole in my lower right leg. Iv'e never had to deal with such a frightful medical situation. I felt very nervous and somewhat scared going there, but to offset my anxieties, I wore my favorite snug and warm clothes, soft button up flannel shirt, with my favorite snug denim overalls and leotard, tights and Speedo style microfiber briefs underneath and of course a change of loose clothing and baggy underwear to wear after my treatment. It was a very cool October day, I arrived at the specialist's, office that afternoon feeling fearful of what will happen to me, yet glad I was glad to be wearing wearing my warm and snug outfit, while still dressed. After waiting a while and filling out a lot of forms, I handed them to the receptionist, when called in by the nurse. She took me to a large examination room with a lot of new technical equipment. The doctor then came into the examination room, as I sat on the exam table, a very pretty female doctor. She explained what will be done starting with a complete body scan for any other malignet moles, then cutting out any possible remaining infection. It'll take a few hours and you'll have to be completely undressed through the process and covered by a gown. The nurse then came back with the big white gown, when both her and the doctor said I could take my time undressing, as I'm the last patient for the day. I was helped off the exam table by the nurse, seeing me in my warm and snug clothes. I was so nervous and blushing somewhat, when asked what I had on under the overalls, as all my clothes have to come off. Between the secure feeling of the snug overalls and leotards underneath, then the nurse offering to help me undress if needed, gave me an erection, not yet not noticable under all my warm clothes. I did accept her offer to help me in a shy like manner. The doctor stayed in the examination room preparing and setting up the highly technical medical equipment, as the nurse partially closed the privacy curtain surrounding me. My anxiety was so high now, despite the nurse and doctor reassuring me not to be so fearful. It will not be as bad as I fear and will be fine after the examination and treatment, then having me take off my sneakers and socks,covering my feet still encased in the tights underneath. There I stood,like a sad little boy about to loose his warm and snug security blanket, closing my eyes and crossing my legs, hearing snaps opening , bib and straps on the snug overalls being unfastened by the nurse. She told me not to be embarrassed or ashamed being naked and hard, as this a normal happening for a man going through a medical exam. I did feel a little better, as she gently unbuttoned my flannel shirt with the overalls shoulder straps and bib dangling at my waist with the overalls still snug in my lowers. She was very professional and gentle with me and now I began enjoying being undressed by her. Yes, the doctor was still in the room, glancing every so often to see how the nurse and I were progressing, getting me ready for examination and leg surgery. Now the nurse guided me onto the exam table, where I would be totally naked, for at least one hour, while the doctor and nurse did the proceedure on me. Now she pulled off my shirt, gently folding it and placing it on a chair. I was feeling very aroused, knowing my snug clothes will be off me very soon. The nurse stepped asked how I was feeling, again reassuring me to to be so fearful. She then finished unbuttoning the overalls side buttons, lifting my leotard clad body, lower torso, pulling and tugging them down and off me. it certainly tickled and did make me feel some what less fearful of what was about to happen, but I still couldn't finish undressing, so she continued undressing me. Now the last extra snug and secure last protective clothing was coming off, leotard, tights and Speedo style briefs. It was a long and slow process, getting them off, but she didn't mind, being the medical surgery will take her and the doctor a lot more time and care. I have to admit, I did like having all my clothes being taken off, especially my leotard, tights and the Speedo briefs, with her getting totally naked for the operation. The doctor looked back again,then came over to the exam table, as the nurse peeled off my last protective layers, tights and briefs, then covering me in the gown, looking like tent city. Once, I was naked, laying on the exam table, I did savor having my favorite snug outfit taken off piece by piece, while the doctor would examine all my body for any other possible cancer bearing moles. Soon the pain reducing needle took effect and Wasn't feeling any real pain and really relaxed now, but still glad I wore my favorite snug clothes to the dermatologist. I wasn't happy wearing my baggy clothes home, yet wearing and having my warm snug overalls and leotards with sexy Speedo style briefs having to come off, certainly made a long day at a doctor's office go a lot better.

An interesting dilemma for both Josh and Dylan, for sure…
 

et’s face reality here. 19-year old college guys, dorm roommates, talk about a lot of stuff. As anyone who lived under the circumstances of a college dorm. There is a wide variation with respect to how roommates fare living with each other. I guess the young college women face a lot of the same issues and concerns, but for guys, the struggle to find a workable way of navigating through the process with a male roommate frequently seems even more difficult.

Male buddies are oftentimes very good friends, and they talk about a lot of stuff and share information about what they know or have recently learned. This sharing of information is particularly important for teen boys just past puberty, when they suddenly become very interested in understanding anatomical details that they had little interest in prior to reaching puberty. For most young guys this involves uncovering the details of female anatomy and in particular the details of how sex works with a female partner.

A classic “coming-of-age” movie from the the 1970s is one called “Summer of ‘42” where Hermie, a young teen boy, encounters and then falls for a much older woman, a woman who lost her husband in World War II. A lot of the movie follows Hermie and his male buddies as they together learn about female anatomy and how to have sex with a woman from old books they secreted away. The “climax” of the movie is when Hermie actually has sex with the older woman.

Coming-of-age movies involving young teen guys who think they are gay are far rarer, and I am not aware of any movies that deal with that topic in the same way coming of age movies exist involving straight males. Gay teens obviously learn stuff about other guys in some manner, but the entire path is less clear and perhaps more complicated than the one depicted involving coming-of-age encounters for straight males.

So, where things get complicated for teen males irrespective of whether they think they are straight or gay has to do with the fact that while guys talk about a lot of stuff with their male buddies, the discussions usually center on some third party, presumably a female, as it did in the “Summer of 42” movie.

This means that any talk about what happens to a guy as he becomes aroused and how a guy responds sexually is off limits unless that discussion focuses on what is happening during a sexual encounter with a female partner, and guys vary a lot even on how they treat this.

In this regard, some guys are braggadocios, that is, when they have a sexual encounter with a female, they like to brag about it to their male friends. Even male adults who should be old enough to know better still do this, which is more than a little odd for sure.

A basic problem with the bragging is that whatever the guy said ends up circling back to the girl involved, and at that point all hell breaks loose. A guy quickly learns that if he has any sincere feelings for the girl then need to keep his mouth completely shut on what happened in the encounter, and that includes a completely closed mouth even to his closest male buddies.

Encounters involving other males for guy with, shall we say, have gay leanings get even trickier, because if that information should ever get back to a straight male, it sets the guy up for teasing, bullying, and worse. But the entire set of rules here are really complicated here in part because teen males learn a lot of stuff from their buddies, but the entire topic of what happens to a guy involved either in solo sex or in having some sort of an encounter with a male partner his age are strictly off-limits topics.

Now we circle back to Josh and Dylan and the activities going on right now in the dorm room. Josh and Dylan are both 19, and should know a lot more about sex in all its forms than they did as young teen boys. Further, in college, the general threats of being teased and bullied are less than they would have been as a young teen. For any number of reasons, Josh is not the kind of guy who is going to dash out into the hallway and tell any guy who might listen to him all the details of what he observed in the dorm room. At some level, Dylan fully understands that too. So, if this is a secret event, the secret is safe between the two.

Still, there are tons of unanswered questions. Let me raise the issues one by one. First, initially taken aback by the sound of Josh’s key in the dorm room lock, Dylan has quickly gotten to the point where there is something that he sort of likes about the idea of having Josh there watching him jerk off and observing the nuances of what he is doing to himself at every moment. Take note that Dylan did not suddenly stop stroking himself from base to glans (nor, for that matter, suddenly lose his erection) the moment Josh wandered into the room. This brings up thoughts that maybe many guys, however actively they attempt to hide their masturbation, might in fact find it arousing to being accidentally “discovered.” But, of course, that depends by whom.

Second, with Josh standing there, the sexual sensations, indeed the stiff erection itself, seems to be getting stronger and stronger, which is particularly interesting because Dylan has been riding along at near the point of ejaculation all morning long. Dylan has been having the “advanced course” in ejaculatory control for sure.

Third, Josh had always thought he would be “turned off” by seeing another guy his age erect and masturbating, and this turn-off was simply part of the whole deal of being a straight guy. But aren’t straight guys supposed to only be turned on in encounters with women? Indeed, when a guy finds a female partner, he is suppose to discard or simply leave all of his psychosexual interest in solo sex behind and never engage in solo sex again. Or, maybe not! Josh is not so sure at this point. But that is not how Josh feels right now at all, definitely not.

Fourth, Josh is having issues of his own right now and these issues are centered in his groin area. Josh just observing Dylan is feeling the tell-tale rumblings of sexual arousal himself, rumblings that cannot be ignored. At some level, Josh is thinking that would be a lot of fun to be in Dylan’s shoes right noy, except that Dylan is not wearing any shoes. Josh is trying to determine what exactly is causing his body to respond the way it is. Part of could be that skimpy thong Dylan is wearing, putting pressure on his perineum, and pushing Dylan’s penis and balls both up and forward. By Dylan has never tried on a thong, so he has no first-hand experience with these sensations. Josh at some point has already decided that he wants to try wearing a thong too, but that is not where he is this morning.

For Josh, what’s scarier still is the idea that he seems to like to watch Josh jerk off, and this gets more and more fun to watch as Dylan gets closer and closer to shooting. At some level, Josh understands this.

But what does all of what is going on this morning suggest for the subject of the sexuality of Dylan and of Josh? Can they both still think of themselves as perfectly straight? Josh and Dylan are both wondering about the same “crazy question.” Of the college guys in the dorm, how many would be turned off by what is happening versus turned on? Does being turned on at all mean that deep down, at some level, you are a gay guy? This is a good question for sure, and a question where there is no easy or simple response.

To be continued…

Here is the situation
 

Both Dylan and Josh are in a most interesting situation right now. As I have indicated a number of times already, since the dawn of puberty, Dylan gas been fascinated with snug-fitting clothing of various sorts. There is a lot of interesting stuff and mysteries about human male sexuality. The first mystery facing young guys entering puberty is how sensations that occur stroking or even just touching one’s own penis can feel so remarkably good way up in a guy’s brain.

More details regarding how the sexual turn-on system works come into focus as a guy gets into his teen years, with each “experiment” yielding more new “information”, information that might ultimately prove to be not only useful, but quite frankly, enjoyable.

Dylan learned at a very early age that the nerve endings in his penis do not seem to behave the same way no matter what. Indeed, if he is not in any way sexually aroused or turned on at all, Dylan’s penis feels almost like any part of his body, at least pretty much so. But any sort of arousal, even that occurring in a brief moment, makes his penis suddenly feel way different and more interesting, almost immediately. It’s almost as if his penis has some sort of strange built-in “trigger mechanism” that somehow “knows” what is happening that is sexually arousing even before the guy is consciously aware of it. This all gets very, very complicated in a hurry. Part of what makes this complicated is that the arousal mechanism often is simply visual, or perhaps mainly physical, or perhaps a screwball mix of the two. Whatever is happening in the arousal department seems to be a curious mixture of what is considered socially acceptable (seeing a pretty girl, perhaps) and socially “unacceptable” (as in seeing a handsome guy) and then all that screwball stuff that is in uncharted territory (such even thinking about having sex with yourself, or perhaps getting to wear tight-fitting clothing).

Nature could have certainly been kinder to guys and made sure that turn-ons only happen if whatever is doing the turn on is socially acceptable, but there is all this other dumb stuff that seems to be there only to confuse things for the guy who is just trying to muddle through life without getting teased or bullied. How come human biology messed all of his up so badly, for goodness sakes?

Human penises really love being in confined spaces, and they show their love to the guys who put them there by providing the most wonderful and interesting sensations. Human penises love being in confined spaces so much that they sometimes can’t resist getting all excited if the guy even THINKS about putting his into a confined space. Penises are so sensitive that they like to respond to ANY indication that the space enveloping them is confining, even if it is psychological as opposed to direct physical content. To further muddy the waters, if the penis thinks it could be in a confined space, but the space it is now in is not quite snug enough, it has the remarkable ability to grow in length and girth just enough so it fits exactly into the available space. At once, the guy is driven bananas by all of this, but at the same time is enjoying the sensations immensely.

What is going on here anyway? Well, this is the “dumb” scheme nature figured out so the species will continue. If the species is to reproduce and sustain itself, copulation has to be fun, a lot of fun for both sexes. And it is. Otherwise humans wouldn’t be that interested in doing it and the species would quickly die off.

But, the vast majority of male orgasms do not lead directly to reproduction. Yet they happen anyway. Nature had to know that this would go on—guys pleasuring themselves with the “seed” falling in places where reproduction cannot occur, etc etc. This stuff is fun for a guy too, maybe not as much fun as “real” sex, but still a lot of fun. (There is actually a lot of debate on that point, by the way, and, if you ask a sex researcher, they are less convinced than they once were even that most guys find sex with a partner more enjoyable than plain old solo masturbation. The thoroughly modern view on this topic is that for most guys at least, there is a place for both. Masturbation for sexual pleasure no longer has second-tier status as it did years back.)

At this point, many of my readers probably think that I have completely forgotten about Dylan and Josh, and what is happening right now in the dorm room. I have not forgotten at all. Dylan is having so much fun I thought I would just let him have at it stroking himself in that tiny thong underwear, with Josh looking on. (What is happening surely is not gay sex in any form, or is it?)

As a young teen Dylan has always been fascinated with how snug-fitting clothing triggered a response by his body. The items that “did” this for Dylan included a number of different things, and a lot of them he acquired in that order he placed with Bill and Joe. The little thong Dylan is using today is just one of those items, all of which Dylan knows will set him off, arousal-wise.

Dylan has long wondered if he was unique among guys in his ability to get turned on simply by wearing (or even think about wearing) snug fitting jeans, underwear, compression wear, swimming briefs, thongs, wrestling singlets) and what if masturbation occurred while he was wearing this stuff. Is this part of partner sex or a replacement for partner sex or something way off in some uncharted and undefined territory.

As a high school teen, raising issues like this with even close peer males was really totally off limits as the danger of getting teased, bullied, called a faggot or whatever was just too great.

Dylan got quite an “education” from Bill and Joe even though he didn’t ask them directly any of these questions. Dylan was able to quickly put two and two together and figure out that something way important was driving their “interest” in owning all the gear. Tony and Donovan filled in some more blanks in this regard.

So Dylan understands what he is doing to himself, even if he doesn’t understand the answers to all the “Why” questions that have been bouncing around in his mind lately. And Dylan is learning a lot from Josh as Josh just stands there taking everything in that Dylan is doing to himself. Not only does Josh not appear to be put off by all of this, Josh seems to be rather enjoying himself even though he is not actively participating in what he is seeing. That is a very different response than Dylan ever imagined.

Dylan certainly has that figured out right. For the moment, Josh’s little “secret” is that Josh’s body is responding to what Josh is seeing, even though that might not be at all obvious, especially given that Josh is fully clothed. Josh doesn’t quite know how to “read” his body in that regard, but he is subconsciously getting turned on by just seeing Dylan stroking himself in that tiny thong to near the point of orgasm. Josh is thinking to himself that he is getting to see something he has never before seen in real life, that being getting to see how another guy’s body behaves as it goes past the point of no return and into a full-blown orgasm.

College is an educational experience in all sorts of ways. This is one of them!

To be continued…